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08-15-2012, 03:42 PM | #1 |
Our Blessings R Many Donating Member | I miss my Papa Today was my Papa's birthday, this is the first year I wasn't able to phone him and wish him a Happy Birthday, God called Papa to Heaven in June. I miss so much the joy of hearing his voice and cherish our times together. I guess the thought of wishing I could hear his voice helped me me to call my sister today and asked her to phone back on my cell phone and let my Mama leave me a message, I am so happy she did. She even called back and left a second message as she wanted to tell me something she forgot I will cherish these forever Hearing my Mama's voice today helped to clear my tears I have been shedding most of the day, she will be 98 in Octobe, life is never the same without our loved ones but I know we will be reunited in Heaven. Hugs, Patti and Jack Last edited by Wylie's Mom; 08-18-2012 at 07:59 AM. Reason: Fixed smilies :) |
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08-15-2012, 03:46 PM | #2 |
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| I am so sorry. I can only imagine how you must feel. Just remember he is singing with the angels in Heaven. Sending prayers for you to have strength. Hugs.
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08-15-2012, 08:00 PM | #3 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Long Island, New York
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| No matter how much time passes after we lose our loved ones, it's still always very difficult, especially on the first special occasion. I lost my mom thirty six years ago, and I still miss her so. But I also adore her now as much as I always did, and she is so much of who I am. We may lose our loved ones physically, but they remain in our hearts forever. I hope it gets easier for you without your Papa. I am very sorry, Patti.
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08-16-2012, 04:58 PM | #4 |
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| So sorry for your pain. I know exactly what you are feeling. It is hard so very hard. Have faith and know we will see our loved ones again. Keep their memory alive and they will live within you forever. Bless you!
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08-17-2012, 09:14 AM | #5 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire
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| Im so sorry for your loss Patti. I understand missing a loved one so very much. My grammy passed away in Feb this year, 1 month before my wedding. I am so very glad she knew and loved my fiance and my wedding gown came in about a week before she passed away and I got to try it on for her and show it to her and take pics of her with me in my wedding gown. She told me it was the most beautiful gown she's ever seen (and she worked for 10+ years in a wedding gown shop!!) I miss my Grammy so very much. My heart hurts for you. (((HUGS)))
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08-21-2012, 04:58 AM | #6 |
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| so sorry for you, it seems like no matter how long they live it's never long enough. Your post made me realize that I just forgot to do something I had planned on doing during my parents and sister's 5 day visit from NY. Mom and Dad are in their mid 80's and I felt so sad when they left because it probably is the last time they will come here, the 11 hour car ride and being away from home was especially hard on my Mom. I am kicking myself now because I planned to make a video of all of us and time just got away. Your comments made me realize that I should ask my sister to do it since she lives close. Make audio memories now not later, it's a good idea.
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08-21-2012, 05:03 AM | #7 |
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| I feel very sad for you... losing a parent is very hard.
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08-23-2012, 09:52 PM | #8 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Louisiana
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| I know exactly how you feel. I lost my father to cancer and I am dreading October, because it will make two years. He passed away here in my home. I take comfort in knowing that he was saved and is not in any more pain. I miss him so much that I talk to him daily. I will pray that God's grace and mercy will give you the peace that you need to begin to heal. It's the same prayer I pray for myself. Big hugs, if you ever need to talk... I am a good listener.
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08-23-2012, 11:05 PM | #9 |
YT Addict Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Louisiana
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| I am so sorry for your loss!! I lost my mom two a half years ago, and it is extremely hard losing a parent! I'm happy that she is no longer suffering, but I still miss her terribly. I am glad you were able to talk with your sister today, and again I am really sorry that today was hard for you!! |
08-24-2012, 12:22 AM | #10 |
Donating YT 30K Club Member | Patti my heart breaks for you. You have so much to deal with. Stay strong and I am always just a call away. Hugs
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08-24-2012, 05:03 AM | #11 |
Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: New York
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| I'm sorry you are having a sad time. I lost my Dad twenty years ago and I still miss him so very much. You had a wonderful Dad and keep your precious memories in your heart. Sending hugs. To everyone who has lost a loved one, sending hugs to you too. |
08-24-2012, 05:14 AM | #12 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: USA
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| I know how you feel, I really do. I miss my Dad so much, there are so many firsts I can't list, I am doing everything now without him, he was truly my best friend...I am 46 and I feel like a child on my own and lost sometimes, I always try to think "what would Dad tell me to do?" etc., its so hard... People say your so lucky to have had him for so long...he was 89..he lived a long life etc., that doesn't make it feel any better....the only consolation is that because of his long life I have so many more memories and pictures etc., to remember him by!!! I am not sad that he had died, I know hes safe and happy, I'm sad that he isn't here being my Dad...my "BOSS"...
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