Venting...

[Wigfur]

My younger sister,26 is in the hospital as we speak having surgery to remove a brain tumor at the base of the brain. My son, 5 yrs old had a cardio catheter done yesterday and is not up to travel today. I feel lost i feel I should be there with my mother as she faces this alone. I'm new here, alot of you have no clue who I am yet. My family has been through so much in the last five year. Those here from the pixel community know my story well.

My father died at age 54 Oct 2003. He just died, no reason nothing just didn't come back after a seizure. Two weeks later my nephew, who was 15 days younger then my son, died at the babysitter. He had just turned one a week before this. Later we found my nephew was murdered,given enough Loratab to kill more then one adult. No justice as of date, no idea what happened. My Grandma had a stroke following the news that my mother was having an affair with a married man,and has not been the same since. I won't go into anymore detail here,but that is our lil family bad luck I guess.

So here I sit, at home on the computer and not with my family at the OU Medical Center in OKC for my sister. So I'm rather going nuts calling them every two minutes for an update wanting to know if she comes out of this okay and if she will gain her eyesight in left eye afterwards.. the right eye is gone, the optic nerve is dead from the tumor. She is 26 yrs old, has two daughters, one Cricket five years old,that she gave my mom to adopt.. and another little girl Niecie is now 3 years old. My sister and I have a lot of differences and I don't agree with the way she does her daughter adn former daughter.. but she is my sister and I'm scared to hell that she won't come through this okay,and I didn't even get to tell her I loved her.

Thanks for letting me rant.

[red98vett]

sending hugs .....and lots of prayers for your family - you all have been thru way too much ........I hope the surgery is a sucess....

I'm so sorry

[chachi]

Sending hugs and prayers for your family and you

[Betty'sMom]

I am sorry that you have been through so much. I am glad you shared it with us, because sometimes that makes it a little easier to bear. I am going to say a prayer for your sister and one for you, too, because you are having such a rough time. Keep us updated about your sister. (hug)

[RebelBelle]

Wow! You have been through so much so quickly. I'm so sorry for your losses. I am sending tons of hugs and prayers for you and your sister and the rest of your family.

[Yorkieforme]

OMG...you have had a lot to deal with. You can vent on YT anytime you need to...we can be with you in spirit....sending you warm wises and lots of hugs.

[celstu1]

Oh man sweetie, when it rains it pours huh? I know that your sister knows you love her, even if you do have your differences. My family had a string of bad luck in recent years as well but we all came through it and although a little worse for wear, we are all more & more appreciative of what we are/have and accomplished. Hang in there and keep us posted on how your sister did during surgery and how her eyesight fared. I am sending good vibes and prayers your way to you and your family. I hope this is the last hardship you have to face and smoother roads lay ahead of you all.

[mommaofmia]

OK,,,, Sit down, take a deep breath......... Your son needs you home with him today and I'm sure your mom knows your with her in Spirit and by phone. Thank god for cell phones... What did we do without them years ago???? My prayers are with you and your family. Good luck and keep us updated..

[xxmxaxrxyxx]

sendings tons of hugs your way! just remember to breath!

[Wigfur]

Thank you for your words,all of you. I was not sure about posting it, I try to keep the "personal" stuff out of it. But shesh, I just spoke with mom, they are JUST NOW taking her back to surgery. they are going through the nose and pallet (roof of mouth) to get the mass out, we will not know what we are up against until they get in there. It could be a cyst,or a tumor, cyst they drain it and hope it never returns, tumor, we have problems. I'm waiting for word,if it is a good operation it will be about 3 hours, if it's a difficult it could be 5 to 8 hours. I will update as I can... thank you so much for letting me get this out ladies and gents.. I do appreciate it.

[chattiesmom]

Oh my gosh! I wish I lived closer!

It sounds like your family has had more than it's share of sorrows. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I am so glad that you feel comfortable enough with your "new family" to vent and share your very personal family history with us. hugs and prayers coming your way.

[donnarod]

Originally Posted by Wigfur

My younger sister,26 is in the hospital as we speak having surgery to remove a brain tumor at the base of the brain. My son, 5 yrs old had a cardio catheter done yesterday and is not up to travel today. I feel lost i feel I should be there with my mother as she faces this alone. I'm new here, alot of you have no clue who I am yet. My family has been through so much in the last five year. Those here from the pixel community know my story well.

My father died at age 54 Oct 2003. He just died, no reason nothing just didn't come back after a seizure. Two weeks later my nephew, who was 15 days younger then my son, died at the babysitter. He had just turned one a week before this. Later we found my nephew was murdered,given enough Loratab to kill more then one adult. No justice as of date, no idea what happened. My Grandma had a stroke following the news that my mother was having an affair with a married man,and has not been the same since. I won't go into anymore detail here,but that is our lil family bad luck I guess.

So here I sit, at home on the computer and not with my family at the OU Medical Center in OKC for my sister. So I'm rather going nuts calling them every two minutes for an update wanting to know if she comes out of this okay and if she will gain her eyesight in left eye afterwards.. the right eye is gone, the optic nerve is dead from the tumor. She is 26 yrs old, has two daughters, one Cricket five years old,that she gave my mom to adopt.. and another little girl Niecie is now 3 years old. My sister and I have a lot of differences and I don't agree with the way she does her daughter adn former daughter.. but she is my sister and I'm scared to hell that she won't come through this okay,and I didn't even get to tell her I loved her.

Thanks for letting me rant.

I feel for you and will say a lot of prayers, you might also try 4WomenTalk.com. You will get a lot of comfort and support.

[Bizzymammabee]

Sending you a big old hug and prayers for your family.

[RoxyJosMom]

Sending bunches of hugs and prayers for you and your family. That's just too much pain for any family to have to deal with. Keep strong, sweetie.

[Wigfur]

I can not say thank you enough, I'm on pins and needles waiting for updates. Korbin,my son is going to see Dr Jackson again here in about 20 mins to see if his lil body can take a trip. I have never left either him nor my daughter in anyones elses care. This will be a first for me if he makes the trip Scott's parents are going to keep the kids and my furbaby while I"m at the hospital. Thank you for the thougths, the prayers and just for giving me a place to "talk". I am usually the rock of our family, I make it all better,but this, I just can't. I have not spoken to my sister much the last few days because the words just escape me,and her seeing or hearing me scared would be worse. I will keep you up to date and post when I can. If Korbin can make the trip I will be taking my lap top so I can check in tonight at the hotel with everyone. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.