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01-07-2009, 07:27 PM | #1 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: texas
Posts: 563
| Need to tell someone... OK My husband is deployed and has been gone for 10 loonngg months and I just keep pushing on but today Im feeling horribly jealous and annoyed. My neighbors husband is coming home tomorrow and the army is dragging its feet on giving us orders! Which means I feel so jealous to see him home and know I still have 3 to 6 months left AND all the other wives in the brigade have been given orders to either a new unit or to carson already, and Im still in limbo! I cant tell people how jealous I am since it such a bad thing, I should be happy for it but its sooo hard. And I dont know who to talk to that can help me find out whats going on with our living arrangements. Why we havent been told already I dont know and I need to be told so I can either prepare for the move or prepare for next year living here. telling my army friends how I feel really isnt acceptable and I hope you guys dont mind. It feels so much better to just it on paper instead of rambling around in my head.... |
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01-07-2009, 07:52 PM | #2 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Alabama
Posts: 1,523
| Sweety I hope you find out something soon! Don't be upset with yourself over being jealous. I can pretty much guarantee every other military wife and family feels the same way at one time or another. Whenever you need us just drop a line.
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01-07-2009, 08:22 PM | #3 |
Little Bit & Buttons Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: US
Posts: 2,160
| Sorry you are feeling down. Your feelings are perfectly normal. I hope you hear something soon. |
01-07-2009, 10:51 PM | #4 |
Lovin' My LilBug! Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Kentucky
Posts: 2,513
| Aw, I'm sorry how things are going for you, it must suck really bad sometimes. Always feel free to vent to us, we're always here for our YorkieTalk friends!
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01-07-2009, 11:54 PM | #5 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Grove Oklahoma
Posts: 494
| Venting is a good thing..... I am not a spouse of soldier but my only son age 29 and single has been to Iraq twice. His last deploy was 14 months and he was on a mitt team living and training Iraq soldiers on an all Iraq base he and 10 other Americans. Being scared and angry with military I think is normal? Or jealous I think normal too. If you ever need to just vent I and others are here..... So very sorry for you. darnlora@yahoo.com |
01-08-2009, 03:56 AM | #6 |
YT Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Schweinfurt, Bayern, Germany
Posts: 432
| It is totally normal. But as a military wife I always feel like an idiot complaining to my military friends since they seem to be handling it and I am apparently not. They'll give you orders just in time for you to make the mad dash to get everything moved where its supposed to be. They make it sound like you have plenty of time to plan and plot your moves but it never works quite like that. Good luck and stay strong. You're doing good and you're almost through. |
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