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babyparis · 08-07-2005, 08:30 PM

i would like to thank everyone who tried to help out in giving paris a new home. we are going to miss her so much.

i have been in tears all day but when paris met with her new mommy and daddy she greeted them with lots and lots of kisses. they fell in love with her and i'm so happy thatthe right people took her. i know she is going to be very well loved and taken care of. it is just heart breaking knowing she is so close and i cant be with her anymore. i am really really going to miss her but i will never forget her or stop loving her. she was the best thing that happened to me, beside my husband and children. SHE WAS ONE OF MY CHILDREN!

bye bye paris momma's going to miss you alot.

these pictures were taken today right before she went to her forever home. she gave me a kiss goodbye

Shanatink · 08-07-2005, 08:41 PM

Oh, I just had to read up on all the story to get caught up. I am so sorry you could not keep your little baby. She is very pretty. You did a very kind thing for her by giving her up to keep her safe. Good luck with everything.

velobabe · 08-07-2005, 09:08 PM

I am so sorry that you had to give Paris up

. I too just read your previous threads and can only imagine the heartache you are going through. I admire your ability to sacrifice your beloved baby in an effort to help others. I don't think I would be able to be as accomodating and hope I am never put in that position. You have done what was necessary for Paris, yourself, and your family. I just hope you find solace in knowing that she'll be loved by her new parents. Hope you don't mind my asking how you found Paris' new family? I'm sure you drove yourself nuts trying to find the perfect match for her. Will you be able to see her or will they keep in touch with you? Regardless, I hope all turns out well for you and your family members.

orinskye · 08-07-2005, 09:09 PM

im sorry you felt you had to give her up

that is so sad................

babyparis · 08-07-2005, 09:39 PM

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Originally Posted by velobabe

I am so sorry that you had to give Paris up

. I too just read your previous threads and can only imagine the heartache you are going through. I admire your ability to sacrifice your beloved baby in an effort to help others. I don't think I would be able to be as accomodating and hope I am never put in that position. You have done what was necessary for Paris, yourself, and your family. I just hope you find solace in knowing that she'll be loved by her new parents. Hope you don't mind my asking how you found Paris' new family? I'm sure you drove yourself nuts trying to find the perfect match for her. Will you be able to see her or will they keep in touch with you? Regardless, I hope all turns out well for you and your family members.

well i had 4 people respond to the add that i put here and on puupy find but the lady i sold her to was the one who sounded alot nicer and also lived here in houston. i was promised that i could call anytime i wanted to and that i would recieve pictures. but when i spoke wiht paris' new mommy she told me she had a yorkie before and that she left her with her father because he couldnt be with out her. she just recently moved here from canada and really misses her yorkie so i know that paris is in good hands. i just had a very good feeling about these people and usually my instincts are good about people. i know it was hard to choose between 4 people but atleast i know that she wont be far away from me. hopefully i can get visiting rights. lol and check up on her every now and then. oh my goodness i get so sad thinking about her i cry everytime i think about her.

now as for me giving her up for my family. she is my family and how stupid of me for giving her up. i really hate myself right now, but it's for her own well being and i know she is in a safe place. i just dont know how much more i can take with these people. i fear that they wont be here much longer and i just gave up one of my prized possesions. i had good intentions when i decided to give paris up but the people i took in MY FAMILY are ungrateful and dont even care or even have any sympathy for me. they just go about their buisiness like it's a normal day. when i got home with tears in my eyes cause i knew paris wasnt going to greet me with kisses i just cried and cried and their response was oh my god why are you crying. all of that for a dog. i hate that. she was my baby! and i miss her. but i would never never take her away from her new mommy just cause i miss her. anyway, im glad she is gone cause if they consider her just a DOG then i know they will mistreat her and not even try to be affectionate to her. i jsut wish they were gone. one day i will get another yorkie and even then he or she will not replace what i have lost. it will just put a piece of my heart back together. i recommended yorkie talk to paris' mommy and told her how nice every one here is . she said she would register that way she can keep us updated on paris. sorry this was so long but i just had to let out some frustration since apparently i have noone else to talk to.

