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Superstarkba · 12-16-2007, 01:52 PM

I finally cut all ties with Josh! Thank God.. I feel better.. I just can't wait till theres a point to where I don't have to talk to him anymore

patty58 · 12-16-2007, 02:00 PM

As I posted in another thread...you deserve the best. I think it's about time you stopped putting up with his s**t and kicked him to the curb. There is a special someone out there who will treat you the way you need to be treated.....like a queen.

kalina82 · 12-16-2007, 02:06 PM

good for you! its hard at first but not talking to them and seeing them all the time really helps. i got rid of my ex a few months ago and at first it was really hard because he kept trying to talk to me. i finally just had to start ignoring his IMs and texts. now i feel so much better.

you will too soon. no one should have to put up with the crap some guys dish out. everyone deserves someone who makes them happy.

Superstarkba · 12-16-2007, 03:20 PM

Its hard, but I just have to get use to the adjustment without him here. I have another guy friend.. so this is helping too!

tmatherly · 12-16-2007, 03:55 PM

I know it's been hard for you. Stay strong...and keep your options open, girl!

Superstarkba · 12-16-2007, 04:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tmatherly

I know it's been hard for you. Stay strong...and keep your options open, girl!

Oh, I am!! Im just going to have fun... for a WHILE!

SANDYSAND · 12-16-2007, 04:06 PM

good for you!

Stay strong & dont rush into anything with your other guy friend, at times we feel a bit empty & tend to fill that with someone else, just be happy & everything is going to be just fine!!

Buddy-licious · 12-16-2007, 04:08 PM

Kelsey, I've really been thinking about you!!! Yes, it is going to take a little time to get use to him not being around but you are going to do fine!!!
Glad you have a new "friend"....perhaps he can keep you busy in your free time!!!

Erin · 12-16-2007, 04:24 PM

It might suck right now, but things will be clearer in a few weeks. You just have to step back and breathe. Obviously none of us know all the details, but it sounds like you made the right decision and you'll figure it all out.

xliloliverdiorx · 12-16-2007, 04:30 PM

I didnt read your post about him and your relationship before, but if he was treating you like crap its seriously not worth it and good for you for leaving him.

pepe mint · 12-16-2007, 04:34 PM

we are here for you!!!! you deserve to be treated better!!

scrappysmom · 12-16-2007, 05:42 PM

good for you

AVERYxo · 12-16-2007, 06:09 PM

i dont know your situation.. if you posted it in another thread-then i missed it!

im sorry! i know you were going through some stuff though.. so im assuming this is one of the issues you've been having!! so im glad you are getting that situated!! good for you.. you will be better off..and you KNOW what needs to be done for you to be happy-so im glad you are finally done with him!! sorry ur goin through that..but happy ur finally able to start putting that part of ur life BEHIND you!!

BUT-on a happier note, how is the pregnancy going??

Suzy · 12-16-2007, 06:12 PM

Good for you, I know how hard that is. It sounds like you already feel better, which means you probably made the best decision for you. And, though it's really difficult and sad, making the decision to demand what's in your best interest, and communicating those needs to him by breaking ties is the first step! Congrats to you for being so brave, and asserting yourself-you deserve the best!

Hugs to you.

bdbmamaw · 12-16-2007, 06:53 PM

Oh, Kelsey! I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Life just stinks sometimes. I'll be sure to keep you in my prayers as you head down this new (and exciting) path in your life. Enjoy the changes headed your way, girl! The book has been opened to a blank page and the sky's the limit!!!

12-16-2007, 01:52 PM	#1
Superstarkba Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia Posts: 9,359	Well Ladies.. I finally cut all ties with Josh! Thank God.. I feel better.. I just can't wait till theres a point to where I don't have to talk to him anymore __________________ Kelsey And Aubrey I love my little

12-16-2007, 02:00 PM	#2
patty58 Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: texas Posts: 4,835	As I posted in another thread...you deserve the best. I think it's about time you stopped putting up with his st and kicked him to the curb. There is a special someone out there who will treat you the way you need to be treated.....like a queen. __________________ Patty, Murfee's Mommy Believe Everything Happens For A Reason**

12-16-2007, 02:06 PM	#3
kalina82 Phantom Queen Morrigan Donating Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: North Jersey Posts: 6,655 Blog Entries: 1	good for you! its hard at first but not talking to them and seeing them all the time really helps. i got rid of my ex a few months ago and at first it was really hard because he kept trying to talk to me. i finally just had to start ignoring his IMs and texts. now i feel so much better. you will too soon. no one should have to put up with the crap some guys dish out. everyone deserves someone who makes them happy. __________________ Kellie and Morgan Girls Soccer Team Goalie!!!!

