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05-17-2012, 10:27 AM | #1 |
Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Soddy Daisy, Tennessee
Posts: 12
| Our sweet baby girl......... I brought my little girl home a little of 6yrs ago. She was just the medicine my husband and I needed to get us through a very difficult time. Both of us had severe medical issues, were new empty nesters and had a son that had broken our hearts. Missy (Miss America) gave us a reason to smile again. She was 3lbs soaking wet and the most cared for and spoiled little girl in the world. She adored her Daddy and he adored her. I once ask him what it felt like to be worshipped because she really did worship him. We took Missy everywhere we went besides work and I have taken her there a few times too. May 8th we dropped her off at 7:00am for her routine dental cleaning and were supposed to pick her up at 4:30-5:00pm. The vet called me at work at ten minutes after ten.............Missy had passed away during the procedure. We are devastated............the grief is almost unbearable. We couldn't bear to bury her because she was always inside with us so we had her cremated. My husband is still sleeping with her urn on the pillow between our heads where she always slept. He works construction and saw a man in a subdivision walking a yorkie like Missy and he run him down and ask to hold the dog. The man let him and it licked his tears. :'/ My husband and I are grieving so differently. He doesn't want anything of hers moved and I am dying looking at it. We were in the process of building a sunroom just for her when this happened. My husband was going to put a bird/squirrel feeder right outside the windows so she could sit in the window during the day and watch them while we were gone to work. He even put a doggie door in between the sunroom and the master bathroom so she could get to her puppy pad. Everywhere we look, everywhere we go......we see her. Will this heartbreak ever get easier? Night is especially hard because she slept with us. I believe we will eventually get another one but I just don't know.........the pain is so overwhelming. |
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05-18-2012, 01:44 AM | #2 |
Rosehill Yorkies Donating YT Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Houston Texas
Posts: 9,462
| I am so saddened by your loss.....bless your hearts....I know the pain is unimaginable, except for those of us that have also been right where you are now. It will get better, but it does take time....and each of you will grieve your baby's loss in your own way. Just give each other the love and consideration to allow each of you the time needed to bear this loss. And you will know when your hearts are healed enough to allow another sweet little girl into your lives....certainly not to replace your precious Missy, but to create her own special place in your hearts. You will know when you are ready for that to happen...until then, I pray for comfort and peace for you both. |
05-18-2012, 04:12 AM | #3 |
YT 1000 Club Member | I am so very sorry to hear of Missy's passing - may she rest in peace. Your story brought tears to my eyes and I can't even begin to imagine your pain and your husband's. Time heals and I hope you can both take comfort in your memories of Missy.
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05-18-2012, 04:21 AM | #4 |
Donating YT 100K Club Member & Top YorkieTalk Poster! Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: western KY
Posts: 108,935
| I am so sorry for your loss of sweet Missy, you cannot replace her but you both have so much love to give that i believe that another little baby will help you both heal faster.
__________________ Betty & Micah my love + Yogi |
05-18-2012, 04:22 AM | #5 |
Izzy's Momma Too! Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Stuart, Florida
Posts: 8,799
| I'm so so sorry for your loss It sounds like Missy was one loved little girl Someday you will know the time is right for a new baby to love and spoil. Missy will always be in your hearts, but the heart is a miraculous thing----it can expand to allow more love.
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05-18-2012, 04:32 AM | #6 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: pa.
Posts: 861
| Another angel at So Sorry for your loss of sweet Missy. May she rest in peace. Time slowly heal's all pain. you will know when your ready for another angel. not to replace Missy but to help with the healing.Most of us on here have lost precios pet's so we know what you are going through. Remember the good time's you had with her. will say a prayer for you and your hubby. |
05-18-2012, 04:37 AM | #7 |
Cedric♥Lola♥Keylo Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Gilford, NH, USA
Posts: 9,209
| so very sorry for your loss. RIP Miss America.
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05-18-2012, 05:14 AM | #8 |
Owned by a Gremlin Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: The Mitten State!
Posts: 3,706
| I am so, so sorry for your loss. Prayers are going out to you and your husband. Know that heaven got another furry angel, and you'll always have little Miss America looking over you. *Hugs*
__________________ Taryn Momma to Gizmo AKA Monkeyman My husband, daughter, son, and dog make me who I am "My goal in life is to be as good of a person my dog already thinks I am." |
05-18-2012, 02:39 PM | #9 |
Crazy about Kacee! Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Kansas
Posts: 21,173
| Oh! That is just awful. I feel so very sorry for you and your husband. I can tell you, as many others would, that it does get easier over time. We found another yorkie helped to fill the emptiness in our hearts. I hope you do get another yorkie when you feel ready. You are wonderful yorkie parents and any yorkie would be lucky to be loved by you.
__________________ Karen Kacee Muffin 1991-2005 Rest in Peace My Little Angel |
05-18-2012, 02:47 PM | #10 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: ohio
Posts: 572
| So sorry for your loss. I think since your hubby wanted to hold another dog, maybe getting another one will help. You can tell her all about Missy. I am crying while I write this. So sad. She is an angel now. |
05-18-2012, 03:13 PM | #11 |
I♥PeekTinkySaph&Finny Donating Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Baltimore, Maryland
Posts: 18,866
| I'm so very sorry for your loss. Another Yorkie is the only thing that helped stop my pain. Prayers for you and your DH.... RIP Little Missy.
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05-18-2012, 03:22 PM | #12 |
My hairy-legged girls Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: lompoc, ca.
Posts: 12,228
| This made me cry. I am deeply saddened by your untimely loss. The pain will eventually give way to all the wonderful memories. She will always stay in your hearts. Prayers are going out to your and your husband.
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05-18-2012, 05:28 PM | #13 |
Donating YT 30K Club Member | I am so sorry. How heartbreaking for you both. I find getting another soon after a loss has helped me. It never takes the pain away pr the memories just gives your heart someone else to focus your love on.
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05-19-2012, 06:47 PM | #14 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Brooks, Ga.
Posts: 1,003
| My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband. I know how much you must have loved your little girl and she will always have a very special place in your heart. The pain seems to get easier to bear but it never goes away. Rest in peace sweet baby girl and play at the bridge with all my girls. |
05-21-2012, 01:18 AM | #15 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Colorado Springs, Colorado
Posts: 68
| I am so sorry to hear about this. I know exactly how you feel. I lost my Missy at 6 years old this year. It was a sudden thing too. The vet called and told me she had passed on and we also had her cremated. You will get through this, I promise. I know how your heart is broken and it seems unbearable at times. We did decide to get a new puppy, which has helped out soo much. I hope you and your husband start to feel better soon. God bless you...
__________________ RIP Missy.....Momma misses you so much!!! 2006-2012 Mommy to Scarlett Jade : and Copper |
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