please give me the strengh

[yougetthesmiles]

I wanted to let all my dear friends on Yt know that today I will be laying my baby girl to rest. I have pondered on what to do with her, I was going to have her creamated but just was not sure of that decision, my parents have offered for me to bury her in there yard, after more pondering, I feel in my heart that it's the right decision. My parents have lived on there property for over 16 years and this way I will be able to go visit her grave offten. I will place one of the stepping stones on her grave and plan on planting a Lilly and maybe a rose, for that was in my flowers from you dear freinds.
Please give me the strengh to do this, I have cried so much I thought I had no more tears left in me, but I find myself right back to day 1.

I just want to tell you all how special you all are to me, I really don't think I would have been able to get through this if it was not for all the Yt support. No one has ever been so heartwarming to me like you all have.
I wish you all could have met Kloey in person, she was a really great girl, she was so loving and so tender, she thought everyone loved her as much as I did, and what was not to love!

Bless you all!
Missy

[Dan & Corinne]

Originally Posted by yougetthesmiles

I wanted to let all my dear friends on Yt know that today I will be laying my baby girl to rest. I have pondered on what to do with her, I was going to have her creamated but just was not sure of that decision, my parents have offered for me to bury her in there yard, after more pondering, I feel in my heart that it's the right decision. My parents have lived on there property for over 16 years and this way I will be able to go visit her grave offten. I will place one of the stepping stones on her grave and plan on planting a Lilly and maybe a rose, for that was in my flowers from you dear freinds.
Please give me the strengh to do this, I have cried so much I thought I had no more tears left in me, but I find myself right back to day 1.

I just want to tell you all how special you all are to me, I really don't think I would have been able to get through this if it was not for all the Yt support. No one has ever been so heartwarming to me like you all have.
I wish you all could have met Kloey in person, she was a really great girl, she was so loving and so tender, she thought everyone loved her as much as I did, and what was not to love!

Bless you all!
Missy

I'm so sorry to hear about Kloey. It's wonderful that she has a place to rest so close to her loved ones. I just recently lost my Jewel and we chose cremation for her. Everyone has a different way of saying our final good byes and there is no right or wrong way if it's done with love. Kloey and Jewel and all of our babies who has moved on to a better place are all happy, healthy and playing together waiting for us to join them.

I still ache for her too. I'm shedding tears with you.

[Lola LaRue]

Missy, Know that YT members are with you today in spirit as you lay your baby to rest. I am so sorry for your loss and I give you my support for this rough day ahead.

[dezertblu]

Where the garden meets the road,
and the willow sweeps the pond,
There I shall meet you my friend,
Forever and Beyond.

Where the sunset meets the sea,
and the magick fills the wand,
There I shall meet you my friend,
Forever and Beyond.

When I no longer have any breaths,
and its finally time for me to rest,
and the soul inside takes flight,
I will join you my friend.... and all will finally be right.

Where the garden meets the road,
and the willow sweeps the pond,
There I shall meet you my friend,
Forever and Beyond.


This is the poem I wrote for my sister who was killed at 16, it was on the card with her flowers.....I feel this poem should be given to your baby from me and Moe.

[Baby Blessing]

Originally Posted by yougetthesmiles

I wanted to let all my dear friends on Yt know that today I will be laying my baby girl to rest. I have pondered on what to do with her, I was going to have her creamated but just was not sure of that decision, my parents have offered for me to bury her in there yard, after more pondering, I feel in my heart that it's the right decision. My parents have lived on there property for over 16 years and this way I will be able to go visit her grave offten. I will place one of the stepping stones on her grave and plan on planting a Lilly and maybe a rose, for that was in my flowers from you dear freinds.
Please give me the strengh to do this, I have cried so much I thought I had no more tears left in me, but I find myself right back to day 1.

I just want to tell you all how special you all are to me, I really don't think I would have been able to get through this if it was not for all the Yt support. No one has ever been so heartwarming to me like you all have.
I wish you all could have met Kloey in person, she was a really great girl, she was so loving and so tender, she thought everyone loved her as much as I did, and what was not to love!

Bless you all!
Missy

Dear Missy, honey I am so sorry for the pain you are going through at this time, it is one of the hardest to deal with. I cried as I read your post feeling the pain with you over Kloey's passing, but please know that God knew her needs and it was his will to take her to her forever home. I am sure Cassie was first among the others to greet her and that Kloey is now in God's arms giving him tons of kisses thanking him for his placing her in your home filled with a family and love, they are only a gift to us for a certain time in this life time but then with God's plan in mind all will be together for eternity one day. When they must leave this temporary life which we all have, what could be better than giving them back to God. Kloey is ok now. Please feel God's arms about you and he will comfort you through this rough time. We send love to you and your family. Your decision on burial or cremation is a tough one, I chose the cremation but was unable to follow my plans of setting her remains free this spring, I could not open the urn, so our family knows that one day Cassie, Jack and I will be set free together.
Patti and Jack ~~Baby Blessing~~
This is a poem I recently wrote, I hope it will give some comfort to you.

Memorial Poem Written By Me

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Memorial Poem For All Our Precious Pets
Written by me Patti on May 26,2006
This is dedicated in honor and memory of all our precious pets.


