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12-14-2009, 10:10 AM | #1 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: ny
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| Not a Yorkie, but.. I brought my Yorkies to the vet today for a minor issue. A young couple entered the waiting room cuddling an elderly looking dachsund. On my way out, I encountered the couple again; they no longer had their dog. They were both in tears. The woman was sobbing, the man just quietly streaming. The others in the waiting room were pretending not to see. The receptionist announced that "the ashes would be sent to the address they gave". :-( at which point I almost keeled over. I wanted to hug them, I wished I could make it better. I told them I was so sorry. I did learn after they left, that he had lived 16 years. I wished I could have assured them that their sweet dog enjoyed their love and caring. I am just posting here in honor and memory of their sweet friend and their broken hearts. Thanks for reading. |
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12-14-2009, 10:14 AM | #2 |
Donating YT 12K Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Council Bluffs Iowa
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| It is always heartbreeaking no matter what the breed. it's still someones baby. |
12-14-2009, 10:21 AM | #3 |
Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY
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| omg!!! i almost just bursted out in tears, but was able to stop myself at work
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12-14-2009, 10:37 AM | #4 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: ny
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| I'm kind of new here, I'm sure all of the threads on this folder are pretty sad. The dachsund had to be pretty well cared for to live 16 years, sigh. I do think the vet office could have done a little better on compassion. It might have been nice if the couple were allowed to conduct their payment transaction privately from the exam room maybe , I'm sure those moments seemed like forever to them waiting for the print-out and signing off and stuff. Maybe I am idealistic but it might have been nice if an employee had escorted them through the process physically. As it was, the receiptionist did not even express her condolence until after I mentioned it. She was treating it like any other transaction. Not to give TMI, (and I will probably delete this post later) but I myself have left the maternity ward without a baby, so I know what it's like to feel like you're having the worst day of your life, and it's just a regular day to everyone else. Sometimes just small acts of compassion and recognition can go a long way. Hug your puppy everyone. |
12-14-2009, 10:57 AM | #5 |
Pixie and Daisy Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: CT USA
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| Omg! I cried for them! I know all to well how hard it is to lose a pet. I had a Golden Retriever named Goldie for 12 years and she was suffering from Kidney disease and towards the end I had to have her put down bc she wasn't eating and she had been in the hospital for a week with no improvement and the vet said that she was going to die and now she was just suffering. It was so hard to let her go, The whole family was there bc she grew up with the kids and when she walked in the room it was like she knew she walked over to everyone and said her good byes and I sat on the floor with her holding her head in my hand and stroking her face and telling her that when she got to heaven to dig a big hole under a tree and wait for me bc Godlie was a hole digger and we were forever filling in holes. My tears were dropping down on her face and the vet gave her the shot she took one last look at me and she was gone. I went home a balled like a baby. I sat outside under her favorite tree and cried. I still have her ashes and I am having them buried with me when I go. I still miss her as I am filling up with tears writing this. It has been 5 years and I miss her every day. I use to tell her she was the best puppy dog in the whole wide world. She would smile at me, I swear she would!! ok so I babbled sorry! That poor couple I will say a prayer for them!!
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12-14-2009, 12:25 PM | #6 |
♥ Luv Zoey & Austen! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Kansas City, MO, USA
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| Weeping so hard right now I can barely speak/type. I lost my baby Jazzy kitty a year ago January and it still breaks my heart beyond belief. I too have her ashes and she will go with me to my grave. How heartbreaking it is to lose our precious babies.
__________________ Denise, Zoey, and Austen Dear Jazzy & Sasha forever in our hearts There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face. ~Ben Williams |
12-14-2009, 12:40 PM | #7 |
Jada + Bogie = ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Mayberry AKA smalltown usa
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| What a heart breaking story. It just takes a few compassionate words from someone to make such a difference during a difficult time like this.
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12-14-2009, 01:53 PM | #8 |
Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: NewYork
Posts: 401
| How heartbreaking, 16 years omg the pain they must be feeling. I'm sure your kind words meant alot to them...
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12-14-2009, 02:18 PM | #9 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Canada
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| I think many of us who love animals have gone through this, I remember a couple years ago I had to put my 13 year old cat Buddy to sleep. I sat with him in the vets cold little sterile room and told him I loved him and how I wished I could help him, I was bawling my eyes out, and after I paid my bill with barely a glance from the receptionist, I left the clinic I went out to my car and sobbed my heart out. It is one of the most difficult things to cope with
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12-15-2009, 08:33 AM | #10 |
Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Worcester, MA
Posts: 18
| Sympathy My hubby had to bring our Adele to the vets to be put to sleep without me last Thursday because she was suffering too much. They were so kind and compassionate to him. He didn't think to bring anything to bring her home in, and they wrapped her in a towell and placed her in a box. We got a sympathy card from them yesterday, personalized and signed by everyone in the office. I will always appreciate their kindness to my husband and my girl. |
12-15-2009, 11:02 AM | #11 |
YT Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Kennesaw, GA.
Posts: 261
| In October 2008 we had to put our mixed terrier Buddy to sleep.He was 23 yrs old. He was born in Sept 1985 at the start of my wifes senior year in highschool. I had the privilage of knowing Buddy or 13 years.At first he did'nt like me much but that changed soon.I can honestly say he was my best friend. The last year of his life it was obvious he was in pain and the vet suggested we end his suffering. I did'nt cry when my grandparents died but I cried a lot that day.I never thought I'd love another dog as much but I think I love Toby as much just in a different way.Buddy was my friend but Toby is my baby.
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12-23-2009, 06:24 PM | #12 |
I♥PeekTinkySaph&Finny Donating Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Baltimore, Maryland
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| It's always sad when any dog passes on for any reason. They are all innocents and it seems unfair as they give their love so freely.
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12-23-2009, 08:12 PM | #13 |
Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Norton
Posts: 14
| Vet Payment I had to put my sweet Yorkie down in Sept, The vets office was wonderful. They had me pay in the room first, They gave me a paw print. I was escorted out a side door for privacy. Later that month they made a donation to Tufts in my dogs name, I feel bad for that couple they did not get the same wonderful treatment.Its one of the worst days in your life. |
12-28-2009, 10:56 AM | #14 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: KS
Posts: 3,289
| Oh, how very sad. The furbaby must have been their live. Our pets make our lives so much better. Blessings to you for acknowledging their grief.
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01-04-2010, 11:37 AM | #15 |
Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY
Posts: 10,455
| Omg!! This thread is one of the saddest ever.. Im crying again. God help me with my little lexi. I wouldnt be able to handle it. ((( at all)))) god for bid..
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