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02-22-2014, 04:46 PM | #1 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Michigan
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| Isabella said her final goodnight! My little baby Bella died at 3:30 am Friday morning. She was only two and half years old. She got sick last Saturday and like any yorkie owner I took her straight to the vet. They gave her some medicine and she seemed to be getting better but than passed away Friday morning. My heart is broken and I am aching for her. Some of my idiot family members think my grief for my little Bella is over the top. But she was my child and my sunshine. I miss her terriblely. |
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02-22-2014, 05:01 PM | #2 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: Abbotsford, BC Canada
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| I am so sorry for your loss It is never easy, but I can't imagine losing one so young
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02-22-2014, 05:18 PM | #3 |
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| So sorry..thinking about you.
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02-22-2014, 05:40 PM | #4 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Long Island, New York
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| I am so sorry for your deep loss. Although she is no longer physically with you, your Isabella will forever remain in your heart. We understand your pain and care. In time, I hope your memories of Isabella will bring you great joy. We talk about our Rainbow Bridge babies a lot, and a feeling of overwhelming love overtakes our hearts. Though it's still painful for us, the far greater loss would have been not to have them in our lives.
__________________ Lisa and Katie Ashley 6/10, Gracie 2/04, Kiwi 10/03, and Jolie 7/93 . |
02-22-2014, 05:56 PM | #5 |
♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas
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| I'm so sorry you lost your little baby and know what the deep grief of losing a beloved family member of a beloved dog is like. Don't worry if those who have never loved a dog like family don't understand or that you are crushed and hurting and depressed and hopeless and lost. It's what the person or pet you've lost meant to you in your life that matters and not the species of that loved one. Some women lose their minds when they lose their husbands, never are the same again and lose their love of life itself; while others seem to accept it and go on, seemingly unfazed outwardly and seem eager to move on in life. There is no accounting for how one feels or shows grief or how much the departed meant personally to them. All that matters is you should allow yourself to hurt and cry all you need to in order to work through the grieving process normally. There are websites and support groups of grieving pet owners like you who have lost their dogs as the grief can be so profound, help is needed to cope. So if someone doesn't understand your grief, very many others do. The death of a beloved pet is one listed as one of life's major stressors, just as divorce, death of a family member or losing a job and income or a major illness/injury. The uninformed don't know that so just ignore them and get yourself through this however you need to. In time, our grieving does seem to ease or we adjust better or something because we begin to stop the very painful hurting and reliving the episode around the death and think more and more of all the wonderful times we had with our little one. That's when you know you are beginning to heal and eventually, we all heal to some extent or the other. You don't ever get over the loss of a loved dog - you just learn how to cope with it and look forward again with the passing of time. No doubt, after a while, if you've known the great love and relationship of a very special pet, you'll want to experience all of that again but feel guilty for wanting another dog. Don't. Your little one would want more than anything for you to give another little dog like her a good life and to be happy - you know she would. Dogs are so generous and loyal to us they would hate for us to live without other dogs and not know that doggie love again. I hope in time when you are healed and ready to love again, you will be able to love like that again and find another very special little friend to share your life with. R.I.P., Isabella.
__________________ Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis |
02-22-2014, 06:26 PM | #6 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member | So very sorry for your loss. I can't begin to think of the day when my Alfie will have to leave me and your baby was so young. She looks so tiny.
__________________ Tracey and Wee Alfie "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.” |
02-22-2014, 06:33 PM | #7 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: montana
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| I am so sorry to hear that |
02-22-2014, 08:53 PM | #8 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Michigan
Posts: 152
| Thank you all for your kind words and support. Right now it means the world to know others care and that my pain is not weird or uncalled for. Or that I am being overly dramatic. This site has been a godsend for many different reasons. You all are a blessing thank you. |
02-22-2014, 08:56 PM | #9 |
Donating YT 30K Club Member | My heart goes out to you on the loss of your beloved Isabella.
__________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html |
02-22-2014, 09:11 PM | #10 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Maui, Hawaii
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| I am so very sorry for your sudden loss of your precious little Bella. I completely understand the devastation you are feeling, and know that it will take time to heal. Grieving the loss of our little fur kids is much the same as losing any love one, and most of us know that all too well. Sending comforting thoughts and prayers to you.
__________________ SANDY, MOM TO TIKI , KAYLA , KARLEE , R.I.P. MEIKA |
02-22-2014, 09:47 PM | #11 |
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| I am so sorry to read of your loss of Isabella. How terribly heartbreaking and tragic. I send sincere and heartfelt sympathy to you and lots of hugs. May God bless the memory of your precious baby and comfort you in your sadness.
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02-22-2014, 10:27 PM | #12 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Michigan
Posts: 152
| The worst thing about all of this, my dad's dog Gibson he was an Airedale terrier was her best dog friend. Less than two full days before she passed, he got out and ran to the road. I am sure you see where this is going. He passed away less than two days before her. The people where we took them to be well you know, they told us it wasn't uncommon for dogs to find away to be together. I just have to hope and imagine that they are at rb playing together once again.
__________________ Jolie Bella 8/11 - 2/14 ,Leia 12/13-11/19 Rest In Peace Angels |
02-22-2014, 10:40 PM | #13 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Maui, Hawaii
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| So sorry to hear about Gibson as well. Do you still have another Yorkie Jolie? If so, she must be devastated too.
__________________ SANDY, MOM TO TIKI , KAYLA , KARLEE , R.I.P. MEIKA |
02-23-2014, 05:09 AM | #14 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: upstate ny
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| I understand your grief and I think all of us on here do.There is only great heartache and grief when there is great love. We have the terrible misfortune to live beyond the years that our 4 legged family members. I'm so sorry for your loss... |
02-23-2014, 07:40 AM | #15 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Michigan
Posts: 152
| Yes I still have Jolie. She misses her sister. She looks for her. Today after a crying bout from. Me she crawled on to my neck and face and whimpered a little too. So it's hard. Jolie's been a doll. She has taken to laying in Bella's spot on the bed so that I have something warm there.
__________________ Jolie Bella 8/11 - 2/14 ,Leia 12/13-11/19 Rest In Peace Angels |
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