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12-18-2017, 07:01 PM | #31 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Hibbing Minnesota
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| When we lost our dear Keally nothing could help the pain in our hearts. We did go on because I know Keally would of wanted us to. We got another puppy and what a blessing to have our little angel Kinder. She has healed our hearts and we love telling her all about Keally. I dread when the end comes and Kinder will be 8 years old next spring. Time flies and we never stop thinking about our past fur babies. I always say our Kinder is not a dog she is a fur human. It is good to write about Max and look at his pictures. I have pictures of my past pets on the wall framed. I look at it this way I am so fortunate to have my pets and when they pass on at least I took care of them like you did for your little baby. I see so many people get these babies and they do not take care of them. Getting another baby will not replace Max but at least you are giving a puppy a good home with love. Time heals slowly but he will always be in your heart. Susan |
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12-19-2017, 06:45 PM | #32 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2017 Location: Knoxville
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| One of my favorite pictures. mirror shot taken from behind. |
12-19-2017, 07:07 PM | #33 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2017 Location: Knoxville
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| This was me and my lil buddy in 2015 |
12-23-2017, 10:59 AM | #34 | |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Dec 2017 Location: Pittsburgh PA
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I lost my first dog 8 years ago...I don't think any dog/pet can ever replace him. Took a long time to heal...but here I am, finally now ready for a new fur baby(a yorkie this time). Your scar will fade and you will find peace...Max wants that too....... | |
12-24-2017, 06:33 AM | #35 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: Alexandria, Virginia
Posts: 146
| Your Max is adorable. I say is because he will always be. My heart breaks for you and your family. I lost my precious Jaya in the spring. Nothing will ever be the same. The love you have for him remains and it looks like he had a wonderful life. You will know when the time is right to get a puppy. Trust yourself. I wish you healing and peace. Max is at peace. Love and prayers to you. |
12-24-2017, 10:08 AM | #36 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2017 Location: Knoxville
Posts: 39
| We bought a Christmas bell and a little angel with wings to put in his stocking tonight. My daughter wrote a little note with the saying "whenever you hear a bell ring an angel gets his wings" to put in his stocking with it. He is truly an angel Christmas won't be the same this year without him. I see things a little differently now than I did 4 weeks ago. I guess it's one of those life's little lessons. Whenever I used to see people with their dogs I only saw a person and a dog. I didn't see the dog as a little lovable personality if that makes sense. I didn't see a person and a family member even though I considered my max as a family member. Now whenever I see someone out with their pets I see a little family member tagging alone and not just a pet. I know the hurt they will sadly feel someday and I hurt for them in advance. Forgive me for rambling on but I have found comfort in this forum section and it is easy to open up here whereas it's not so easy elsewhere. Thank all of you for the support and encouragement since I first posted.
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12-24-2017, 11:02 AM | #37 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: E.Stroudsburg, Pa.
Posts: 67,956
| When one owns this very special breed The Yorkie, we fall head over heels in love with them, we change our life styles for them, they become our fur babies, our family. When that times comes and they have to leave us, is when we realize how very deep our love for them was. The pain in our hearts are over whelming, and we feel like a piece of us has been taken away. Many members have lost our special lil love bugs and we share your pain just remembering when we lost ours. (((hugs)))
__________________ Joan, mom to Cody RIP Matese Schnae Kajon Kia forever in my A House Is Not A Home Without A Dog |
12-24-2017, 12:58 PM | #38 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2017 Location: Knoxville
Posts: 39
| I'm supposed to be the man of the house so holding back feelings and emotions has became quit the chore. I try not to get emotional around the others because it triggers a flood of tears from everyone so I'll usually run off and hide somewhere. Today has been different though. Today is supposed to be the eve of the greatest day of all yet I feel like the world has ended around me. There's no joy in the house. No Christmas spirit. Only the heartbreak of missing our boy. Tomorrow will be even harder. I hate to wish the holiday away but I do wish jan 1st would hurry and get here. Maybe next year Christmas will bring happiness once again.
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12-24-2017, 01:36 PM | #39 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: E.Stroudsburg, Pa.
Posts: 67,956
| It's not a sign of weakness when a man cries for something he has loved and lost, it's a sign of a gentle and loving being. I do have to agree with you on holding back in front of your family as it does and will cause a flood of tears and sadness for them. Go to your private place and cry your heart out, holding back these emotions is like a dam when it bursts. They say each day gets a little better. I had an unplanned adoption 6 weeks after I had to put my girl down, 6 weeks the pain didn't ease up for me, once I got this little boy I felt he needed all my attention, what he did was, he rescued me, he helped ease the pain of loosing my girl. I can now look back and remember all the fun and happy days we had, but will never forget the day I had to let her go, she will be in my heart forever. Enjoy the holidays the best that you can, everyone that knows you and your family know you have had a great loss. (((hugs)))
__________________ Joan, mom to Cody RIP Matese Schnae Kajon Kia forever in my A House Is Not A Home Without A Dog |
12-24-2017, 07:57 PM | #40 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2017 Location: Knoxville
Posts: 39
| We made it through Christmas Eve. It was so very hard though. We opened our gifts in tears. We blew up the Santa Claus and my wife and daughter held a picture of max where he once posed and I took the traditional Christmas picture. After the picture We all three embraced and we had a much needed yet healthy cry together. We didn't leave our lil buddy out which made us feel better. Now it's time for santa to leave max's bell and wings in his stocking for Christmas morning. I think my family can start the healing process now that the holidays are almost past us.
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01-03-2018, 07:37 PM | #41 |
Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2017 Location: Dallas, TX, USA
Posts: 19
| I am so so sorry to hear of your loss of sweet Max. I lost my baby on New Year's Day, so your posts are really tugging at my heart. I feel all the same things you're feeling. I hope that your Christmas was bearable and now that the new year is here, you are feeling a tad better.
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01-03-2018, 08:56 PM | #42 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2017 Location: Knoxville
Posts: 39
| I just left you condolences on your other thread topic. I'm very sorry about your loss. We made it through Christmas but it was very hard. I must say that I am glad that the holidays are over now. I'm ready to take the tree down and put the holidays in the rear view mirror. Max was a big part of Christmas and not having him here was really heartbreaking. We honored his memory by not leaving him out. My wife and daughter held up his picture in front of our big blow up santa on Christmas Eve. My daughter has posed with him ever since 2008 and we wasn't leaving him out this year. So he was with us in spirit. I think now that the holidays are over the healing process will be a little easier.
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01-04-2018, 09:06 AM | #43 |
Resident Yorkie Nut Donating YT 20K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Texas
Posts: 27,451
| OMG I am SO sorry....I am just seeing this thread. Your baby was beautiful. Collapsed trachea can be wicked ... I lost a sweet little foster named Ozzy on Christmas eve morning one year and I don't think I will ever forget it. I have lost many pups over the years...he was the first who died in my home (it was due to collapsed trachea) . It was sudden an unexpected and I was completely destroyed by it. I have a plant that was given to me when he passed....I call it my Ozzy plant. I see that you have done some things in Max's memory...I do think those things help some; but, the pain of losing a beloved pup is just horrible. I hope that soon your good memories will take the place of the awfully painful ones.....
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01-04-2018, 07:35 PM | #44 | |
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