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JCarlson2004 · 12-30-2005, 08:39 AM

OMG! I am so freakin angry right now that I could just smash something!! I have a "friend" named Sandra (I don't know if I consider her a friend anymore after this crap) who adopted a beautiful little Russian Blue female RESCUE cat about 1 year ago. This cat was sooooo adorable and sweet. Plus she was already spayed and up to date on all shots. Sandra and her husband, Charley, only kept this cat for 1 month. Then one day Charley got "mad" at the cat and kicked it out the front door in the MIDDLE OF WINTER while there was SNOW ON THE GROUND!! I was so damn angry at him for doing that and at Sandra for allowing him to do that. I knew that Charley was getting fed up with the cat (god only knows why) and he wanted to get rid of it. So I had told him many times that if he decides to get rid of it, PLEASE give it to me and I would find a home for it. But what did he do? He threw the poor beauty out in the dead of winter. Bastard!

After I found out, my husband and I drove around their block for hours in search of this cat. But I was not able to find her.

So anyway, about 2 months ago Charley told me that he wanted to buy a female Siberian Husky. I said to him, "ARE YOU CRAZY?? You couldn't even take care of a simple 6 lb cat!! And now you want a BIG dog which will require a lot more attention then a cat???" Also his wife Sandra is HIGHLY allergic to fur. But Charley was seriously adamant about getting a dog -- so I felt that if they were going to get one regardless of what I said to discourage them, I should at least direct them to a GOOD breeder so that they don't buy from a pet shop. I found them a GREAT breeder in PA but the breeder didn't have any pups available right now. She told us that she was going to breed her female sometime in February when she came into heat. So Charley said that he'd wait and get a pup from her -- and I was at least happy that he'd have some time to think this whole situation over and maybe even reconsider.

Well what did the RETARD do? He went to A World of Pets (PUPPY MILL!

) and bought a Siberian Husky from them!! I was sooooo pissed! But here's the part that really makes my blood boil ... he only kept the pup for 2 weeks and then returned her because "she was too much work and because Sandra was allergic to her"!!!!!!!! Well HELLLLOOOOO if you cannot handle a cat, then how the heck are you going to handle a damn big dog??

And if your wife has SEVERE allergies, what makes you think a Siberian Husky won't trigger those allergies?

The reason I am even more angry today is because Sandra just called me and said that she and Charley are now thinking of getting another cat!!!

I said to her, "ARE YOU SERIOUS?? Why don't you go search fro the cat that you thew out last year?" And then I hung up on her!

PS - A World of Pets did NOT return any of his money -- He paid $1,000 for the dog. I'm GLAD that they did not return his money -- he deserves it!

PSS - It pisses me off that they threw out a RESCUE cat in particular. That cat was already saved from the streets, she was all cleaned up, spayed and up to date on shots. She had a second chance at life and then was thrown out into the streets again! I feel so sorry for that poor baby.

txshopper73 · 12-30-2005, 08:41 AM

Stupid, ignorant people!

Lexi Rae · 12-30-2005, 08:44 AM

wow jen, people like that would not be a friend of mine.. im glad you hung up on them... they really dont deserve to have a pet, not even a fish..they both are real ass-----. this makes me mad too

stay away from them both,you know its gonna happen again, you know they will get another pet and do the same..

lily's mom · 12-30-2005, 08:44 AM

I am so glad he lost all of his money too!!!!!!! What are they thinking?!

waistfull · 12-30-2005, 08:45 AM

Oh my that is horrible. You would think he would have learned his lesson by now. I wonder what why he keeps making such big mistakes?

livingdustmops · 12-30-2005, 08:47 AM

Sorry but they would definitely be off my friend list..grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[B]I would also tell the rescue group what they did so they could pass the word on these people so any other rescue group would have their names blocked also. Your name would not be involved and you will be saving another animal from this same kind of fate.[/B]

I do not tolerate "so called friends" that are cruel to animals.

rrosenberry · 12-30-2005, 08:48 AM

I totally understand your anger.. what a jerk! I work with guy like that,, we have had it out many times,,,he get's animals. gets rid of them, ( dumps them)
Unbelievable,, DO they both have SHORT term memory problems?? I would have hung up too.. YOU don't need to deal with that, it is obvious they are gonna make their own STUPID mistakes.. WOW..is all I can say.

