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MeganS · 01-08-2007, 05:59 PM

Hey guys. I don't know what's up with me today, but I've been missing Bandit so much.

It'll be 2 years in May since he died. I can't stop thinking about him. Usually, I'm fine and I can just think about what a spunky little guy he was. But I'm in tears right now. I miss him so much. I want my Banderboo back......

backagain39 · 01-08-2007, 06:05 PM

Is ok to cry. I lost my lab almost 10 years ago and I still miss him. They become part of the family and its ok to cry over the loss.

Try to remember the good times and treasure the time you had together.....

Grayson's mom · 01-08-2007, 06:14 PM

It's ok to miss our pets, I miss my childhood buddy Bucky I have pictures of him by my bed, he was such a fun protective dog, he loved me to death and boy he wouldn't let a soul he didn't know come near me, he would try to bite my boyfriends he could see they were creeps lol

I'm saying a prayer for comfort for you Megan

peanut · 01-08-2007, 06:16 PM

Bless your heart....You go ahead and cry and miss him...He was part of your life, and you will always think about him....Its like my Tucker, I really miss him so much...even with all my zoo here, I think about him all the time....

LunasMomma · 01-08-2007, 06:57 PM

(((((HUGS))))) to you. I'm sorry that you're hurting

Remember that someday, we'll all be reunited with the furbabies that we've lost. I'll have Starr and a few hamsters waiting for me at the Rainbow Bridge, and your Bandit will be there waiting for you, too

Patti · 01-09-2007, 05:30 AM

I am sorry you are having a sad day. Hugs from Cali and Maya.

Doodlebug · 01-09-2007, 07:17 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. I still miss each and every one of my dogs that I have lost over the years. It still hurts to look at pictures of them. It has helped me a lot to have Daisy and Teddy Bear, but there will never be another Misty, Muffin, Chewey, Bingo or Toby.

CJCinTX · 01-09-2007, 07:23 AM

You're not alone. Some days it just seems like there are waves of memories that come over me of my angel dogs for no particular reason. I do notice that as time goes on, the tears are more from missing the happy memories instead of the actual loss. So I try to focus on the fun things (like Bandit being spunky!) & I just let myself cry.

C.J.

RoxyJosMom · 01-09-2007, 08:22 AM

I'm sorry, Megan, sweetie. Once a frubaby, featherbaby ore any kind of baby wiggles their way into our heart, they become a part of us and they leave a huge hole in our lives when they leave. We will always miss them and it's ok to let them know. In time, your tears of sadness will turn to tears of happy rememberances. We all have been or will be in your shoes, Megan. So you are not alone. I hope you feel better soon.

celstu1 · 01-09-2007, 09:09 AM

If you have read poor Aubreys story with baby Ella and it made you think of your 'fallen' boy, then I guess its totally normal to miss him more today for that reason alone! (not that you don't miss him everyday).
I miss my baby boy Stuart, he died Sept 05 from ingesting rat poison. Its a big mystery as to how he got into rat poison that Ive rehashed a million times and still never got an answer. He was 4 days shy of 5 months old. He was my angel through my seperation from my ex fiance at the time.
There are still days that I miss him so much, it actually puts me physical pain in my chest! I never posted the story here, at least not yet! But I soo know what you are going through today! If you could just stroke his soft fur and get one last kiss it could carry you!

Hang in there! Have a good cry (if you can) I always feel better when I have a good cry!

Tink's Mom · 01-09-2007, 09:47 AM

Oh jeepers, it's so hard to remember a lost furchild. I sympathize with you and with celstu1. I recently lost my poodle boy after 17 years. Sometimes I just have to turn my back to everyone at work and let the tears fall. I think it means we loved them alot and they loved us back alot. Our precious, precious little friends!

Gingergirlsmom · 01-09-2007, 09:51 AM

Aww, sweetie, it's okay to be sad. I still tear up over my lost furbabies, and everytime I read about someone else's loss. They are very important to us.

