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RoxyJosMom · 03-05-2008, 01:31 AM

I am so, so sorry for your loss. But an accident is an accident - never meant to happen. You are not to blame. Only your heart can tell you what to do now. Having been in that position, I know, for me, the memory of the very last time I saw someone (skin or fur) is the memory that stays with me. My heart and tears are with you, whatever you decide. God Bless and Hugs.

bchgirl · 03-05-2008, 03:45 AM

Oh every pet owner's nightmare. I am so sorry. When I lost Trace I did, indeed, hold and kiss him goodbye. Time heals the ache.

Take care ~

ryorkies · 03-05-2008, 04:12 AM

I am so sorry for your loss .....

mascot · 03-05-2008, 04:16 AM

Sending hugs, may the Lord ease your pain....

and be with you during your time of grief. Dot

littlewhip · 03-05-2008, 04:22 AM

Iam so very sorry

hugs to you

Duncansmom · 03-05-2008, 04:33 AM

Oh my gosh my heart aches for you. I lost my maltese spike Oct. of 06, not to a car but the loss is profound in any way. I didnt get to see spikey after he passed as it was so unexpected. But I have tons of pics that I look at everyday and remember all the love we shared. Please know you are not alone and I'm sure we all feel your devastating pain. Keep your other babies close as I know they will grieve along with you. Mine did.
God Bless
Elizabeth, Duncan and Piper

LunasMomma · 03-05-2008, 04:33 AM

I'm so sorry

I chose not to look at Starr after she'd died, I didn't want to remember her that way

You are in my prayers, hon

red98vett · 03-05-2008, 04:44 AM

I'm so so sorry !! I would try to not say the goodbye visually - just remember her happy and running free - just like she'll be doing at Rainbow Bridge.....poor baby -

you have my condolences ...I hope she never felt any pain

MyPeanutAbbyGra · 03-05-2008, 05:21 AM

I am so sorry. It IS such a shock. I just went through this in January and I was the one who found our little boy. I still can't get that image out of my mind. I don't know what to tell you about seeing him to say good bye. Everyone is different. Although it's been hard for me, I'm glad I was there.

I know Tootsie is at the Rainbow Bridge now, running and playing.

Here's a poem that I read the night Peanut passed.

I'll lend you for a little time, a dog of mine God said.
For you to love while she lives and mourn when she is dead.
The years they may be six or ten or even as few as three.
But will you, till I call her back, take care of her for me?

She'll bring her charms to gladden you, and shall her stay be brief,
You'll have her lovely memories as solace for your grief.
I cannot promise she will stay, since all from Earch return.
But there are lesseons taught down there I want this dog to learn.

I've looked the wide world over, in my search for masters true,
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes, I have chosen you.
Now will you give her your love, nor think the labor vain,
Nor hate me when I come to call to take her back again?

We answer in sincereity, Dear Lord, They will be done.
For all the joy this dog shall bring, the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter her with tenderness and love her while we may,
And for the happiness we will know, we'll ever grateful stay.
But shall the angels call for her much sooner than we planned,
We'l know the bitter grief that comes and try to understand.

furryfriends · 03-05-2008, 05:26 AM

Sorry for your loss... (HUGS)
Praying for you.

ARCHIE · 03-05-2008, 05:32 AM

I am so sorry for you loss.
Accident's happen no mattter how much we try to prevent them.
I would just say goodbye and not do a visual. That would stay with
me forever. I rather remember the last time I saw someone and how
happy they were. Hence, I do not go to viewings.
You have to do what makes you have closure.
Know your baby is now whole and having a wonderful time at
Rainbow bridge with all the other's there.
You will always have those wonderful memories of the time you two
spent together.

Hugs,

KathyinCali · 03-05-2008, 07:53 AM

I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain you must feel. Sending warm healing wishes your way.

autumn star · 03-05-2008, 08:09 AM

Oh you poor thing! I am so very sorry that you are going through this. I will be sure to keep you in my thoughts!
Hugs to you and your family

mogli · 03-05-2008, 11:13 AM

Poor baby. Rest in peace

...

You should not view him. For those who have been there at the final moment, it is for the comfort of our babies. Anything past that is just traumatic to us humans.

Let someone else put him in what will be his final resting case (urn or casket) and then talk to him, knowing that he's inside physically ... and you can see him from healtheir days and talk to his spirit from your mind ...

Sorry for your loss

LuvMySissy · 03-05-2008, 11:16 AM

I am so very sorry for your loss. RIP sweet Tootsie.

03-05-2008, 01:31 AM	#16
RoxyJosMom Love The Verminator! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: PA Posts: 4,077	I am so, so sorry for your loss. But an accident is an accident - never meant to happen. You are not to blame. Only your heart can tell you what to do now. Having been in that position, I know, for me, the memory of the very last time I saw someone (skin or fur) is the memory that stays with me. My heart and tears are with you, whatever you decide. God Bless and Hugs. __________________ Roxy loves Alphy Remi loves Millie Mom to RoxyJo & Remington , Fozzy Bear & Chloe , Cosmo T. & Juju B. Bird, Hank & Nosee

03-05-2008, 03:45 AM	#17
bchgirl Donating YT 9000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: at da beach Posts: 10,277	Oh every pet owner's nightmare. I am so sorry. When I lost Trace I did, indeed, hold and kiss him goodbye. Time heals the ache. Take care ~ __________________ Deb, Ramsey, Reese, Reggie & Trace who watches over us Ramsey 's Bailey

03-05-2008, 04:12 AM	#18
ryorkies R Positively Priceless Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Northeast Posts: 2,611	I am so sorry for your loss ..... __________________ Janie and the Br dy Bunch Penelope, Tobias, Lily, Tulsa & Brady

