|
Welcome to the YorkieTalk.com Forums Community - the community for Yorkshire Terriers. You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. You will be able to chat with over 35,000 YorkieTalk members, read over 2,000,000 posted discussions, and view more than 15,000 Yorkie photos in the YorkieTalk Photo Gallery after you register. We would love to have you as a member! Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today! If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please click here to contact us. |
|
| LinkBack | Thread Tools |
06-12-2008, 10:33 AM | #1 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire
Posts: 10,534
| Uh oh... talk about open mouth insert foot! I agreed to go away with my man and his parents and his sister and her husband in August to Cape Cod, for only 2 nights though. They wanted us to go for 4 nights. This will be our first 'get-away' trip together. (even though we live locally) and its with his parents! Not to mention, him & I could hang on the beach all day, or do this or that, but Im not sure what his parents are up for, or his sister and her husband. He seemed to want to go.. mentioned he never went to Marthas Vineyard... so I agreed finally... skeptically BUT..... I dislike the Cape! Its BORING! I can't imagine there being anything more to do other than looking at boats and cliffs and lighthouses (BORING!) and shopping (can't afford it) and eating (dont want to afford it! LOL)!!! I wish I could tell him how much I dont really want to do this. I know its not going to kill me, but uuggghhh.... Im 31... id rather go to Vegas or Miami or Atlantic City! Not the Cape.
__________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz |
Welcome Guest! | |
06-12-2008, 11:22 AM | #2 |
Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: texas
Posts: 5,272
| Well I've only been there once and I loved it....but of course I am 60!!!!!
__________________ Decide To Make It A Good Day |
06-12-2008, 11:23 AM | #3 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire
Posts: 10,534
| 60 years young Im sure Patty!
__________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz |
06-12-2008, 11:27 AM | #5 |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: miami, fl, usa
Posts: 1
| hey there! Im from MIAMI! and the beaches here are so much nicer and the night life is not BORING!!!! Be honest with him! Whats the worst that can happen? He gets upset for a day or two and then he will get over it! |
06-12-2008, 11:49 AM | #6 |
YT 1000 Club Member | The Cape....sounds beautiful!! ya a little dull maybe...but think of it as bonding time with your man and his family.... (it might be important to HIM that you are with him)...and maybe try and plan a little get away for some where else exciting soon.
__________________ Natalie & KiKi |
06-12-2008, 11:51 AM | #7 |
Donating YT 14K Club Member | It's only for two days. If you're serious about this guy, you need to sacrifice. Bite the bullet and indulge him and his family. You can always plan a trip with your fella another time.
__________________ As always...JMO (Just My Opinion) Kimberley |
06-12-2008, 12:09 PM | #8 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire
Posts: 10,534
| yeah I know you guys are right... and we are going for 2 nights. I can't afford anything else this year, this is it... so I guess I will suck it up and do it. I am serious about him. Im just not used to the 'tight' family thing. My 2 brothers live far away and my mom lives far away and my father & I haven't spoken in 6 months. I envy my guys tight family, I just wish our first away trip was not with them to somewhere boring... oh well! This is horrible, and I'll never tell him this, but I wish he knew that Im doing this FOR HIM. Sometimes I feel that he is more thoughtful with the little things than I am... and I feel bad about that. So this is the least I can do is go and have fun, even if its boring because he deserves this too much for me to say NO. Thanks!
__________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz |
06-12-2008, 12:10 PM | #9 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire
Posts: 10,534
| Ok, but Im not taking any pictures of any lighthouses! LOL
__________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz |
06-12-2008, 12:11 PM | #10 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire
Posts: 10,534
| He wouldn't get upset, thats the thing... he wouldn't say anything. He would just not go and be ok with that too. But I know he kind of wants to... so I don't have the heart to say no. I would love to go to Miami!! Im afraid Im going to feel fat & ugly out there with all the beautiful people... but I want to go anyways! HAHA
__________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz |
06-12-2008, 12:27 PM | #11 |
YT 1000 Club Member | AHH come on...how about some pictures of sailboats then? Cheer up...you might surprise yourself and really enjoy the trip....attitude really counts for a lot...says the mother of a daughter studying to be phychologist!! LOL
__________________ Natalie & KiKi |
06-12-2008, 12:31 PM | #12 | |
Luvs Lulu Donating Member | Quote:
It's nice to be part of a close family...got that in hubby's family. It's really a blessing to be a part of. They are crazy but fun and good people.
__________________ Lulu will always be in my heart | |
06-12-2008, 05:44 PM | #13 |
Love My Furbabies! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: somewhere
Posts: 4,427
| Awe I'm sorry you don't like it there! Personally I love the Cape, Martha's Vineyard and Nantucket ( I even got married in Nantucket ). Maybe you can find some fun activities going on during your stay? |
06-12-2008, 06:06 PM | #14 | |
Furbutts = LOVE Donating Member Moderator | Quote:
__________________ ~ A friend told me I was delusional. I nearly fell off my unicorn. ~ °¨¨¨°şOş°¨¨¨° Ann | Pfeiffer | Marcel Verdel Purcell | Wylie | Artie °¨¨¨°şOş°¨¨¨° | |
06-13-2008, 05:13 AM | #15 | |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire
Posts: 10,534
| Quote:
Also lately Im freaking out inside about the thought of losing my independance. I LOVE him...he is GREAT! I am happy with him, he treats me wonderful. HE is thoughtful and just a great guy and person. However I have flashes of leaving my condo and find myself either panicking OR nitpicking his house to use as an excuse to not move for a LONG time. I guess I am just not ready to give up my complete independance yet. Im sure thats ok, but the more steps I take into his family the harder I feel it is to keep that side of me private from them and that freaks me out right now. Anyways... Im sure it will pass with time and I've 'been there, done that' and know when to say yes and when to say no. I know that I'll only do things when Im mentally and emotionally ready. In other words I will not be pressured to do anything Im not ready for... like merge my life with his until I ready to take on the responsibility of another person also. (I hope you know what I mean by that)
__________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz | |
Bookmarks |
|
|
| |
|
|
SHOP NOW: Amazon :: eBay :: Buy.com :: Newegg :: PetStore :: Petco :: PetSmart