Rae Rae · 01-09-2007, 09:52 AM

Aw it'll be OK. I still have days where I think about my past furbabies and get sad too. I think once an animal has touched your heart the way our furbabies do, you never really get over them. You might learn to accept it that there gone and go on with life, but it's not something you can really just get over.

yorkieusa · 01-09-2007, 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted by MeganS

Hey guys. I don't know what's up with me today, but I've been missing Bandit so much.

It'll be 2 years in May since he died. I can't stop thinking about him. Usually, I'm fine and I can just think about what a spunky little guy he was. But I'm in tears right now. I miss him so much. I want my Banderboo back......

I understand completely, Megan. It's the same way with me and Muffin. It's ok to cry.

friesianlady · 01-09-2007, 06:48 PM

Oh Megan, reading your thread about missing Bandit just brought tears to my eyes... It must be the day, I was just sitting and the tears were running down my face... For me it has been a really tough year, loss of job, my Friesian colt Mack, daughters minpin Molly, Ben our Oriental cat, mother-in-law and brother-in-law.......Wow, it has been a rough year.....So lets have a good cry together...

..

....

Mack, Molly + Ben...

01-08-2007, 05:59 PM	#1
MeganS Donating YT 7000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 9,947 Blog Entries: 1	Bad Day...... Hey guys. I don't know what's up with me today, but I've been missing Bandit so much. It'll be 2 years in May since he died. I can't stop thinking about him. Usually, I'm fine and I can just think about what a spunky little guy he was. But I'm in tears right now. I miss him so much. I want my Banderboo back...... __________________ Megan Positive posting makes every day brighter! "I stand for the power to change." - I Stand by Idina Menzel "I have my dreams. I have made plans." - The Pirate Queen musical

01-08-2007, 06:14 PM	#3
Grayson's mom Mommy's Little Boo Boo Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Virgina Posts: 3,478	It's ok to miss our pets, I miss my childhood buddy Bucky I have pictures of him by my bed, he was such a fun protective dog, he loved me to death and boy he wouldn't let a soul he didn't know come near me, he would try to bite my boyfriends he could see they were creeps lol I'm saying a prayer for comfort for you Megan __________________ Proud mom to Grayson Abby Dusty Pepper Ryan Gabriel and of course me Diane Grayson loves Tia

01-08-2007, 06:16 PM	#4
peanut Dogs Rule Cats Drool! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,152	Bless your heart....You go ahead and cry and miss him...He was part of your life, and you will always think about him....Its like my Tucker, I really miss him so much...even with all my zoo here, I think about him all the time.... __________________ KIM http://dogster.com/?307164 http://dogster.com/?375879The Monkeys http://www.photoshow.com/watch/PH5fy9Ff

01-08-2007, 06:57 PM	#5
LunasMomma Izzy's Momma Too! Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Stuart, Florida Posts: 4,644	(((((HUGS))))) to you. I'm sorry that you're hurting Remember that someday, we'll all be reunited with the furbabies that we've lost. I'll have Starr and a few hamsters waiting for me at the Rainbow Bridge, and your Bandit will be there waiting for you, too __________________ Card Carrying Member of the Crazy AND Pink Clubs

01-09-2007, 05:30 AM	#6
Patti Donating YT 10000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 17,852	I am sorry you are having a sad day. Hugs from Cali and Maya. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : Maya's Mom RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

01-08-2007, 06:05 PM	#2
backagain39 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Maryland Posts: 125	Is ok to cry. I lost my lab almost 10 years ago and I still miss him. They become part of the family and its ok to cry over the loss. Try to remember the good times and treasure the time you had together.....

