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05-21-2008, 07:12 AM | #1 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: usa
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| I am so proud of myself ~!!! Those of you who know me..Know I have Yucky mean husband When he met me 5 years ago I had a short pixie cut , which I LOVED and thought I looked cute. ( he supposedly fell in love with me this way) Well after we were married and the verbal abuse started, he started calling me bad names...Saying I was a lesbian etc...with my hair so short. I have a gay son. So it was just another way to hurt me I stopped cutting it. And it was half way down my back Well.....last night I didn't want to take a shower i sat last night dreading it again I was so sick of washing my long hair Dealing with it at my age...waiting for it to dry just bummed me out. So I cut it all off !!!!!!! I did it..YAY... Now my Jen and Amanda are taking me for a makeover. And he can call me all the names he wants. I dont care ..lol
__________________ Debbi ~Follow the 3 R's~~~ Respect for self...Respect for others ...Responsibility for all your actions |
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05-21-2008, 07:14 AM | #2 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: wilmington nc
Posts: 1,585
| Good for you! I have been thinking of you and wondering how you are doing
__________________ Proud Member of the Spoiled Rotten Club and in the end, its not the years in your life that count but the life in your years.... Abraham Lincoln |
05-21-2008, 07:17 AM | #4 |
My Tiny Treasures Donating Member | Well you know we are going to need pictures...................RIGHT? |
05-21-2008, 07:25 AM | #5 |
Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member | I hope you know that really IS verbal abuse. There is nothing at all wrong with having a gay son and I hope he doesn't take it out on him too - but can I ask you something ? WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM ? I'm sorry - I don't even know him and I want to slap him. you may want to think of your future and whether you want to live this way or get out and BE HAPPY.....and good for you cutting your hair - no one should have to worry about such an insignifcant thing in their marriage. There's so many BIG things to live thru day to day |
05-21-2008, 07:26 AM | #6 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Florida
Posts: 1,455
| How awesome! You are going to feel so good with a makeover. I'm needing one myself! |
05-21-2008, 07:27 AM | #7 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: nj
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| Congrats.....you must feel s liberated enjoy your makeover |
05-21-2008, 07:28 AM | #8 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire
Posts: 10,534
| yes pics! Good for you! Pooey to your mean hubby! He needs to take a chill pill!
__________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz |
05-21-2008, 07:30 AM | #9 | |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: usa
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I am hanging in there. Praying that he gets a job that has INS.or Praying that the job Jen told me about with INS still opens up. Then I am filing FAST before he loses that job, and the blackmail is back on. I CAN DO THIS ~!!!!! How are you doing hun?
__________________ Debbi ~Follow the 3 R's~~~ Respect for self...Respect for others ...Responsibility for all your actions | |
05-21-2008, 07:34 AM | #10 |
YT Addict Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Arizona
Posts: 425
| Well I am proud of you too...Yay for liberation!!!! Although I cut my hair too and now hate it! |
05-21-2008, 07:35 AM | #11 | |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: usa
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My son at over 350 lbs would hurt him...and not just slap him Its a long story why I'm still here. Just trying to stay strong and get out. I put 100,000 down on my house. He wont work, has heart cond. and will run to the hospital so I lose all equity thru hospital bills..BLACKMAIL , is it ..in a nutshell I'm 50 years old and disabled and cant start over again with no money. Now thats a short post..on a long story..lol
__________________ Debbi ~Follow the 3 R's~~~ Respect for self...Respect for others ...Responsibility for all your actions | |
05-21-2008, 07:39 AM | #12 | |||
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: usa
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I cant wait ~! Quote:
I feel good !!! Quote:
__________________ Debbi ~Follow the 3 R's~~~ Respect for self...Respect for others ...Responsibility for all your actions | |||
05-21-2008, 07:43 AM | #13 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Stuart, Florida
Posts: 1,094
| Good for You!! We would love to see pictures after your make over. I'm sorry that you are dealing with this with your husband. I hope that you do what is best for you and everything works out.
__________________ Monica and Madeleine Member of the Spoiled Rotten Club |
05-21-2008, 07:46 AM | #14 | |
Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member | Quote:
PLEASE WATCH WHAT YOU SAY HERE - he can one day use it against you. | |
05-21-2008, 08:07 AM | #15 |
Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Southeast Texas
Posts: 7,959
| Debbi.....good for you. I am proud that you are thinking of your own self pride. I was married to a domineering and controlling man for 10 years and I know how it feels. I have a 34 year old daughter that is gay and she is the sweetest, most thoughtful and most wonderful daughter ever. Your husband is a big jerk. I can't wait to see pictures of the new you. |
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