JCarlson2004 · 12-30-2005, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Lexi Rae

wow jen, people like that would not be a friend of mine.. im glad you hung up on them... they really dont deserve to have a pet, not even a fish..they both are real ass-----. this makes me mad too

stay away from them both,you know its gonna happen again, you know they will get another pet and do the same..

The only reason I haven't completely broken friendship with them is because Sandra has some emotional problems. She was abused by her parents as a child and we've been friends since we're little kids. I've always sort of taken care of her. She moved in with me and my family when she was 15 years old to get away from her parents and the abusive situation. So I always feel like I am betraying her because she's not 100% well. But Charley has NO excuse! Just looking at him makes me sick. Sandra called me back after I hung up on her and I told her that I don't think I can be friends with them anymore because of what they do to animals ... and they know I am a huge animal lover and I volunteer at an animal shelter!! She started crying and got all upset. It's like a big guilt trip on me. I feel torn because she isn't well but I feel like I am betraying my own heart and conscience by remaining their friend.

chachi · 12-30-2005, 08:48 AM

Sounds like your friends shouldnt have pets at all. I know this had to be really upsetting to you. Everyone here on yorkietalk are animal lovers. Anyone that would kick a cat shouldnt have a pet.I feel so sorry for that cat.

Inluvyorkie · 12-30-2005, 08:48 AM

Grrr! that upsets me also. Why are some people soo ignorant! I am also glad he lost his money, having a pet is a lot of responsibility and he should of thought about that before fronting that kind of money.

My2Furbabies · 12-30-2005, 08:49 AM

These people sound a little crazy! That is sooo sad what they did to that poor cat!

And how awful he bought a dog from the pet store!

I am glad that they didn't give him his money back too!

JCarlson2004 · 12-30-2005, 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Inluvyorkie

Grrr! that upsets me also. Why are some people soo ignorant! I am also glad he lost his money, having a pet is a lot of responsibility and he should of thought about that before fronting that kind of money.

I am SO glad he didn't get any of his money back either!! I hope it teaches him some sort of lesson!

But I doubt it.

omichka · 12-30-2005, 08:51 AM

sorry, but i think these people are mental retired

rrosenberry · 12-30-2005, 08:56 AM

Wow after you explained your situation w/ her.. it is WAY similiar to one I HAD,, same issues and guilt trips,and me being the care taker, for 20+ years. Eventually You have to take care of you,,and not worry about her,, I had the same issues,, till I couldn't think straight, sleep or stop worrying about her,, and that is just how SHE wanted it,,,, Distance yourself from the situation,,and see if there are any changes,, if NOT,, distance more,,that's what I had to do,, and I'm still distancing... as we speak.
Good luck..

AmandaG · 12-30-2005, 08:58 AM

What a jerk! That makes me angry, too. I don't know how things go in New York, but I know that animal abandonment is a punishable crime, here in PA. Also, I know that most shelters make the new owner sign papers assuring that they will not abandon the animal, and will return it to the shelter if for any reason, they cannot take care of it. If that is how things work up there, then this guy could be in for some hefty fines. Maybe this isn't something you feel is right to do, but how about contacting the shelter, and asking them about their policies? I know if it was through the Humane Society, they would be happy to do a little checkup on this jerk.
Regardless, you are so right. He should learn from the past that he is just not able to take care of animals the way he should. And as for the $1000 he lost... GOOD (except for the fact that he just contributed to a puppy mill...bad) Serves the guy right!

