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Baby Blessing · 01-29-2006, 05:42 PM

Today was a really rough day for me, I Miss Cassie so much and found myself crying, crying and then some. I filed Baby Blessings nails with emory board she was so good, and in the midst of doing it I just broke down, she looked up at me and started licking my tears, I told her how much I miss our Cassie. Oh, I sure hope the pain will ease up. I am all prepared to give Baby Blessing her bath now (have been for two hours) it will be her first but the memories of Cassie keep coming back in doing these things and it hurts so bad. I know God called her to a perfect home that she is in now but the wishing still won't stop.
RIP our precious Cassie

brittanyBug · 01-29-2006, 05:47 PM

I'll keep you in my prayers. Things will get better. Just remeber Cassie is in a wonderful place.

deb4air · 01-29-2006, 06:37 PM

Grieveing has its own time and everyones differant ..My hope for you is that you choose to be at peace with this soon and knowthe love for Cassie lives within your own heart and always will ..so in a way Cassie is closer than you think .Peace and light to you ..

whispersmom2 · 02-02-2006, 10:34 AM

These Yorkie babies sense our pain! How else can we explain their loving looks and licking our tears. I believe that they grieve too and know when a loss has occured..I know mine do.
I pray that the healing and peace that you so need will start and your heart will heal.

red98vett · 02-03-2006, 06:26 AM

I just want to say I hope your pain eases....

I can just imagine how you feel and hugs to you...

Rest in Peace little Cassie.....you sound very loved.

crystalsmom · 02-03-2006, 06:36 AM

I lost my Molly 10 years ago and when I hear someone lost their baby, I find myself
breaking down again. I remember I tried to think of the good days and there were so many of them as I'm sure there were for you, too. The God I pray to, I know will love them always and IF I am as good as my Molly I will see her again. I will pray for you so your pain will be much less.

rrosenberry · 02-03-2006, 06:38 AM

Oh, sweetie, I can only imagine how hard it is, I do know that with my 16 year old cat that I had to sent to the RB, It was so hard, but now as time has passed 2 years, I have only good thoughts of her, not that I don't miss her and think of her, but it is easier. And I know she is better off, and running and playing and thanking me for letting her go.

Care28 · 02-03-2006, 07:43 AM

Awwww, sweetie. I so relate to you and completely understand. We got Bella a month ago, and we lost Kelli 2 months ago. I look at her sometimes and just break down because I can still see and hear and feel Kelli and some of the stuff Bella does or the looks she gives me are so 'her'. Bella was born just 11 days before our Kel died, so I sometimes think part of Kelli's spirit is in her. I know that might sound absolutely SILLY to some, but I do think Kelli is watching her and guiding over her. Maybe it would help you some to think of what an Angel Cassie is for your Baby Blessing? I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers, and hope that your pain eases with time. You'll always miss her, but she was so blessed and loved to have had you in her life as her family.

winelover · 04-01-2006, 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Baby Blessing

Today was a really rough day for me, I Miss Cassie so much and found myself crying, crying and then some. I filed Baby Blessings nails with emory board she was so good, and in the midst of doing it I just broke down, she looked up at me and started licking my tears, I told her how much I miss our Cassie. Oh, I sure hope the pain will ease up. I am all prepared to give Baby Blessing her bath now (have been for two hours) it will be her first but the memories of Cassie keep coming back in doing these things and it hurts so bad. I know God called her to a perfect home that she is in now but the wishing still won't stop.
RIP our precious Cassie

My sweet Chloe died almost a month now she was only 8 and a half and Jazmine is beside herself as she misses her so. When I came home with Chloe's carrier Jazmine ran up to it and sniffed and since Chloe was not there she ran around the house looking for her. As with you I will never ever forget Chloe's love. She will never leave my heart. Hopefully as time goes by the pain will lessen. Jim

JeanieK · 04-01-2006, 03:28 PM

It does get better with time. Or should I say the bad days get farther and farther apart, but you will still have bad days like today. The new babies bring on the memories, but they also help to ease the pain.

Baby Blessing · 04-01-2006, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by winelover

My sweet Chloe died almost a month now she was only 8 and a half and Jazmine is beside herself as she misses her so. When I came home with Chloe's carrier Jazmine ran up to it and sniffed and since Chloe was not there she ran around the house looking for her. As with you I will never ever forget Chloe's love. She will never leave my heart. Hopefully as time goes by the pain will lessen. Jim

Hi Jim, I am glad you found the site here, please come back and talk about Chloe and share all the precious memories with her, it is important to talk about her and it will help you through the days and months ahead. I am so glad you have Jazmine and hope she is doing better. Have you thought about getting another yorkie for a play mate for her. I think she might like that. We love our Baby Blessing and she is a lot of fun. We are so glad we got her and know Cassie would be too, we had so much love for her that she would want us to share that love with a new one. I pray that the hurt will stop for us and others that are going through a loss. Have you posted pictures here at YT? We would love to see Jazmine and also Chloe too. Just this past week I was able to look at pictures of Cassie, so maybe this is a healing process, I don't know but the one I posted here of her in the gallery, I have made it as my screen saver on our computer, I just learned how to do the picture posting if we can help you to post any just let us know.
Patti and Jack ~~Baby Blessing~~

winelover · 04-01-2006, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Baby Blessing

