I am about to quit my job... - YorkieTalk.com Forums

labrown · 12-29-2007, 10:59 AM

And by about, I mean here within the next hour. I am not the kind of person who just walks out on a job, but I feel like I can't even last the rest of this day. I feel physically sick because my anxiety about this job and the man I work for is so bad.
I plan on giving him his key back when he gets back from lunch. I am so nervous. Then I plan on going home and taking the Texas Alchohol and Beverage Certification so I can go back to waiting tables. I have been a waitress for over 8 years, and when I moved to TX this fall I switched to cell phone sales. And I just can't do it anymore. I can be TABC certified in a matter of hours, and can apply at a restaurant starting Monday.
Financially I have over a month before I need to have another job, and my boyfriend is very supportive of it. he says if I am not happy, then I should quit. I am just so fed up with my boss, he is a dishonest man, he judges people, and is racist on top of it! I have been offended by him on many occasions, and have felt unsafe in my working environment many times.
I do feel bad for walking out the door, but really, I don't want to be paid by him in 2008. I want to get my W2 for this year and wash my hands of the whole job.

I guess I'm just looking to my YT friends for support. I'm very nervous, this is very out of character for me, but I have been pushed over the edge.

MeganS · 12-29-2007, 11:00 AM

I'm sorry you've been put in this situation. I can't imagine how nervous you must be! We're here for you! Wishing you the best of luck.

labrown · 12-29-2007, 11:01 AM

Thanks so much Megan! I knew YT members would give me the pats on the back that I need. I'm just so nervous because I'm such a loyal employee to others, it seems so awful to do this.

But to be honest, it has been more than awful working here.

sweetr72 · 12-29-2007, 11:02 AM

Sounds like you are making the right decision for you!! Good luck and let us know how it goes!!

Dawn

labrown · 12-29-2007, 11:04 AM

Oh I'm sure once I get home I'll get on YT and let it all out! I know I'll need someone to talk to once it is all over. Shoot, obviously I need someone to talk to about it now, or I wouldn't be here!

daisy mae06 · 12-29-2007, 11:04 AM

Go for it Girl

I wish I had the guts.
I have been wanting to tell my boss where to put the key for many years and still can't. I even got a new job and still haven't.

I wish you well. ..

littlewhip · 12-29-2007, 11:05 AM

My sister just did the same thing 2 weeks ago after being there for 15yrs, I will tell you what i told her, It does not matter how much you make or How much time you have been there, If your not happy, none of that matters, It sounds like you boss was just like hers, a real jerk

She was getting phisically & mentally sick day after day, finally she had enough and walked out, now they are fighting her on the unemployment. I wish you the very best, with what you decide to do..but be happy doing it

HUGS

Judy in Waco · 12-29-2007, 11:05 AM

Oh no, I'm so sorry you are going through this.

But hun, you know we support you and will be here to listen. I would just be a little concerned about having a new job before I left one...that's all. Hugs!

-Judy, John and Gizmo

Buddy-licious · 12-29-2007, 11:05 AM

I know you are nervous!!!! There are so many people out there that hates their jobs but they have to stick with it. Good luck and keep us posted!!!

Judy in Waco · 12-29-2007, 11:07 AM

I retract what I said. If he's making you ill...quit. No question. More hugs.

labrown · 12-29-2007, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Judy in Waco

Oh no, I'm so sorry you are going through this.

But hun, you know we support you and will be here to listen. I would just be a little concerned about having a new job before I left one...that's all. Hugs!

-Judy, John and Gizmo

Yeah, I understand that concern. the BF and I have talked about it many times, and he has a good full time job, so we aren't going to be in a pinch.

And to be perfectly honest with everyone, my BF is independently wealthy. He was hit by a semi when he was a senior in highschool, luckily lived, although he has 3 titanium vertibre because of it, and got a settlement from the insurance company. We don't worry much about money. And please don't think I tell you all of this as a way to brag or hold my nose in the air, I just want you all to understand my situation. We aren't frivilous, but we don't have to make ourselves unhappy just to feed our family. And I also feel that at 25 years old with no other obligations like a morgage or children, I can take bigger risks than most are willing to take.