12-30-2005, 08:39 AM	#1
JCarlson2004 Mommy To 3 Poochies Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: New York Posts: 8,287	I Am Pissed Off! OMG! I am so freakin angry right now that I could just smash something!! I have a "friend" named Sandra (I don't know if I consider her a friend anymore after this crap) who adopted a beautiful little Russian Blue female RESCUE cat about 1 year ago. This cat was sooooo adorable and sweet. Plus she was already spayed and up to date on all shots. Sandra and her husband, Charley, only kept this cat for 1 month. Then one day Charley got "mad" at the cat and kicked it out the front door in the MIDDLE OF WINTER while there was SNOW ON THE GROUND!! I was so damn angry at him for doing that and at Sandra for allowing him to do that. I knew that Charley was getting fed up with the cat (god only knows why) and he wanted to get rid of it. So I had told him many times that if he decides to get rid of it, PLEASE give it to me and I would find a home for it. But what did he do? He threw the poor beauty out in the dead of winter. Bastard! After I found out, my husband and I drove around their block for hours in search of this cat. But I was not able to find her. So anyway, about 2 months ago Charley told me that he wanted to buy a female Siberian Husky. I said to him, "ARE YOU CRAZY?? You couldn't even take care of a simple 6 lb cat!! And now you want a BIG dog which will require a lot more attention then a cat???" Also his wife Sandra is HIGHLY allergic to fur. But Charley was seriously adamant about getting a dog -- so I felt that if they were going to get one regardless of what I said to discourage them, I should at least direct them to a GOOD breeder so that they don't buy from a pet shop. I found them a GREAT breeder in PA but the breeder didn't have any pups available right now. She told us that she was going to breed her female sometime in February when she came into heat. So Charley said that he'd wait and get a pup from her -- and I was at least happy that he'd have some time to think this whole situation over and maybe even reconsider. Well what did the RETARD do? He went to A World of Pets (PUPPY MILL! ) and bought a Siberian Husky from them!! I was sooooo pissed! But here's the part that really makes my blood boil ... he only kept the pup for 2 weeks and then returned her because "she was too much work and because Sandra was allergic to her"!!!!!!!! Well HELLLLOOOOO if you cannot handle a cat, then how the heck are you going to handle a damn big dog?? And if your wife has SEVERE allergies, what makes you think a Siberian Husky won't trigger those allergies? The reason I am even more angry today is because Sandra just called me and said that she and Charley are now thinking of getting another cat!!! I said to her, "ARE YOU SERIOUS?? Why don't you go search fro the cat that you thew out last year?" And then I hung up on her! PS - A World of Pets did NOT return any of his money -- He paid $1,000 for the dog. I'm GLAD that they did not return his money -- he deserves it! PSS - It pisses me off that they threw out a RESCUE cat in particular. That cat was already saved from the streets, she was all cleaned up, spayed and up to date on shots. She had a second chance at life and then was thrown out into the streets again! I feel so sorry for that poor baby. __________________ Mommy Loves Codie, Tia & Baby Cali RIP My Precious Katie - I Love You Last edited by JCarlson2004; 12-30-2005 at 08:42 AM.

12-30-2005, 08:41 AM	#2
txshopper73 Donating YT 14K Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Texas Posts: 14,226 Blog Entries: 1	Stupid, ignorant people! __________________ As always...JMO (Just My Opinion) Kimberley

12-30-2005, 08:44 AM	#3
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	wow jen, people like that would not be a friend of mine.. im glad you hung up on them... they really dont deserve to have a pet, not even a fish..they both are real ass-----. this makes me mad too stay away from them both,you know its gonna happen again, you know they will get another pet and do the same.. __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...