Rex'z momma · 08-07-2005, 09:42 PM

now i am close to tears from your story

Bruce's_Mom · 08-07-2005, 10:09 PM

I AM SO SORRY THIS HAPPENED TO YOU!!! You truly must have a kind heart because I am afraid I would be selfish and choose my Bruce over just about anyone! I am glad Paris has a good new home. I know right now you feel stupid, but it was not stupid to make the best choice for her safety!

On the topic of your family! I think they need to (a) be a little bit more grateful and (b) SHOW YOU AND YOUR FEELINGS SOME DAMN RESPECT, they are in your home, using your things, and taking over your life! If you get frustrated and have to lay down the law do not hesitate! These people have no idea just how much you have given up for them!

jade960 · 08-07-2005, 11:24 PM

I am sooooo happy about the new addition to my family!!! My husband and I are already in love with baby Paris. She is so very precious and sweet. She has been cudly and kissy all evening since we got her. I was a little worried that she might need sometime to get use to us, but now I'm not to sure that will be a problem. I will be posting some new pictures that we took of her outside

this afternoon and keep everyone posted on how she's doing.

We Promise to take great care of your baby Paris....

JADE
(The Proud New Parent to Baby Paris)

wendybee · 08-08-2005, 12:53 AM

you are one brave and UNSELFISH person for letting your baby go for others, its so sad that after everything you have done they still are not gratful.
you no that we are all here for you on YT also if you feel like achat or feeling low you can always email me.
god bless you

wendy and rosie

red98vett · 08-08-2005, 03:02 AM

This was so SAD !! While I can see that she's in a good home by the post - and congratulations on helping out Paris ...it sounds like you DID pick a great home for her.

I just couldn't have done what you did - I really couldn't .....What a shame and why aren't those people living in YOUR house being a little more compassionate ?

I'm sorry - I don't even know them - but I would sure want them gone.....it's one thing to help out friends - but to give up your dog for them ? NO WAY would I do that - and I consider my heart pretty big....I would MAKE them adjust to ME if they were in my house - I've had friends stay with me before and they've were great guests - we worked together to make it the best situation all around - but if it came to my girls or my friend - sorry - it would be no contest. Friends will leave and move on and forget what you did....I hope I don't sound terrible - but I really feel bad for you. They REALLY need to know what you just gave up for them !!

I can sure sympathize with your tears - you poor thing....hang in there and I hope things get better for you at home.

suzysmitt · 08-08-2005, 03:58 AM

Please don't feel to bad about giving her to a good home, and thank you to the lovely people who took her. Both of my yorkies came to me from similiar situations. Gwen was 3 and not wanted because she only had 3 legs and couldn't be reproduce. I snatched her up, almost got my nose bit off, because she wasn't well cared for, and now she is the most loving, functional little princess you could ever want. Skippy was offered up on YT, because his parents were moving and couldn't keep him. I didn't even want a boy, but when I met him he instantly became my little man. He's not potty trained or is Gwen totally, but we're working hard on it. I can't tell you how much I appreciate these people giving up their wonderful babies to me. I never could have offered to put out $700 or more for a puppy, but I can tell you my babies want for nothing. I've gone through tons of food finding what each of them love, and tons of toys. They couldn't be loved more. Please keep your chin up, and know that maybe some day you'll be the recipent when the time and place are just right for you.

edi · 08-08-2005, 05:04 PM

Your story is so sad. It takes alot of heart to do what you did but I saw the reply from Jade I guess she is the new mommy to Paris and I think she will do good on her word to love and keep Paris safe and well. The first hing she did is to keep everyone informed on Paris. Good luck to all.

seh0422 · 08-08-2005, 06:10 PM

I am so sorry for you I know your heart must be in

two right now. But at least you found little Paris a family that will love her as much as you did. And as for the family you took in they need to be more respectful to the fact that you did take them in and give up a priceless baby(Paris) for some ungratful people as them. sorry but I would never had done that, they would of had to adjust, but then again I do understand that you didnt want anything bad to happen to her. You know you can alway come to YT to talk to your friends about your babies expecially YORKIES. So glad you can still keep in touch with her.
To Paris's new mommy and daddy congrats and welcome to Yorkietalk and please keep us updated on Paris and how she is doing. You did a good thing

and got a priceless baby.

