Having a hard night so far.... - YorkieTalk.com Forums

luzangela428 · 08-18-2005, 04:02 PM

Well my mother and I rarely talk.... except when we have to & or for family matters....well it seemd that my brother is going off to boot camp (he joined the marines) on the 16th of September....she just had emergency surgery for kidney stones last week, my grandmother (her mother) had a car accident with her Parkinson stricken husband and rolled over and totaled the car..she had a sprained wrist and the jaws of life had to get him out....and my aunt with 3 kids under the age of 9 has malignant brain cancer....they were unable to remove all of it and she is undergoing chemo therapy...she will not be able to beat it according to doctors (her husband is a surgeon). Her family from Columbia has flown in and it looks like I wil be visiting her in Florida next week as well, I will then be going to see my toher dying grandmother All of this I learned in the last hour...and I'm sorry to depress everyone...

tarawood · 08-18-2005, 04:08 PM

Oh my, I'm so, so sorry about all of your family's problems. I wish I could do something to make it better. I'll be thinking of you and sending positive thoughts and prayer your way.

Here's a little joke to cheer you up (from my 5-year-old):

Why can't you tell an egg a joke?

----Because it will crack up!!

troubletb · 08-18-2005, 04:11 PM

Oh my gosh, As I'm reading your post all I could think is how can one family survive all this sadness.. My heart goes out to you and your family, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

red98vett · 08-18-2005, 04:20 PM

Oh wow sweetie - my heart just goes out to you. Please try to take good care of yourself and I'm so sorry to hear about all this...I dont know what to say except that you have friends and can always come here to talk - we're here for you and I'm very sorry for your family and you...

this is going to be a rough road but we have to believe things happen for a reason. Sure wish we knew why sometimes - it would help alot during times like this - Big hugs to you

Kelz · 08-18-2005, 04:27 PM

aww i'm sorry!! Keep your head up!!! lots of hugs from kelly and bentley!!

LIL MIS' MAGIC · 08-18-2005, 04:35 PM

Girl, I am so sorry to hear your family...that is alot for one family to handle at once...but God only gives what we can handle....keep strong...I will be praying for you and your whole family!!

lily's mom · 08-18-2005, 05:06 PM

Oh man Samantha, I don't even know what to say!! I am so sorry for you and know you must have a very heavy heart right now. Please try to keep a positive attitude about everyone and then they will feel your energy and heal faster. If you need a shloulder, I'm here.

jennifermcb · 08-18-2005, 06:29 PM

Wow - that's a lot for one person to bear. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.

You're lucky to have your puppy to help you get through all of this. Unconditional love and lots of puppy kisses.

Crazy4Carlee · 08-18-2005, 07:19 PM

Oh, how very sad. That's a lot of bad news to take all at once. I feel especially sorry for your Aunt and her children. Everyone should be able to live long enough to see their kids grow up. Life can be difficult at times, I know.

On a lighter note, I checked out Maximus' dogster page and I must say "he is a cutie!" There's nothing like a dog to cuddle and "talk" with when your sad.

Latuya · 08-18-2005, 07:51 PM

I am so sorry to hear this. I went through something like this about 2 years ago. It was very hard to deal with. I was emotionally tired. I couldn't eat and it was hard to sleep. I had to keep it together not only for me but for my kids and family. Please take care of yourself and I will pray for you and your family. If you ever need to just let it all out feel free to PM anytime. I am a very good listener.

Itspuppyluv · 08-18-2005, 08:23 PM

I'm so sorry you are going through such a terrible time. Any one of those situations is hard to handle, never mind all at once. Don't give up hope on your aunt, my mom had brain cancer and much more that I won't go into to but the doctors told us she had a week to live and she survived over 17 years. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

sarahr · 08-18-2005, 09:15 PM

Oh, samatha. That is terrible i can't even imagine going through that all at one time. I hope it all works out. god will give you the strength to get through this. I really wish your family the best.

