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jp4m2 · 06-07-2008, 09:57 AM

Could someone please help me to deal with this pain and quilt.....I lost my precious Joey from a vets gross negligence, he failed to prescribe antibiotics and Joey died from a massive infection in just two days.......I am feeling so much pain and quilt right now....the tears just keep flowing......I can't stop running things through my head...What if I had done this.... What if I had done that.....

I miss those big beautiful brown eyes....I miss his sweet loving personality, the way he loved to give kisses....I spent 24/7 with him and I desperately miss him...My heart is so broken........D#mn it, I just want him back home!.....My tears are flowing as I try and write this......My baby is gone and I'm hurting so much.....

wvmomof3 · 06-07-2008, 10:04 AM

I'm so sorry that you lost Joey. I know has to be extremely hard, but, please do not blame yourself. I cannot imagine the pain you are in, and my heart breaks for you. Please, take care of yourself.

jp4m2 · 06-07-2008, 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by wvmomof3

I'm so sorry that you lost Joey. I know has to be extremely hard, but, please do not blame yourself. I cannot imagine the pain you are in, and my heart breaks for you. Please, take care of yourself.

Oh G#d, thank you for saying something!....I'm feeling so alone and so sad...I'm having a hard time typing through my tears.....

patty58 · 06-07-2008, 10:12 AM

B.J. I am so sorry about Joey. There is nothing I can do to help but be here for you. If I was there I would give you a big hug and just spend time with you. Don't blame yourself. You did what was right and took him to the vet. It is not your fault that the vet screwed up. It could happen to anyone. It just happened to me and it wasn't a vet but a human dr. I hope you can feel my arms around you.

Shelby&Seymour · 06-07-2008, 10:12 AM

So sorry to hear about your little guy. I am sure that you loved him dearly. Don't be too hard on yourself........ by looking at your avatar, you have a few other furutts that may need some extra attention right now. Give them an extra hug.
Again sorry about your loss.

jp4m2 · 06-07-2008, 10:15 AM

I'm hurting so bad right now.....I just want my baby back!...

I'm sobbing just trying to post this....I thought it might help.....

TLC · 06-07-2008, 10:37 AM

Oh my goodness. I am crying with you too. I am so sorry you lost your baby. We all know that day *will* come, and no matter how much we don't want it and no matter how much we would give for it to never come, it does.

Honey, I can't explain why, but for *some reason* your baby Joey was only meant to be here with you for a short period of time. But in that time I know he gave you a lifetime of memories and a lifetime of love. You will meet again, and it's then that you'll understand the *why*

Please give your boys hugs for me, and hold on to them tight, they love you too as well as Joey and I bet they are feeling sad as well.

patty58 · 06-07-2008, 10:38 AM

I can feel your pain. I know a lot of us have been right where you are.

eaglez28 · 06-07-2008, 10:41 AM

OMG - I am total shock - I just found your other thread on Joeys surgery & now this.
The tears are rolling down my face as I type.
I am so sorry for your loss.
BJ - I don't know what else to say other than our Prayers are with you & your family.

Sunnie · 06-07-2008, 10:42 AM

Oh sweetie, your pain just has me in tears. I am so sorry. I saw Joey's picture when he came home and he was such a beautiful baby. Just try to remember he is in no pain now. I am heartbroken for you.
RIP Joey.. sweet boy

jp4m2 · 06-07-2008, 10:45 AM

I didn't think I would ever be starting a thread in this section, but here I am.....

I just miss him so much...the guilt is the hardest part......just talking about him starts the tears flowing all over.....

I can see his beautiful face in my mind and it tears me up......

Oscar's Mummy · 06-07-2008, 11:06 AM

I'm so sorry that you lost little Joey — I just read your other thread about his leg surgery. I can't believe that this happened

I really feel for you right now, I can't imagine what you must be going through. But please don't feel guilty. Give your other boys some extra hugs and kisses to help you through the pain. It will get a little easier each day and hopefully you can find a little peace in the knowledge that he's gone to a better place and is no longer in pain.

AprilLove · 06-07-2008, 11:14 AM

I am sooo sooo very sorry

I just saw your other thread, please do not blame yourself!!! Joey is resting and in no pain now. I know that words can't take your pain away, just know that you have your YT family here, and our hearts are with you in this very difficult time. Keeping you and your boys in our thoughts and prayers. Rest In Peace sweet Joey, you have your mommys' heart and always will.

In time, as the pain of this loss is replaced with the joyful memories of your time with Joey, your heart will heal, and will always have that special part filled with your love for your Joey.

Diego · 06-07-2008, 11:18 AM

I can feel your pain and want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers .

Patti · 06-07-2008, 11:19 AM

My heart is breaking for you. I lost Dixie in January at 7 months and it just doesn't seem fair. Just now he is watching you from above and would want you to remember the good memories.

06-07-2008, 09:57 AM	#1
jp4m2 Love my Boys Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Ohio Posts: 3,243	Someone Please help..... Could someone please help me to deal with this pain and quilt.....I lost my precious Joey from a vets gross negligence, he failed to prescribe antibiotics and Joey died from a massive infection in just two days.......I am feeling so much pain and quilt right now....the tears just keep flowing......I can't stop running things through my head...What if I had done this.... What if I had done that..... I miss those big beautiful brown eyes....I miss his sweet loving personality, the way he loved to give kisses....I spent 24/7 with him and I desperately miss him...My heart is so broken........D#mn it, I just want him back home!.....My tears are flowing as I try and write this......My baby is gone and I'm hurting so much..... __________________ B.J.mom to : Jack Jake J.J. ..R.I.P Joey, momma misses you!..... When life pushes you....push back ... If you don't have anything nice to say...come sit by me...