Hi Jim, I am glad you found the site here, please come back and talk about Chloe and share all the precious memories with her, it is important to talk about her and it will help you through the days and months ahead. I am so glad you have Jazmine and hope she is doing better. Have you thought about getting another yorkie for a play mate for her. I think she might like that. We love our Baby Blessing and she is a lot of fun. We are so glad we got her and know Cassie would be too, we had so much love for her that she would want us to share that love with a new one. I pray that the hurt will stop for us and others that are going through a loss. Have you posted pictures here at YT? We would love to see Jazmine and also Chloe too. Just this past week I was able to look at pictures of Cassie, so maybe this is a healing process, I don't know but the one I posted here of her in the gallery, I have made it as my screen saver on our computer, I just learned how to do the picture posting if we can help you to post any just let us know.
Patti and Jack ~~Baby Blessing~~

Yes please tell me how to place pictures here I have tried but nothing happened. Also thank you for your kind words. At lease I was with her when the time came. She did not die alone. I close my eyes and I can still see her. GOD IT SO HURTS. Sorry men are not supposed to cry. Screw that. I miss her so very much. Thank God for this site at least I know I am not alone in this feeling of a broken heart.

Thanks for listening. Jim

01-29-2006, 05:42 PM	#1
Baby Blessing Our Blessings R Many Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: In the shelter of God's Loving Care. Posts: 3,095 Blog Entries: 1	How long does it take for grieving loss to take Today was a really rough day for me, I Miss Cassie so much and found myself crying, crying and then some. I filed Baby Blessings nails with emory board she was so good, and in the midst of doing it I just broke down, she looked up at me and started licking my tears, I told her how much I miss our Cassie. Oh, I sure hope the pain will ease up. I am all prepared to give Baby Blessing her bath now (have been for two hours) it will be her first but the memories of Cassie keep coming back in doing these things and it hurts so bad. I know God called her to a perfect home that she is in now but the wishing still won't stop. RIP our precious Cassie

01-29-2006, 06:37 PM	#3
deb4air Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: new york Posts: 3,168	Grieveing has its own time and everyones differant ..My hope for you is that you choose to be at peace with this soon and knowthe love for Cassie lives within your own heart and always will ..so in a way Cassie is closer than you think .Peace and light to you .. __________________ Deb and Miss Mini

02-03-2006, 06:26 AM	#5
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	I just want to say I hope your pain eases.... I can just imagine how you feel and hugs to you... Rest in Peace little Cassie.....you sound very loved. __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

02-03-2006, 06:36 AM	#6
crystalsmom Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Ohio Posts: 7,946	I lost my Molly 10 years ago and when I hear someone lost their baby, I find myself breaking down again. I remember I tried to think of the good days and there were so many of them as I'm sure there were for you, too. The God I pray to, I know will love them always and IF I am as good as my Molly I will see her again. I will pray for you so your pain will be much less. __________________

02-03-2006, 06:38 AM	#7
rrosenberry & Bailey & Bella Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Ohio Posts: 8,164	Oh, sweetie, I can only imagine how hard it is, I do know that with my 16 year old cat that I had to sent to the RB, It was so hard, but now as time has passed 2 years, I have only good thoughts of her, not that I don't miss her and think of her, but it is easier. And I know she is better off, and running and playing and thanking me for letting her go. __________________ Rhonda, Bailey, Josie and my angel Bella Rue' "Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened." ~Anatole France~

01-29-2006, 05:47 PM	#2
brittanyBug YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Georgia Posts: 335	I'll keep you in my prayers. Things will get better. Just remeber Cassie is in a wonderful place.

02-02-2006, 10:34 AM	#4
whispersmom2 Inactive Account Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: MD Posts: 2,985	These Yorkie babies sense our pain! How else can we explain their loving looks and licking our tears. I believe that they grieve too and know when a loss has occured..I know mine do. I pray that the healing and peace that you so need will start and your heart will heal.

02-03-2006, 07:43 AM	#8
Care28 Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: May 2005 Location: Missouri Posts: 248	Awwww, sweetie. I so relate to you and completely understand. We got Bella a month ago, and we lost Kelli 2 months ago. I look at her sometimes and just break down because I can still see and hear and feel Kelli and some of the stuff Bella does or the looks she gives me are so 'her'. Bella was born just 11 days before our Kel died, so I sometimes think part of Kelli's spirit is in her. I know that might sound absolutely SILLY to some, but I do think Kelli is watching her and guiding over her. Maybe it would help you some to think of what an Angel Cassie is for your Baby Blessing? I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers, and hope that your pain eases with time. You'll always miss her, but she was so blessed and loved to have had you in her life as her family. __________________ Carrie & Isabella Kelli - 1995-2005 - Always in Our Hearts, Babygirl. Bella's Dogster Kelli's Dogster

04-01-2006, 03:28 PM	#10
JeanieK Donating YT 12K Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Council Bluffs Iowa Posts: 12,552	It does get better with time. Or should I say the bad days get farther and farther apart, but you will still have bad days like today. The new babies bring on the memories, but they also help to ease the pain.