03-05-2008, 04:16 AM	#19
mascot Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: North Carolina Posts: 208	Mascot Sending hugs, may the Lord ease your pain.... and be with you during your time of grief. Dot __________________ "The US Constitution doesn't gaurantee happiness, only the pursuit of it. You have to catch up with it yourself." Benjamin Franklin Mascot and Dot

03-05-2008, 04:22 AM	#20
littlewhip My six pack Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: wiith my furbabys Posts: 7,770	Iam so very sorry hugs to you __________________ Charlie, Joey, Shy, Jasp,Molly Mae & Karleigh

03-05-2008, 04:33 AM	#21
Duncansmom Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 661	Oh my gosh my heart aches for you. I lost my maltese spike Oct. of 06, not to a car but the loss is profound in any way. I didnt get to see spikey after he passed as it was so unexpected. But I have tons of pics that I look at everyday and remember all the love we shared. Please know you are not alone and I'm sure we all feel your devastating pain. Keep your other babies close as I know they will grieve along with you. Mine did. God Bless Elizabeth, Duncan and Piper

03-05-2008, 04:33 AM	#22
LunasMomma Izzy's Momma Too! Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Stuart, Florida Posts: 4,909	I'm so sorry I chose not to look at Starr after she'd died, I didn't want to remember her that way You are in my prayers, hon __________________ Card Carrying Member of the Crazy AND Pink Clubs

03-05-2008, 04:44 AM	#23
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 30,375	I'm so so sorry !! I would try to not say the goodbye visually - just remember her happy and running free - just like she'll be doing at Rainbow Bridge.....poor baby - you have my condolences ...I hope she never felt any pain __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri.. AKA Spy-Girls (photos here) Click for LABELS Click for CARDS * SAY NO to PET STORES ! www.designsbyvillette.com USING YOUR PHOTOS !

03-05-2008, 05:21 AM	#24
MyPeanutAbbyGra YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Indiana Posts: 2,093	I am so sorry. It IS such a shock. I just went through this in January and I was the one who found our little boy. I still can't get that image out of my mind. I don't know what to tell you about seeing him to say good bye. Everyone is different. Although it's been hard for me, I'm glad I was there. I know Tootsie is at the Rainbow Bridge now, running and playing. Here's a poem that I read the night Peanut passed. I'll lend you for a little time, a dog of mine God said. For you to love while she lives and mourn when she is dead. The years they may be six or ten or even as few as three. But will you, till I call her back, take care of her for me? She'll bring her charms to gladden you, and shall her stay be brief, You'll have her lovely memories as solace for your grief. I cannot promise she will stay, since all from Earch return. But there are lesseons taught down there I want this dog to learn. I've looked the wide world over, in my search for masters true, And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes, I have chosen you. Now will you give her your love, nor think the labor vain, Nor hate me when I come to call to take her back again? We answer in sincereity, Dear Lord, They will be done. For all the joy this dog shall bring, the risk of grief we'll run. We'll shelter her with tenderness and love her while we may, And for the happiness we will know, we'll ever grateful stay. But shall the angels call for her much sooner than we planned, We'l know the bitter grief that comes and try to understand. __________________ Tammy, Mama to Abby Grace Daisy Mae RIP Peanut & Chloe, ABBY 's WINSTON

03-05-2008, 05:26 AM	#25
furryfriends Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: PA Posts: 485	Sorry for your loss... (HUGS) Praying for you. __________________ Mommies Sheri+Rianna & Koda Bear Zoey Bear Proud member of the Little Gentlemens Club

03-05-2008, 05:32 AM	#26
ARCHIE Owned by "Buddy" Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: NEW YORK Posts: 10,732	I am so sorry for you loss. Accident's happen no mattter how much we try to prevent them. I would just say goodbye and not do a visual. That would stay with me forever. I rather remember the last time I saw someone and how happy they were. Hence, I do not go to viewings. You have to do what makes you have closure. Know your baby is now whole and having a wonderful time at Rainbow bridge with all the other's there. You will always have those wonderful memories of the time you two spent together. Hugs, __________________ Carol Buddy ~MEMBER OF THE S.R.C. AND TEAPOT CLUB~

03-05-2008, 07:53 AM	#27
KathyinCali Love My Li'l Lucy Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Southern California Posts: 6,695	I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain you must feel. Sending warm healing wishes your way. __________________ Kathy and Lil' Lucy Buster and Jammies Member of the Spoiled Rotten Club

03-05-2008, 08:09 AM	#28
autumn star Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Long Island Posts: 5,990	Oh you poor thing! I am so very sorry that you are going through this. I will be sure to keep you in my thoughts! Hugs to you and your family __________________ *PROUD MOM OF (SKIN KIDS) LEXI & HUNTER AND (FUR KIDS) AUTUMN, BLAZE & CHANCE (OUR RESCUE)*

03-05-2008, 11:13 AM	#29
mogli Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Tallahassee, FL Posts: 234	Poor baby. Rest in peace ... You should not view him. For those who have been there at the final moment, it is for the comfort of our babies. Anything past that is just traumatic to us humans. Let someone else put him in what will be his final resting case (urn or casket) and then talk to him, knowing that he's inside physically ... and you can see him from healtheir days and talk to his spirit from your mind ... Sorry for your loss Last edited by mogli; 03-05-2008 at 11:14 AM.

03-05-2008, 11:16 AM	#30
LuvMySissy Luv my Angel, too! Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Michigan Posts: 8,089	I am so very sorry for your loss. RIP sweet Tootsie. __________________ Jodie, Sissy & Angel Proudly dressin' your furkids at: www.sissyangelwear.com Members of the CRAZY Club!