12-30-2005, 08:44 AM	#4
lily's mom Lily Loves Maximus Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Missouri Posts: 2,633	I am so glad he lost all of his money too!!!!!!! What are they thinking?! __________________ Lily and Dawn

12-30-2005, 08:47 AM	#6
livingdustmops Princess Poop A Lot Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Colorado Posts: 6,728	Sorry but they would definitely be off my friend list..grrrrrrrrrrrrrr [B]I would also tell the rescue group what they did so they could pass the word on these people so any other rescue group would have their names blocked also. Your name would not be involved and you will be saving another animal from this same kind of fate.[/B] I do not tolerate "so called friends" that are cruel to animals. __________________ Cindy & The Rescued Gang Puppies Are Not Products! Last edited by livingdustmops; 12-30-2005 at 08:50 AM.

12-30-2005, 08:45 AM	#5
waistfull Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Maryland Posts: 1,861	Oh my that is horrible. You would think he would have learned his lesson by now. I wonder what why he keeps making such big mistakes?

12-30-2005, 08:48 AM	#7
rrosenberry & Bailey & Bella Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Ohio Posts: 8,164	I totally understand your anger.. what a jerk! I work with guy like that,, we have had it out many times,,,he get's animals. gets rid of them, ( dumps them) Unbelievable,, DO they both have SHORT term memory problems?? I would have hung up too.. YOU don't need to deal with that, it is obvious they are gonna make their own STUPID mistakes.. WOW..is all I can say. __________________ Rhonda, Bailey, Josie and my angel Bella Rue' "Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened." ~Anatole France~

12-30-2005, 08:48 AM	#9
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	Sounds like your friends shouldnt have pets at all. I know this had to be really upsetting to you. Everyone here on yorkietalk are animal lovers. Anyone that would kick a cat shouldnt have a pet.I feel so sorry for that cat. __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427

12-30-2005, 08:48 AM	#10
Inluvyorkie YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Indiana Posts: 312	Grrr! that upsets me also. Why are some people soo ignorant! I am also glad he lost his money, having a pet is a lot of responsibility and he should of thought about that before fronting that kind of money. __________________ Brianna and Lilly- 5 months old http://www.dogster.com/?201392

12-30-2005, 08:49 AM	#11
My2Furbabies YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: MS Posts: 6,247 Blog Entries: 1	These people sound a little crazy! That is sooo sad what they did to that poor cat! And how awful he bought a dog from the pet store! I am glad that they didn't give him his money back too! __________________ Chloe & Stewie

12-30-2005, 08:51 AM	#13
omichka YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: *** Posts: 647	sorry, but i think these people are mental retired

12-30-2005, 08:56 AM	#14
rrosenberry & Bailey & Bella Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Ohio Posts: 8,164	Wow after you explained your situation w/ her.. it is WAY similiar to one I HAD,, same issues and guilt trips,and me being the care taker, for 20+ years. Eventually You have to take care of you,,and not worry about her,, I had the same issues,, till I couldn't think straight, sleep or stop worrying about her,, and that is just how SHE wanted it,,,, Distance yourself from the situation,,and see if there are any changes,, if NOT,, distance more,,that's what I had to do,, and I'm still distancing... as we speak. Good luck.. __________________ Rhonda, Bailey, Josie and my angel Bella Rue' "Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened." ~Anatole France~

12-30-2005, 08:58 AM	#15
AmandaG Delilah's Momma Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 1,406	What a jerk! That makes me angry, too. I don't know how things go in New York, but I know that animal abandonment is a punishable crime, here in PA. Also, I know that most shelters make the new owner sign papers assuring that they will not abandon the animal, and will return it to the shelter if for any reason, they cannot take care of it. If that is how things work up there, then this guy could be in for some hefty fines. Maybe this isn't something you feel is right to do, but how about contacting the shelter, and asking them about their policies? I know if it was through the Humane Society, they would be happy to do a little checkup on this jerk. Regardless, you are so right. He should learn from the past that he is just not able to take care of animals the way he should. And as for the $1000 he lost... GOOD (except for the fact that he just contributed to a puppy mill...bad) Serves the guy right! __________________ Delilah loves Boss! Macey 12/18/04-12/05/05