MyLadies · 12-29-2007, 11:10 AM

Just do it. Life is too short. You will feel so much better after it's done. I've been in that position and felt I needed to "do the right thing" because I too am an honest & hardworking employee with "old fashioned work ethics". Well, sometimes the person you work for ISN'T. Just because they are your boss doesn't mean anything. When I quit that job I hated I waited around suffering along until I had another job, then typed up a letter of resignation, then was going to just leave it for the "boss" but I saw her on the way out so thought I'd do the right thing and go tell her face-to-face. She made me feel like less than dirt for quitting including speaking mockingly in front of another employee about me quitting. So I was sorry I didn't just stick with my initial plan of leaving the resignation letter on her desk and walking out. Its all about how you feel, honey. Go for it. You deserve to feel good about what you do for work & deserve the best.

labrown · 12-29-2007, 11:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Judy in Waco

I retract what I said. If he's making you ill...quit. No question. More hugs.

Thanks Judy! You give awesome hugs, I know from experience, so I really appreciate those.

Jenn218 · 12-29-2007, 11:13 AM

When I quit my university job...I sent letters to the appropriate people w/ a two week notice. I couldn't stand the thought of staying there any longer because the way things were done up there, etc. AND the thought of staying there TWO full weeks after giving notice made me soooo sick because there were lots of higher ups there that were very spiteful....I just dreaded having to deal w/ them for TWO weeks......well, they didn't give me two weeks...they hired a temp to take my place, and had someone from the main office come to train them. So, I was out of there! I have never looked back.

I admit...I was nervous about quitting, but knew it was the right thing to do...and the longer I thought and worried about it, the sicker I made myself.
Do it..........and don't look back.......it will be a great turning point in your life!

Judy in Waco · 12-29-2007, 11:14 AM

That makes it an easy decision then. Do what you need to do.

12-29-2007, 10:59 AM	#1
labrown T&T-DYNOMITE! Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 2,111	I am about to quit my job... And by about, I mean here within the next hour. I am not the kind of person who just walks out on a job, but I feel like I can't even last the rest of this day. I feel physically sick because my anxiety about this job and the man I work for is so bad. I plan on giving him his key back when he gets back from lunch. I am so nervous. Then I plan on going home and taking the Texas Alchohol and Beverage Certification so I can go back to waiting tables. I have been a waitress for over 8 years, and when I moved to TX this fall I switched to cell phone sales. And I just can't do it anymore. I can be TABC certified in a matter of hours, and can apply at a restaurant starting Monday. Financially I have over a month before I need to have another job, and my boyfriend is very supportive of it. he says if I am not happy, then I should quit. I am just so fed up with my boss, he is a dishonest man, he judges people, and is racist on top of it! I have been offended by him on many occasions, and have felt unsafe in my working environment many times. I do feel bad for walking out the door, but really, I don't want to be paid by him in 2008. I want to get my W2 for this year and wash my hands of the whole job. I guess I'm just looking to my YT friends for support. I'm very nervous, this is very out of character for me, but I have been pushed over the edge. __________________ TBone Tina & Lauren

12-29-2007, 11:00 AM	#2
MeganS Donating YT 7000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,016 Blog Entries: 1	I'm sorry you've been put in this situation. I can't imagine how nervous you must be! We're here for you! Wishing you the best of luck. __________________ Megan "I have my dreams, I have made plans." - The Pirate Queen All Gave Some; Some Gave All

12-29-2007, 11:01 AM	#3
labrown T&T-DYNOMITE! Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 2,111	Thanks so much Megan! I knew YT members would give me the pats on the back that I need. I'm just so nervous because I'm such a loyal employee to others, it seems so awful to do this. But to be honest, it has been more than awful working here. __________________ TBone Tina & Lauren

12-29-2007, 11:04 AM	#5
labrown T&T-DYNOMITE! Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 2,111	Oh I'm sure once I get home I'll get on YT and let it all out! I know I'll need someone to talk to once it is all over. Shoot, obviously I need someone to talk to about it now, or I wouldn't be here! __________________ TBone Tina & Lauren

12-29-2007, 11:04 AM	#6
daisy mae06 Kodi & Pixie 2 Donating Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: NEBRASKA Posts: 14,766	Go for it Girl I wish I had the guts. I have been wanting to tell my boss where to put the key for many years and still can't. I even got a new job and still haven't. I wish you well. .. __________________ OK Yorkie Rescue - http://okyorkierescue.org LorisCritterSitter.com