12-16-2007, 03:20 PM	#4
Superstarkba Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia Posts: 9,359	Its hard, but I just have to get use to the adjustment without him here. I have another guy friend.. so this is helping too! __________________ Kelsey And Aubrey I love my little

12-16-2007, 03:55 PM	#5
tmatherly Razorback Yorkie Lover Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Bentonville, AR Posts: 1,922	I know it's been hard for you. Stay strong...and keep your options open, girl! __________________ Tiffany Pippa, Scout, and Ranger's Mom http://www.dogster.com/?198523 http://www.dogster.com/?198525

12-16-2007, 04:06 PM	#7
SANDYSAND Mommy Loves Koda & Kacy! Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Home of the NY Yankees Posts: 5,340	good for you! Stay strong & dont rush into anything with your other guy friend, at times we feel a bit empty & tend to fill that with someone else, just be happy & everything is going to be just fine!! __________________ http://www.onetruemedia.com/shared?p=3a2e8eedc3dc6290fbd72e&skin_id=1603&utm_s ource=otm&utm_medium=text_url Mommy Loves:Koda & Kacy. Smile Life is a GIFT First Lady of the SRC~ Koda Benji

12-16-2007, 04:08 PM	#8
Buddy-licious Donating YT Addict Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Charlotte,nc Posts: 1,933	Kelsey, I've really been thinking about you!!! Yes, it is going to take a little time to get use to him not being around but you are going to do fine!!! Glad you have a new "friend"....perhaps he can keep you busy in your free time!!! __________________ Rhonda & Buddy-licious

12-16-2007, 04:24 PM	#9
Erin Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Chicago Suburbs Posts: 2,635	It might suck right now, but things will be clearer in a few weeks. You just have to step back and breathe. Obviously none of us know all the details, but it sounds like you made the right decision and you'll figure it all out.

12-16-2007, 04:30 PM	#10
xliloliverdiorx YT Addict Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 277	I didnt read your post about him and your relationship before, but if he was treating you like crap its seriously not worth it and good for you for leaving him. __________________ Member of the Little Gentleman's Club

12-16-2007, 04:34 PM	#11
pepe mint My yorkies, My friends! Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Nashville Posts: 10,665	we are here for you!!!! you deserve to be treated better!! __________________ Maggie Tessa I am DOUBLY blessed NEW STUFF at PawPassions.com (click here)Time is what you make for the things that are important to you!!!

12-16-2007, 05:42 PM	#12
scrappysmom Mommy's Baby Doo Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: DesMoines ,Ia Posts: 5,170	good for you __________________ mommy to scrappydoo charliegirl sunday

12-16-2007, 06:09 PM	#13
AVERYxo Lovin' my Girlies!! Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: -Orange County- CALIFORNIA Posts: 2,672	i dont know your situation.. if you posted it in another thread-then i missed it! im sorry! i know you were going through some stuff though.. so im assuming this is one of the issues you've been having!! so im glad you are getting that situated!! good for you.. you will be better off..and you KNOW what needs to be done for you to be happy-so im glad you are finally done with him!! sorry ur goin through that..but happy ur finally able to start putting that part of ur life BEHIND you!! BUT-on a happier note, how is the pregnancy going?? __________________ Meg & my baby girls Avie & Gemma

12-16-2007, 06:12 PM	#14
Suzy 2 Pups=Double Trouble! Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Iowa Posts: 5,777	Good for you, I know how hard that is. It sounds like you already feel better, which means you probably made the best decision for you. And, though it's really difficult and sad, making the decision to demand what's in your best interest, and communicating those needs to him by breaking ties is the first step! Congrats to you for being so brave, and asserting yourself-you deserve the best! Hugs to you. __________________ Suzy Emma & Milli What's better than loving a yorkie? Loving two yorkies! Milli 's Remi!

12-16-2007, 06:53 PM	#15
bdbmamaw Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 805	Oh, Kelsey! I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Life just stinks sometimes. I'll be sure to keep you in my prayers as you head down this new (and exciting) path in your life. Enjoy the changes headed your way, girl! The book has been opened to a blank page and the sky's the limit!!! __________________ MYLAN CONNOR PIXIE KERA SAMMIE