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06-20-2013, 04:47 PM | #1 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Colorado
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| When people say something to get on your nerves, how do you deal with it? I wanted to talk about this topic. When someone says something to aggravate you, how do you deal? Explain here. For me, I usually try to ignore it. |
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06-20-2013, 04:59 PM | #2 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: MN, USA
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| For me, it depends on the situation. Online, I try to ignore it. Like here, I'll post something and some of the readers will only pay attention to one phrase instead of the entire context and they'll go a bit nutso. Instead of constantly trying to re-explain what I said I just let them go off on their tangents and ignore it. In person, it just depends on the person- I'll ignore or argue- depends more on my mood, I think.
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06-20-2013, 05:08 PM | #3 |
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06-20-2013, 05:15 PM | #4 |
Wee Winston Wiggles Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Kewanee, Illinois
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| Ignore them if all they are looking for is to start trouble. Explain your feelings otherwise...you have the right to speak your mind.
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06-20-2013, 05:22 PM | #5 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Colorado
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06-20-2013, 05:24 PM | #6 |
♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas
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| If it's just irritating and about something silly or trivial, I let it go. If a person makes a statement on an important issue with which I basically disagree on principle, I usually reply and state why I disagree.
__________________ Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis |
06-20-2013, 05:24 PM | #7 |
YT Young Pup | Well i have 2 little sisters so i get annoyed alot. But i just try to ignore them until they stop. Or i just walk away from them and take a break.
__________________ What's that furry thing by my feet, it's the love of my life. ~Hurley and KC R.I.P Kudos and Cindy~ |
06-20-2013, 05:38 PM | #8 |
Pixie and Daisy Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: CT USA
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| I bite my tongue a lot. If I feel strong on the issue than I will state my peace and try not to argue.
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06-20-2013, 06:04 PM | #9 |
Our Blessings R Many Donating Member | I think your ignoring the situation is best. When unpleasant things are said they can't be taken back. I always felt people that say aggravating things are unhappy individuals and I dont want to further the situation so I ignore the unpleasantries. Daily life has too many situations that are more important in dealing with and life is too short and time is too precious to waste on unkindness from others. I am blessed with my friendships and families and learnt many years back this was the best way to live my life and not have unhappy relationships. I pray when situations come up, put them all in God's care. I hope you can feel the need to not let others bother you, enjoy life, God's blessings to you. Last edited by Baby Blessing; 06-20-2013 at 06:05 PM. |
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