01-09-2007, 07:17 AM	#7
Doodlebug Luv my Daisy and Teddy Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Missouri Posts: 2,078	I am so sorry for your loss. I still miss each and every one of my dogs that I have lost over the years. It still hurts to look at pictures of them. It has helped me a lot to have Daisy and Teddy Bear, but there will never be another Misty, Muffin, Chewey, Bingo or Toby. __________________ Daisy and Teddy Bear & Jean Photos HERE Proud member of the Little Gentlemen's Club

01-09-2007, 07:23 AM	#8
CJCinTX Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Dallas/Ft. Worth Posts: 261	You're not alone. Some days it just seems like there are waves of memories that come over me of my angel dogs for no particular reason. I do notice that as time goes on, the tears are more from missing the happy memories instead of the actual loss. So I try to focus on the fun things (like Bandit being spunky!) & I just let myself cry. C.J. __________________ "You're not the boss of me!!" Muffin Please come & see me at www.dogster.com/?442433

01-09-2007, 08:22 AM	#9
RoxyJosMom Love The Verminator! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: PA Posts: 3,912	I'm sorry, Megan, sweetie. Once a frubaby, featherbaby ore any kind of baby wiggles their way into our heart, they become a part of us and they leave a huge hole in our lives when they leave. We will always miss them and it's ok to let them know. In time, your tears of sadness will turn to tears of happy rememberances. We all have been or will be in your shoes, Megan. So you are not alone. I hope you feel better soon. __________________ Roxy loves Alphy Remi loves Millie ORDER YOUR YT COOKBOOK TODAY

01-09-2007, 09:09 AM	#10
celstu1 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Hudson Posts: 3,720	If you have read poor Aubreys story with baby Ella and it made you think of your 'fallen' boy, then I guess its totally normal to miss him more today for that reason alone! (not that you don't miss him everyday). I miss my baby boy Stuart, he died Sept 05 from ingesting rat poison. Its a big mystery as to how he got into rat poison that Ive rehashed a million times and still never got an answer. He was 4 days shy of 5 months old. He was my angel through my seperation from my ex fiance at the time. There are still days that I miss him so much, it actually puts me physical pain in my chest! I never posted the story here, at least not yet! But I soo know what you are going through today! If you could just stroke his soft fur and get one last kiss it could carry you! Hang in there! Have a good cry (if you can) I always feel better when I have a good cry!

01-09-2007, 09:47 AM	#11
Tink's Mom With Indy In My Heart Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 7,282	Oh jeepers, it's so hard to remember a lost furchild. I sympathize with you and with celstu1. I recently lost my poodle boy after 17 years. Sometimes I just have to turn my back to everyone at work and let the tears fall. I think it means we loved them alot and they loved us back alot. Our precious, precious little friends! __________________ Villette's Designs Simply MarvelousTink, Bernie & Uncle Charlie Tink's on Dogster RIP my sweet Boo

01-09-2007, 09:51 AM	#12
Gingergirlsmom and Bernie's mom too!" Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 6,705	Aww, sweetie, it's okay to be sad. I still tear up over my lost furbabies, and everytime I read about someone else's loss. They are very important to us. __________________ Get Better Soon, Susie and Tink!!!!!

01-09-2007, 09:52 AM	#13
Rae Rae YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Illinois Posts: 4,682	Aw it'll be OK. I still have days where I think about my past furbabies and get sad too. I think once an animal has touched your heart the way our furbabies do, you never really get over them. You might learn to accept it that there gone and go on with life, but it's not something you can really just get over. __________________ Owned by Rocky and Bella

01-09-2007, 06:48 PM	#15
friesianlady Donating YT Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: NEW HAMPSHIRE Posts: 426	Oh Megan, reading your thread about missing Bandit just brought tears to my eyes... It must be the day, I was just sitting and the tears were running down my face... For me it has been a really tough year, loss of job, my Friesian colt Mack, daughters minpin Molly, Ben our Oriental cat, mother-in-law and brother-in-law.......Wow, it has been a rough year.....So lets have a good cry together......... Mack, Molly + Ben...