Kelz · 08-08-2005, 06:33 PM

i'm so sorry! but at least you found her a loving home!

bkessler · 08-08-2005, 06:35 PM

I didn't have a chance to read what happened with Paris.. I am so sorry you had to give her up but at least she is going to a home with people that seem to love her.. Your heart will heal over time... Good luck

08-07-2005, 08:30 PM	#1
babyparis Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: May 2005 Location: palestine, tx Posts: 145	a broken heart i would like to thank everyone who tried to help out in giving paris a new home. we are going to miss her so much. i have been in tears all day but when paris met with her new mommy and daddy she greeted them with lots and lots of kisses. they fell in love with her and i'm so happy thatthe right people took her. i know she is going to be very well loved and taken care of. it is just heart breaking knowing she is so close and i cant be with her anymore. i am really really going to miss her but i will never forget her or stop loving her. she was the best thing that happened to me, beside my husband and children. SHE WAS ONE OF MY CHILDREN! bye bye paris momma's going to miss you alot. these pictures were taken today right before she went to her forever home. she gave me a kiss goodbye Attached Thumbnails

08-07-2005, 08:41 PM	#2
Shanatink Mommy to 3 Princesses Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: DFW Texas Posts: 11,030	Oh, I just had to read up on all the story to get caught up. I am so sorry you could not keep your little baby. She is very pretty. You did a very kind thing for her by giving her up to keep her safe. Good luck with everything. __________________ Custom Dog Clothing Boutique www.TinkerbellsCloset.com

08-07-2005, 09:08 PM	#3
velobabe Mommy's Lil' Piper Cub Join Date: May 2005 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 1,333	Paris I am so sorry that you had to give Paris up . I too just read your previous threads and can only imagine the heartache you are going through. I admire your ability to sacrifice your beloved baby in an effort to help others. I don't think I would be able to be as accomodating and hope I am never put in that position. You have done what was necessary for Paris, yourself, and your family. I just hope you find solace in knowing that she'll be loved by her new parents. Hope you don't mind my asking how you found Paris' new family? I'm sure you drove yourself nuts trying to find the perfect match for her. Will you be able to see her or will they keep in touch with you? Regardless, I hope all turns out well for you and your family members. __________________ Tammy & Piper ~Yorkies Are Not Our Whole Life, But They Make Our Lives Whole~

08-07-2005, 10:09 PM	#7
Bruce's_Mom YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 779	I AM SO SORRY THIS HAPPENED TO YOU!!! You truly must have a kind heart because I am afraid I would be selfish and choose my Bruce over just about anyone! I am glad Paris has a good new home. I know right now you feel stupid, but it was not stupid to make the best choice for her safety! On the topic of your family! I think they need to (a) be a little bit more grateful and (b) SHOW YOU AND YOUR FEELINGS SOME DAMN RESPECT, they are in your home, using your things, and taking over your life! If you get frustrated and have to lay down the law do not hesitate! These people have no idea just how much you have given up for them! __________________ Bruce's Dogster Page http://www.dogster.com/?177273

08-07-2005, 11:24 PM	#8
jade960 YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Texas Posts: 5	Baby Paris Is Beautiful!!! I am sooooo happy about the new addition to my family!!! My husband and I are already in love with baby Paris. She is so very precious and sweet. She has been cudly and kissy all evening since we got her. I was a little worried that she might need sometime to get use to us, but now I'm not to sure that will be a problem. I will be posting some new pictures that we took of her outside this afternoon and keep everyone posted on how she's doing. We Promise to take great care of your baby Paris.... JADE (The Proud New Parent to Baby Paris)

08-07-2005, 09:09 PM	#4
orinskye YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: California Posts: 2,990	im sorry you felt you had to give her up that is so sad................