vainchick5 · 08-18-2005, 09:16 PM

Hey Sam, I'm so sorry to hear about everything thats happening. If you need to talk, girl you know I'm here. Even if you just need a distraction. Trust me, I know from experience what a horrible feeling it is when it feels like everything is crumbling at once. There is a reason for everything. I've been going through a rough 8 months but still hoping for the light at the end of the tunnell. PM me for my number whenever you want to talk. Let Maximus give you lots of kisses.
Sam, dis is Coco and if I wasd der I would make out wit you to cheew u up, k? I've been humpin lately but I won't hump you, just cwean yous teeth and face k?

rnnw62 · 08-18-2005, 09:59 PM

You're really having a when it rains it pours type of day...
I am so sorry to hear of all the sorrow involved. Like the
others have said please try and stay positive and make
sure to take time out to take care of yourself. Our thoughts
are with you...

SilverStarShado · 08-18-2005, 10:16 PM

I am so sorry to hear of such a bad situation, stay strong and keep your eyes toward that ray of light at the end of the tunnel. Stay close to friends and lean on them when you need to, they will help you pull through all of this.
Best Wishes to you!
Kisses from Yoda

08-18-2005, 04:02 PM	#1
luzangela428 Maximus "Lily's Love Slave" Join Date: May 2005 Location: san ramon, ca Posts: 2,368	Having a hard night so far.... Well my mother and I rarely talk.... except when we have to & or for family matters....well it seemd that my brother is going off to boot camp (he joined the marines) on the 16th of September....she just had emergency surgery for kidney stones last week, my grandmother (her mother) had a car accident with her Parkinson stricken husband and rolled over and totaled the car..she had a sprained wrist and the jaws of life had to get him out....and my aunt with 3 kids under the age of 9 has malignant brain cancer....they were unable to remove all of it and she is undergoing chemo therapy...she will not be able to beat it according to doctors (her husband is a surgeon). Her family from Columbia has flown in and it looks like I wil be visiting her in Florida next week as well, I will then be going to see my toher dying grandmother All of this I learned in the last hour...and I'm sorry to depress everyone... __________________ http://www.dogster.com/?148186 Maximus' Album: http://www.yorkietalk.com/gallery/sh...=1&ppuser=2303 Maximus Woves Lily

08-18-2005, 04:08 PM	#2
tarawood YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Lubbock, TX Posts: 540	Oh my, I'm so, so sorry about all of your family's problems. I wish I could do something to make it better. I'll be thinking of you and sending positive thoughts and prayer your way. Here's a little joke to cheer you up (from my 5-year-old): Why can't you tell an egg a joke? ----Because it will crack up!! __________________ Tara

08-18-2005, 04:11 PM	#3
troubletb Love my Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: New Port Richey, Florida Posts: 2,339	Oh my gosh, As I'm reading your post all I could think is how can one family survive all this sadness.. My heart goes out to you and your family, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. __________________ Karen~ Bell, Lilly and Peter's Mom Rest in Peace <3

08-18-2005, 04:20 PM	#4
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	Oh wow sweetie - my heart just goes out to you. Please try to take good care of yourself and I'm so sorry to hear about all this...I dont know what to say except that you have friends and can always come here to talk - we're here for you and I'm very sorry for your family and you... this is going to be a rough road but we have to believe things happen for a reason. Sure wish we knew why sometimes - it would help alot during times like this - Big hugs to you __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

08-18-2005, 04:27 PM	#5
Kelz YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Yukon, ok Posts: 2,885	aww i'm sorry!! Keep your head up!!! lots of hugs from kelly and bentley!! __________________ Kelly- momma to Parker, Star,Zoe, & Kegan.. RIP Silly Lily OK Yorkie Rescue - http://okyorkierescue.org

08-18-2005, 04:35 PM	#6
LIL MIS' MAGIC Yorkie Lover Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Midlothian, Texas Posts: 4,377 Blog Entries: 3	Girl, I am so sorry to hear your family...that is alot for one family to handle at once...but God only gives what we can handle....keep strong...I will be praying for you and your whole family!! __________________ Kristin, Mom to: Lil Mis Magic, Sailor and Captain

08-18-2005, 05:06 PM	#7
lily's mom Lily Loves Maximus Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Missouri Posts: 2,633	Oh man Samantha, I don't even know what to say!! I am so sorry for you and know you must have a very heavy heart right now. Please try to keep a positive attitude about everyone and then they will feel your energy and heal faster. If you need a shloulder, I'm here. __________________ Lily and Dawn

08-18-2005, 06:29 PM	#8
jennifermcb Charmed by Sophie & Daisy Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: North Alabama Posts: 593	Wow - that's a lot for one person to bear. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. You're lucky to have your puppy to help you get through all of this. Unconditional love and lots of puppy kisses.

