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05-29-2009, 10:34 PM | #1 |
Donating YT 11K Club Member | About Guys When you gals go out with a guy....do you expect him to pay for you...if HE invited you?? Do you offer to pay for yourself...what is the deal?
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05-29-2009, 10:48 PM | #2 |
www.yorkierescue.com Donating Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Las Vegas & Orange County
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| If HE asked you out, then he should pay, BUT it is always nice to offer to pay for yourself (if the date was satisfactory or better). If you do, he should say No way!, but if he says OK, then that is strange. ALSO, if it is a horrible date, you should pay your part, and leave!
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05-30-2009, 05:44 AM | #3 |
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| My guy is unemployed right now. At first he insisted on paying for everything. I posted about my concerns with this. I felt terrible because I am working and can afford to pay for things. Gradually he has accepted me contributing. Now that we are engaged, generally, he buys one meal, then I buy one meal. If it is a situation where we are picking up the tab for a friend and it is my turn to pay (or if we had planned to go dutch), I let his ego win and let him pay. I just pay for the next few meals until I have paid half. We figure when we get married, these meals out will be paid for by our joint bank account, to which we contribute equally. We are just practicing now. It works well for us. He gives so much in other ways!
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05-30-2009, 03:04 PM | #4 | |
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05-30-2009, 03:09 PM | #5 |
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| Is this a date or just a friend? If it's a date a guy should pay. I always did, and never expected the girl to. Now if he's just a buddy then it's a different story. |
05-30-2009, 04:37 PM | #6 |
Donating YT 11K Club Member | Thanks guys....just was wondering for my friend that went out on a date and was invited by the guy. He didn't pay and i thought that was rude, i think he should atleast have offered to pay for her. If it's just a friend i agree the girl should pay for herself, but i do know some guys that just like paying for the girls and dont let them pay. But every ones different lol
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05-30-2009, 05:21 PM | #7 |
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| men should pay thats what they are good for buying you things and giving you a hard time
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05-31-2009, 08:57 AM | #9 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Central Pennsylvania
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| I'm old school.. the man should pay. wine and dine you, treat you like the princess. I think our guys today need to step back up.
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05-31-2009, 09:13 AM | #10 | |
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A friend asked me out before, just a friend and he always paid. Movies, Dinner, whatever... he always paid. He also held open all the doors, let me through the door, car door, carried my stuff, etc. Now, every now and then when I would just go to his house to play WII or what have you... I'd would say, hey want me to pick up something to eat? Then I would pay bc I was picking it up and it was MY offer. IMO, there is nothing wrong with a woman paying time to time but if he asks her out and its "new" then its expected that he be paying.
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06-01-2009, 05:37 AM | #11 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire
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| I think if it's a first date and the guy asked her out, he should definately have paid. He should also pick a place that he can AFFORD. After that they can split it or take turns paying.
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06-01-2009, 05:47 AM | #12 | |
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If he invites me, he should pay. If I were to invite him, I would pay.
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06-01-2009, 11:38 AM | #13 |
Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY
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| ewww he aint no man!! a real man would of paid without even thinking about it.. a real man never never never lets a lady pay, especially on the first date. or second or third.
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06-01-2009, 12:15 PM | #14 | |
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Agreed. As a guy, if it's my girl or if it is a girl I want to be my girl, I would always pay. | |
06-01-2009, 01:49 PM | #15 |
Lovin' My LilBug! Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Kentucky
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| If I'm dating a guy and he asks me out on a date and he doesn't pay for me... ha! that guy isn't worth 1 second of my time. Sorry!
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