08-07-2005, 09:42 PM	#6
Rex'z momma BANNED! Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 798	now i am close to tears from your story

08-08-2005, 12:53 AM	#9
wendybee BANNED! Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 966	you are one brave and UNSELFISH person for letting your baby go for others, its so sad that after everything you have done they still are not gratful. you no that we are all here for you on YT also if you feel like achat or feeling low you can always email me. god bless you wendy and rosie

08-08-2005, 03:02 AM	#10
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	This was so SAD !! While I can see that she's in a good home by the post - and congratulations on helping out Paris ...it sounds like you DID pick a great home for her. I just couldn't have done what you did - I really couldn't .....What a shame and why aren't those people living in YOUR house being a little more compassionate ? I'm sorry - I don't even know them - but I would sure want them gone.....it's one thing to help out friends - but to give up your dog for them ? NO WAY would I do that - and I consider my heart pretty big....I would MAKE them adjust to ME if they were in my house - I've had friends stay with me before and they've were great guests - we worked together to make it the best situation all around - but if it came to my girls or my friend - sorry - it would be no contest. Friends will leave and move on and forget what you did....I hope I don't sound terrible - but I really feel bad for you. They REALLY need to know what you just gave up for them !! I can sure sympathize with your tears - you poor thing....hang in there and I hope things get better for you at home. __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

08-08-2005, 03:58 AM	#11
suzysmitt Currently Suspended! Join Date: May 2005 Location: Florida Posts: 2,150	Please don't feel to bad about giving her to a good home, and thank you to the lovely people who took her. Both of my yorkies came to me from similiar situations. Gwen was 3 and not wanted because she only had 3 legs and couldn't be reproduce. I snatched her up, almost got my nose bit off, because she wasn't well cared for, and now she is the most loving, functional little princess you could ever want. Skippy was offered up on YT, because his parents were moving and couldn't keep him. I didn't even want a boy, but when I met him he instantly became my little man. He's not potty trained or is Gwen totally, but we're working hard on it. I can't tell you how much I appreciate these people giving up their wonderful babies to me. I never could have offered to put out $700 or more for a puppy, but I can tell you my babies want for nothing. I've gone through tons of food finding what each of them love, and tons of toys. They couldn't be loved more. Please keep your chin up, and know that maybe some day you'll be the recipent when the time and place are just right for you.

08-08-2005, 05:04 PM	#12
edi Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: May 2005 Location: Miami, Florida Posts: 165	Your story is so sad. It takes alot of heart to do what you did but I saw the reply from Jade I guess she is the new mommy to Paris and I think she will do good on her word to love and keep Paris safe and well. The first hing she did is to keep everyone informed on Paris. Good luck to all. __________________ MommytoGenie Girl

08-08-2005, 06:10 PM	#13
seh0422 YT Addict Join Date: May 2005 Location: San Antonio Texas Posts: 480	I am so sorry for you I know your heart must be in two right now. But at least you found little Paris a family that will love her as much as you did. And as for the family you took in they need to be more respectful to the fact that you did take them in and give up a priceless baby(Paris) for some ungratful people as them. sorry but I would never had done that, they would of had to adjust, but then again I do understand that you didnt want anything bad to happen to her. You know you can alway come to YT to talk to your friends about your babies expecially YORKIES. So glad you can still keep in touch with her. To Paris's new mommy and daddy congrats and welcome to Yorkietalk and please keep us updated on Paris and how she is doing. You did a good thing and got a priceless baby. __________________ Sarah I'm Mommy to Princess Emma Rose 10/25/2015 Baby Girl I Love and Miss You RIP Brownie , Koda's Bear Hugs

08-08-2005, 06:33 PM	#14
Kelz YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Yukon, ok Posts: 2,885	i'm so sorry! but at least you found her a loving home! __________________ Kelly- momma to Parker, Star,Zoe, & Kegan.. RIP Silly Lily OK Yorkie Rescue - http://okyorkierescue.org

08-08-2005, 06:35 PM	#15
bkessler Mommy's Little Angel Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Northern New Jersey Posts: 1,496	I didn't have a chance to read what happened with Paris.. I am so sorry you had to give her up but at least she is going to a home with people that seem to love her.. Your heart will heal over time... Good luck __________________ Brooke & Lily Mae (Maltipoo) Mocha (12/23/04-6/25/05)