06-07-2008, 10:12 AM	#4
patty58 Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: texas Posts: 4,855	B.J. I am so sorry about Joey. There is nothing I can do to help but be here for you. If I was there I would give you a big hug and just spend time with you. Don't blame yourself. You did what was right and took him to the vet. It is not your fault that the vet screwed up. It could happen to anyone. It just happened to me and it wasn't a vet but a human dr. I hope you can feel my arms around you. __________________ Patty, Murfee's Mommy Believe Everything Happens For A Reason

06-07-2008, 10:12 AM	#5
Shelby&Seymour "Pumpernickel & Cheese" Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Southeast USA Posts: 2,481	So sorry to hear about your little guy. I am sure that you loved him dearly. Don't be too hard on yourself........ by looking at your avatar, you have a few other furutts that may need some extra attention right now. Give them an extra hug. Again sorry about your loss. __________________ *Yorkies are the BEST!* :..Don't buy from PuppyMills Try to be GREEN Seymour is a member of the Little Gentlemans Club ...Shelby & Seymour are members of the Teapot Club

06-07-2008, 10:15 AM	#6
jp4m2 Love my Boys Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Ohio Posts: 3,243	I'm hurting so bad right now.....I just want my baby back!... I'm sobbing just trying to post this....I thought it might help..... __________________ B.J.mom to : Jack Jake J.J. ..R.I.P Joey, momma misses you!..... When life pushes you....push back ... If you don't have anything nice to say...come sit by me...

06-07-2008, 10:37 AM	#7
TLC Slave to My Rug-Rats Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Long Island Posts: 4,006	Oh my goodness. I am crying with you too. I am so sorry you lost your baby. We all know that day will come, and no matter how much we don't want it and no matter how much we would give for it to never come, it does. Honey, I can't explain why, but for some reason your baby Joey was only meant to be here with you for a short period of time. But in that time I know he gave you a lifetime of memories and a lifetime of love. You will meet again, and it's then that you'll understand the why Please give your boys hugs for me, and hold on to them tight, they love you too as well as Joey and I bet they are feeling sad as well. __________________ Nicole *"You Won't Change the World by Saving One Animal..BUT...You Will Change the World for that One"*

06-07-2008, 10:04 AM	#2
wvmomof3 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: West Virginia Posts: 91	I'm so sorry that you lost Joey. I know has to be extremely hard, but, please do not blame yourself. I cannot imagine the pain you are in, and my heart breaks for you. Please, take care of yourself.

06-07-2008, 10:38 AM	#8
patty58 Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: texas Posts: 4,855	I can feel your pain. I know a lot of us have been right where you are. __________________ Patty, Murfee's Mommy Believe Everything Happens For A Reason

06-07-2008, 10:41 AM	#9
eaglez28 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Houma, LA Posts: 1,256	OMG - I am total shock - I just found your other thread on Joeys surgery & now this. The tears are rolling down my face as I type. I am so sorry for your loss. BJ - I don't know what else to say other than our Prayers are with you & your family. __________________ IT'LL COST Nothing To Dream & EVERYTHING NOT TO!!! Kim Scruffy Lexi Kylee Stormy Reesie http://www.myspace.com/eskindsyorkies

06-07-2008, 10:42 AM	#10
Sunnie Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: So. California Posts: 2,897	Oh sweetie, your pain just has me in tears. I am so sorry. I saw Joey's picture when he came home and he was such a beautiful baby. Just try to remember he is in no pain now. I am heartbroken for you. RIP Joey.. sweet boy __________________ Sonya, Owned by Ladybug, Tilly, Sunnie, Sunshine, Beamer, and Rainbow

06-07-2008, 10:45 AM	#11
jp4m2 Love my Boys Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Ohio Posts: 3,243	I didn't think I would ever be starting a thread in this section, but here I am..... I just miss him so much...the guilt is the hardest part......just talking about him starts the tears flowing all over..... I can see his beautiful face in my mind and it tears me up...... __________________ B.J.mom to : Jack Jake J.J. ..R.I.P Joey, momma misses you!..... When life pushes you....push back ... If you don't have anything nice to say...come sit by me...

06-07-2008, 11:06 AM	#12
Oscar's Mummy Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: May 2006 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 1,275	I'm so sorry that you lost little Joey — I just read your other thread about his leg surgery. I can't believe that this happened I really feel for you right now, I can't imagine what you must be going through. But please don't feel guilty. Give your other boys some extra hugs and kisses to help you through the pain. It will get a little easier each day and hopefully you can find a little peace in the knowledge that he's gone to a better place and is no longer in pain. __________________ Janice, Oscar and Baby Ruth "The more people I meet, the more I love my dog."

06-07-2008, 11:14 AM	#13
AprilLove and Nappy own my Heart! Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Wrapped around their paws :-) Posts: 3,384	I am sooo sooo very sorry I just saw your other thread, please do not blame yourself!!! Joey is resting and in no pain now. I know that words can't take your pain away, just know that you have your YT family here, and our hearts are with you in this very difficult time. Keeping you and your boys in our thoughts and prayers. Rest In Peace sweet Joey, you have your mommys' heart and always will. In time, as the pain of this loss is replaced with the joyful memories of your time with Joey, your heart will heal, and will always have that special part filled with your love for your Joey. __________________ MaryKay AprilLove Wubs Moosie Nappy wubs Livvi CandiRoze LOVES her mommy

06-07-2008, 11:18 AM	#14
Diego YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Canada Posts: 3,130	I can feel your pain and want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers .

06-07-2008, 11:19 AM	#15
Patti Donating YT 10000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 18,304	My heart is breaking for you. I lost Dixie in January at 7 months and it just doesn't seem fair. Just now he is watching you from above and would want you to remember the good memories. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : Maya's Mom RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html