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09-01-2008, 09:37 AM | #1 |
I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana
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| Dont want to go on trip I dont know what to do I am supposed to be going on a trip to disneyworld in 4 weeks with My Mother in Law, Brother In Law and Sister inlaw and ther Daughter. A situation happened with My Sister In Law where she overreacted about a stuation between My Daughter and her Daughter and My sister In Law approached My daughter twice and said some very innappropriate mean things to my Daughter when My Daughter was at another mutual friends house. My Husband asked her when the 1st incident occured to come tell us about it 1st instead of approaching Alexa rae and she turned around and did iit the next day. They live 2 doors down from us and MY Daughter wont go down to their house and play with their Daughter because the Sister in law has been mean to her in the past. We really looked into it this time and it is a situation where the sister in law over reacted and went off on my Daughter. I dont know what to do I was really mad about it Saturday but I have calmed down now but I am afraid If I go on that trip I am going to say something to her.
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09-01-2008, 09:54 AM | #2 |
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| Maybe, just maybe, it would be a good thing to talk to her about it...civil like, you know. I would go on your trip and enjoy it! Disney is the happiest place on earth, right?! It just might be the place to either work on this issue or to let it go for a while.
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09-01-2008, 10:02 AM | #3 |
Phantom Queen Morrigan Donating Member | Sounds like something that happened in my family on christmas day over 10 years ago. my aunt went off on me for something that didn't even happen. things were said, sides were drawn. needless to say my mother, sister, and i do not talk to that side of the family (my dad's side) any more except for one aunt that didn't take sides. its worked out for us this way you guys live so close to each other tho i don't think you'd have the same outcome. its going to be very awkward for you guys if this isn't worked out or at least talked about.
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09-01-2008, 10:06 AM | #4 |
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| Talk to your SIL, Then lose her @ Disney World... I'd try talking to her mom to mom. Hear her side of the story. You deserve your vacation. Disney is a big place. If she doesn't listen to your concerns, Just get lost in the park Take your family off and have a great time. Don't throw away your vacation , enjoy it with or wothout your SIL... Have a great time... Blessings... Baron's Mom
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09-01-2008, 10:18 AM | #5 |
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| Yeah, I'd get it out in the open now. Then, go to Disney. If SIL is being difficult, just ignore her, do things with your family. Disney is a HUGE place, no need to be tied at the hip.
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09-01-2008, 10:29 AM | #6 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member | I would make it very clear in no uncertain terms that it is not her place to speake to your daughter about her behavior and if she did it again the police would be called. That is mental abuse if your daughter is afraid so push that on the SIL. Go to Disney and lose there family in the crowd. If you allow her to bully your family it will continue.
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09-01-2008, 06:28 PM | #7 |
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| I agree just get it out now and then enjoy your trip Dont let her ruin something so fun! good luck with everything
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09-02-2008, 05:09 AM | #8 |
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| Simple solution: Ditch them and take me instead! |
09-02-2008, 05:12 AM | #9 |
Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member | LOL Misty ! Chachi - GO ON YOUR TRIP - screw them - just go have a good time ! You deserve it and your daughter will love it |
09-02-2008, 05:20 AM | #10 |
I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana
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| I know you guys are right. I am just going to go off with My daughter and do our own thing when we are at the park together. They are coming in at the end of our trip so they will only be there 2 days while we are there. In the mean time it will take everything in me to keep my middle finger down when I see her LOL
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09-02-2008, 05:26 AM | #11 | |
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09-02-2008, 05:28 AM | #12 |
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| That is the great thing about Disney, as you already know. There is so much to do that just because you are there with other people, doesn't mean you have to be with them all the time. It's very easy to split up and 'go your separate' ways so that you don't have to even be around each other. |
09-02-2008, 08:58 AM | #13 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member | they are there two days??? don't worry about it! just have fun!!!! I think everybody here agrees that you'll have fun there, who doesn't love disneyworld!!!! you'll have time to discuss it when you're back |
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09-02-2008, 12:06 PM | #15 | |
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