08-18-2005, 07:19 PM	#9
Crazy4Carlee Donating YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: IOWA Posts: 345	Oh, how very sad. That's a lot of bad news to take all at once. I feel especially sorry for your Aunt and her children. Everyone should be able to live long enough to see their kids grow up. Life can be difficult at times, I know. On a lighter note, I checked out Maximus' dogster page and I must say "he is a cutie!" There's nothing like a dog to cuddle and "talk" with when your sad. __________________ We Will Alway's Love You - You are our angel - Carlee 5/7/05 - 5/7/07 Cooper Is My Shining Star!

08-18-2005, 07:51 PM	#10
Latuya YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Rialto CA Posts: 3,243	I am so sorry to hear this. I went through something like this about 2 years ago. It was very hard to deal with. I was emotionally tired. I couldn't eat and it was hard to sleep. I had to keep it together not only for me but for my kids and family. Please take care of yourself and I will pray for you and your family. If you ever need to just let it all out feel free to PM anytime. I am a very good listener. __________________ Monica, Proud mom of Gus who is forever missed! And new mom to Leiloni Gus's Dogster page

08-18-2005, 08:23 PM	#11
Itspuppyluv Gus Is The Fuss Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 2,277	I'm so sorry you are going through such a terrible time. Any one of those situations is hard to handle, never mind all at once. Don't give up hope on your aunt, my mom had brain cancer and much more that I won't go into to but the doctors told us she had a week to live and she survived over 17 years. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. __________________ Erin & Gus Gus You lost me at stay! "He is a good heart and a kind soul, and an angel on four feet." MW

08-18-2005, 09:15 PM	#12
sarahr Owned by Charlie Bug Join Date: May 2005 Location: South Central, MN Posts: 556	Oh, samatha. That is terrible i can't even imagine going through that all at one time. I hope it all works out. god will give you the strength to get through this. I really wish your family the best. __________________ ¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º° Sarah & Charlie °`°º¤ø,¸¸,ø¤º°`°º¤ø,¸

08-18-2005, 09:16 PM	#13
vainchick5 YT 6000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: CA Posts: 6,588	Hey Sam, I'm so sorry to hear about everything thats happening. If you need to talk, girl you know I'm here. Even if you just need a distraction. Trust me, I know from experience what a horrible feeling it is when it feels like everything is crumbling at once. There is a reason for everything. I've been going through a rough 8 months but still hoping for the light at the end of the tunnell. PM me for my number whenever you want to talk. Let Maximus give you lots of kisses. Sam, dis is Coco and if I wasd der I would make out wit you to cheew u up, k? I've been humpin lately but I won't hump you, just cwean yous teeth and face k? __________________ Mommy to Coco and Rocco

08-18-2005, 09:59 PM	#14
rnnw62 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Gilbert, Arizona Posts: 1,610	You're really having a when it rains it pours type of day... I am so sorry to hear of all the sorrow involved. Like the others have said please try and stay positive and make sure to take time out to take care of yourself. Our thoughts are with you... __________________ Shelly, Teddy, Toby,Hanne & Indigo

08-18-2005, 10:16 PM	#15
SilverStarShado I Love My FurBaby! Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Michigan Posts: 1,195	I am so sorry to hear of such a bad situation, stay strong and keep your eyes toward that ray of light at the end of the tunnel. Stay close to friends and lean on them when you need to, they will help you pull through all of this. Best Wishes to you! Kisses from Yoda __________________ Becky & Sir Yoda See ME & My PupPals HERE My YT Photo Gallery HERE *Live, Love, Be Happy*