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11-20-2008, 05:06 PM | #1 |
No Longer a Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: tuscaloosa
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| I don't know where to go from here. It's been awhile I got on here due to my divorce. But now that it is finally decided I don't know what to do. I can't barely get out of bed these days. It hurts imagining he wont ever be there beside me again. |
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11-20-2008, 05:14 PM | #2 |
and Hopeys Mom Too Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Louisiana
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| I surely cant say I know what you are going through, but am sending you all the hugs and courage I can! Keep your head high and your heart strong, you will thrive! d
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11-20-2008, 08:54 PM | #3 |
YT 500 Club Member | I was wondering how you were doing. I have never went through a divorce but I want to say I am truly sorry and anytime you need someone to talk to I am here. I will keep you in my prayers. ((hugs))
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11-20-2008, 10:40 PM | #4 |
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| So sorry that you have to go through that
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11-20-2008, 11:45 PM | #5 |
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| I'm so sorry that you are going thru this. You will go thru a realm of emotions while you are going thru this. Don't try to keep in bottled up because you'll just wind up hurting yourself. You'll need to make yourself get up, dressed, made up and yes, go out and keep busy. I don't mean to go out to just go out, but to actually go to somewhere that you enjoy and just take your time and really spend time with yourself. One of the best things you can do is to learn to enjoy your own company. It's going to be a learning experience on how to be you again. This is going to be especially hard at this time of the year but I know that you can do it. It's all the more important that you focus on you and what it is that makes you who you are. I hope this makes some sense. People could never understand that I wasn't lonely when I was on my own--I got to know myself and therefore I was able to be whole again. Feel free to pm me if need someone to talk with. Hugs to you.
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11-20-2008, 11:55 PM | #6 |
Currently Suspended! Join Date: May 2008 Location: indiana
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| It seems like the end of the world right now, but life goes on we endur and adapt. I'm sorry for your sorrow right now. I pray you find the strength you need to get through this. without god's help it will be hard. I've lived through 2 divorces and it makes you harden your heart. I found a wonderful man and we have been married for 21 years now. WE argue, but we work things out. My prayers to you. Look to what the future can bring for you and what you can give to the future, its a start and make list of things you need to achomplish daily to take your mind off of feelings, prioritize your list and do everything or as much as time allows in a day. Treat yourself once a week even if it is just a light lunch and window shopping. this is important take care of what you look like not for anyone else but for yourself! Sometimes just getting a new hair cut and style makes all the difference to lifting your mood. GOOD LUCk your future isn't over yet |
11-21-2008, 05:29 AM | #7 | |
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I pray you get through this tough time in your life... Big hugs to you
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11-21-2008, 05:38 AM | #8 |
YT 500 Club Member | I know that right now it seems as though you will never feel normal again. Life as you know it has changed. I went through this in 1993, and, thankfully, I had two teenage daughters and a good job that forced me to get up and move myself. However, looking back, I didn't do a very good job of anything. Today, I am re-married and very happy. I even walked (with my ex) my daughter down the aisle at her wedding this spring. It will take a long time to find a new normal, but find things that you enjoy doing and make new friends and also use this time to get closer to family. These will help you through this. Going to a divorce support group or class also can help. Big hugs.
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11-21-2008, 06:09 AM | #9 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire
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| I have never been divorced but I had a fiance and we were together for 10 years. We broke up and I felt the same way. Not sure what to do, where to go from 'here'. This is a new chapter in your life. It will take some getting used to, but it does not have to be a bad thing. Keeping busy and social during this time will help you. Its been a little over 3 years since my breakup from him and it was bumpy going for awhile, but Im over it now and better off than I ever was. (((HUGS)))
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11-25-2008, 12:50 AM | #10 |
No Longer a Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: tuscaloosa
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| Thanks for all the encouraging words ladies. And I'm sorry I dont give responses too much these days I just can't seem to be my old friendly self. |
11-25-2008, 03:39 AM | #11 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: NY USA
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| I'm sorry for what you are going through. I too have been their. Keeping busy is the best for now. You can talk to us any time you like. Belive me when I tell you it will get better. Just give it some time.
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11-25-2008, 12:01 PM | #12 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Utah
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| Im soooooooooooooooooooooo sorry sweetie... I wish there was something that could take all your pain away... but I will send positive thoughts and pray for you!!! HUGS!!!
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