Bless the house I lived in Lord, the one that I called home
the people there who really cared, they were a family all my own.

Bless the little children who snuggled me to sleep
Gently said their prayers- thanking God their soul to keep.

Bless their Mother and her many tasks undone
To take the time to hug, romp, play with me and run.

Bless their Father for all the love he shows, to his family plus me
Oh how Blessed I am to live in a home such as you have provided it to be.

How I loved my family and forever grateful I will be
They set a fine example of love for all the world to see.

I only ask one favor Lord, please guide my family on their way
Let them Remember the happy times, lest I could not stay.

Thank you Lord for preparing this beautiful heaven for eternity
One day my family and I will abide here, forever with thee.

Ones blind implicit faith in you, is matched only by your love
The kind that all of us should have, in the spirit of above.

When our life goes on beyond to join our other loved ones there
Let us rejoice together united in prayer.

Thank you God for all you did to set our souls free
Bringing Jesus into this world, allowing this for you, you, and me.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

[Jaspermom]

So sorry for your pain, honey. I think you have made the right decision letting Kloey stay on your parent's property. I think making her a little memorial garden is a wonderful idea.

Hugs to you, dear.

[teri88]

Missy,
You are in my thoughts today. I pray that you will find the stregnth to do what needs to be done. Kloey will always be with you in spirit. Always. Start a journal about her or come on here and post. Talking about her will help you. Soon you will think more of the happy times than the tragic. Soon you will be able to laugh again. Soon you will be able to love again. It's all part of the healing process. May God bless your family during this difficult time.

[alaskayorkie]

Originally Posted by dezertblu

Where the garden meets the road,
and the willow sweeps the pond,
There I shall meet you my friend,
Forever and Beyond.

Where the sunset meets the sea,
and the magick fills the wand,
There I shall meet you my friend,
Forever and Beyond.

When I no longer have any breaths,
and its finally time for me to rest,
and the soul inside takes flight,
I will join you my friend.... and all will finally be right.

Where the garden meets the road,
and the willow sweeps the pond,
There I shall meet you my friend,
Forever and Beyond.


This is the poem I wrote for my sister who was killed at 16, it was on the card with her flowers.....I feel this poem should be given to your baby from me and Moe.

This is beautiful and a wonderful gesture of you to share it on this sad occasion.

Our thoughts are with you, Missy!

[Patti]

My thoughts are with you on this sad day. Patti and Dezertblu's poems are beautiful.

[Oscar's Mom]

Missy, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this terribly difficult time. I pray that you will find Peace in Kloey's passing...somehow. Just know that someday, when your life on this earth is finished, those that you love - both human and animal - will be waiting for you in that glorious place that awaits us after this life is over. I really believe this and hope you can find comfort in your friends here at Yorkie Talk. I think that you made a good choice to let Kloey rest at your parents place. She would be comfortable there. God bless and comfort you.

[YorkieHeaven]

Maybe this will help you as much as it helped me when I lost my Merlin in April of this year....

I stood by your bed last night,
I came to have a peep.
I could see that you were crying,
You found it hard to sleep.

I whined to you softly
As you brushed away a tear,
"It's me, I haven't left you,
I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here."

I was close to you at breakfast,
I watched you pour the tea,
You were thinking of the many times,
Your hands reached down to me.

I was with you at the shops today,
Your arms were getting sore.
I longed to take your parcels,
I wish I could do more.

I was with you at my grave today,
You tend it with such care.
I want to re-assure you,
That I'm not lying there.

I walked with you towards the house,
As you fumbled for your key.
I gently put my paw on you,
I smiled and said "It's me."

You looked so very tired,
And sank into a chair,
I tried so hard to let you know,
That I was standing there.

It's possible for me,
To be so near you every day.
To say to you with certainty,
"I never went away."

You sat there very quietly,
Then smiled, I think you knew…
In the stillness of that evening,
I was very close to you.

The day is now over…
I smile and watch you yawning,
And say, "good-night, God Bless,
I'll see you in the morning."

An when the time is right for you,
To cross the brief divide,
I'll rush across to greet you,
And we'll stand, side by side.

I have so many things to show you,
There is so much for you to see.
Be patient, live your journey out…
Then come home to be with me.

Author Unknown

[Tiger's Mom]

I think that is great that she can lay to rest a place where you can visit her as much as you want . . . I am sure she is watching you from above . . .take care!

[yorky4ME]

Hey Missy...... be strong. Kloey was blessed to be so loved when she was here. You are doing the right thing putting her at your parents. Kloey will always be missed.........

[yougetthesmiles]

Thank You everyone!
It was a sad day, but my baby is at rest now, all my family was with me and that sure helped, even my dad almost shed a tear.
I clipped a lock of her hair for I would have it to hold, and I placed her favorite beanie baby underneath her arm. She looked as beautiful as the day she left me. I thanked her for all the love she gave me and told her she would forever remain locked deep in my heart.
I hated this so much, but I know she is in a better place and one day I will be with her again. She gave me such joy in one year and I foever am grateful for that.
Bless all of you, you are truly one of a kind!

[mary'sbaby]

Hello, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have just lost my little man of 11 weeks that I only had for 1 week, so this I know is the hardest thing. I am praying for all of our little babies that have passed. Best to you and your family.