12-29-2007, 11:02 AM	#4
sweetr72 No Longer a Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 6,111	Sounds like you are making the right decision for you!! Good luck and let us know how it goes!! Dawn

12-29-2007, 11:05 AM	#7
littlewhip Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: wiith my furbabys Posts: 8,874	My sister just did the same thing 2 weeks ago after being there for 15yrs, I will tell you what i told her, It does not matter how much you make or How much time you have been there, If your not happy, none of that matters, It sounds like you boss was just like hers, a real jerk She was getting phisically & mentally sick day after day, finally she had enough and walked out, now they are fighting her on the unemployment. I wish you the very best, with what you decide to do..but be happy doing it HUGS __________________

12-29-2007, 11:05 AM	#8
Judy in Waco Gizzy & Kandi spoil me Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Waco, Texas Posts: 8,477	Oh no, I'm so sorry you are going through this. But hun, you know we support you and will be here to listen. I would just be a little concerned about having a new job before I left one...that's all. Hugs! -Judy, John and Gizmo __________________ The fullness of our heart is expressed in our eyes, in our touch, in what we write, in what we say, in the way we walk, the way we receive, the way we need. -Mother Teresa ( RIP Gizmo 3/9/07-8/18/12)

12-29-2007, 11:05 AM	#9
Buddy-licious Donating YT Addict Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Charlotte,nc Posts: 1,976	I know you are nervous!!!! There are so many people out there that hates their jobs but they have to stick with it. Good luck and keep us posted!!! __________________ Rhonda, Buddy-licious and Sammie

12-29-2007, 11:07 AM	#10
Judy in Waco Gizzy & Kandi spoil me Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Waco, Texas Posts: 8,477	I retract what I said. If he's making you ill...quit. No question. More hugs. __________________ The fullness of our heart is expressed in our eyes, in our touch, in what we write, in what we say, in the way we walk, the way we receive, the way we need. -Mother Teresa ( RIP Gizmo 3/9/07-8/18/12)

12-29-2007, 11:10 AM	#12
MyLadies No Longer a Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Washington State Posts: 1,218	Just do it. Life is too short. You will feel so much better after it's done. I've been in that position and felt I needed to "do the right thing" because I too am an honest & hardworking employee with "old fashioned work ethics". Well, sometimes the person you work for ISN'T. Just because they are your boss doesn't mean anything. When I quit that job I hated I waited around suffering along until I had another job, then typed up a letter of resignation, then was going to just leave it for the "boss" but I saw her on the way out so thought I'd do the right thing and go tell her face-to-face. She made me feel like less than dirt for quitting including speaking mockingly in front of another employee about me quitting. So I was sorry I didn't just stick with my initial plan of leaving the resignation letter on her desk and walking out. Its all about how you feel, honey. Go for it. You deserve to feel good about what you do for work & deserve the best.

12-29-2007, 11:13 AM	#14
Jenn218 Mojo, LilyGrace & Me Donating Member Moderator Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: cuddling with my babies<3 Posts: 17,329	When I quit my university job...I sent letters to the appropriate people w/ a two week notice. I couldn't stand the thought of staying there any longer because the way things were done up there, etc. AND the thought of staying there TWO full weeks after giving notice made me soooo sick because there were lots of higher ups there that were very spiteful....I just dreaded having to deal w/ them for TWO weeks......well, they didn't give me two weeks...they hired a temp to take my place, and had someone from the main office come to train them. So, I was out of there! I have never looked back. I admit...I was nervous about quitting, but knew it was the right thing to do...and the longer I thought and worried about it, the sicker I made myself. Do it..........and don't look back.......it will be a great turning point in your life! __________________ Hi I'm Jenn Mom to..... Mojo,LilyGrace & DD Kate RIP Mojo FOREVER in our hearts!

12-29-2007, 11:14 AM	#15
Judy in Waco Gizzy & Kandi spoil me Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Waco, Texas Posts: 8,477	That makes it an easy decision then. Do what you need to do. __________________ The fullness of our heart is expressed in our eyes, in our touch, in what we write, in what we say, in the way we walk, the way we receive, the way we need. -Mother Teresa ( RIP Gizmo 3/9/07-8/18/12)