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04-04-2007, 06:17 PM | #1 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Illinois
Posts: 725
| Grieving the loss of him in a dif. way I signed back on to YT looking for something. But what? I'm not sure. I'm in a saddened state right now, and I have been to fearful to announce to everyone that we no longer have my beloved Louie. Even though I cried like a baby the night he left me, it has hit me hard tonite. I can't quit crying and thinking of him. I just want to hollar out... I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU LOUIE!!!!!!!!! Trying to make a long story short, he is with a family member now, and I'm not sure how I can get past this void in my heart. I have my 2 girls but it's just so hard not seeing Louie running around the house. He was my first Yorkie, who I "rescued" from a puppy mill. He was a good boy. I guess I'm posting this in need of something, a friend, maybe advice, I guess I'm not sure. I'm hurting but I know there is a family that is finally happy. They added a wonderful yorkie to their family. I know I'm going to get asked..... Where is he? and Why don't you have him anymore? Good questions..... My daughter, Allison, was in a 4-wheeler accident.(she races motocross) She broke her humerus, a rib, and had a concusion. She spent the night in the hospital. After arriving back home, we had tons of visitors. One of them being my nephew and his family. After talking for awhile they told us they just lost their dog, from getting ran over by a car. The family was devistated. They said they wanted a small inside dog that they can watch over 24/7. Thats when my dilemna started. Without knowing, my husband told my nephew that he could have Louie. (without even talking to me) There is more to the story, but the short version is that they now have my precious Louie, and I'm having a hard time dealing with him not being here. I watched him hop in their van and I can't get that picture out of my head. I'm hoping that I can get past this but right now all I can think of is my precious boy... how could I have let you go?????????????? Maybe one day I'll understand, but now just isnt the right time
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04-04-2007, 06:25 PM | #2 |
Love my Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: New Port Richey, Florida
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| I read your post and I'm so sorry for you, but I don't understand how a husband could give away your dog without asking you first.. This is very strange to me. I do think Louie is probably in a good place but this leaves you heart sick, so the only solution is go out and buy yourself another yorkie. You will never get over Louie, but a new puppy will help!
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04-04-2007, 06:27 PM | #3 |
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| Oh, I am so so sorry for you. I don't even have the words to say right now. I wish I could do something for you to make it easier. Many years ago I gave my beloved Misty (poodle/pug mix) away when I had to move to an apt where no dogs were allowed. I had to do this because my rent was raised so much where I was living that I had to find a cheaper apartment. My sisters mother-in-law had told me several times she would take Misty for me. I ended up giving Misty to her. I cried and cried and cried. I felt like my heart was cut out of my chest. I regretted it so much. After a few months a miracle happened in my life and I got a call about a job that was paying MUCH MORE than the one I had. Also at the same time, my sister's mother-in-law called me and asked if I would possibly be able to take Misty back because it she was more trouble than she had expected because she didn't have a fenced yard. She didn't even know that I got a different job and was able to move again. I had 2 miracles happen at the same time. I pray that you will have a miracle in some way also. I think everything will work out for the best for you, whatever it may be.
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04-04-2007, 06:29 PM | #4 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Petaluma
Posts: 2,217
| Can't you talk with your husband and explain your feelings of loss for Louie? It must be heartbreaking and can't imagine how you must feel.
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04-04-2007, 06:31 PM | #5 |
YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Missouri
Posts: 2,394
| What is it that you are wanting?? are you wanting him back?? If so Call Them and tell them what you have said here. That your husband said they could have him without talking to you first and then offer to help them find another pet. |
04-04-2007, 06:31 PM | #6 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Petaluma
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| Poor Louie must be experiencing feelings of loss also.
__________________ Peace and Light, Deborah My Sweet Sophie 1994-2007Welcome, Charlie Barley 4.14.07 & Sofia Bella 9.13.08 http://www.dogster.com/dogs/535291 |
04-04-2007, 06:40 PM | #7 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: kentucky
Posts: 133
| oh my gosh i do not know how your husband could give your dog just like that seems strange to me. Anyway that is your dog and you have all the right to rescue it! GO AND GET HIM BACK!!!!!!!!!! |
04-04-2007, 06:41 PM | #8 |
Slave to My Rug-Rats Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Long Island
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| Gosh, I am kinda speechless...I don't know how you are coping with this. I would be beyond devastated. I wish that I could say everything will be ok, but to be honest, IF I were you, I would go there tommorrow and get my dog back - end of story! Louie is your dog, he is your lov, he is suppose to be with you, you made that commitment to Louie when you rescued him. I am sure that your Nephew and his family are wonderful, but YOU are Louie's Mom and I bet he is missing you just as much as you are missing him. My advice is to LIVE FOR TODAY, Live to make YOU HAPPY - GO AND GET LOUIE BACK - ASAP!!! |
04-04-2007, 06:44 PM | #9 |
Chloe's Mommy! Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Cornwall, ON
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| I would call them immediately and tell them that he's coming home. Family or not, Louie is your baby. If you have to, help them find a new dog. Animal shelters are filled to the brim with them. Please get Louie back...for you and him! He's probably feeling the SAME thing right now.
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04-04-2007, 06:44 PM | #10 |
BANNED! Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: USA
Posts: 9,999
| Im so sorry this has happened and understand how you feel, I gave a chi away once and I cried and cried. I waited to long and the lady moved. and shes never left my mind, I know I did the wrong thing. and im still so sad about it. If you think its to hard to let him go, Go get him, there are a lot of dogs and puppys at the shelters let the boy pick out one from there, they all need good homes. |
04-04-2007, 06:50 PM | #11 |
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04-04-2007, 06:51 PM | #12 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Mobile AL
Posts: 1,399
| And your still married? I'd been in prison for killing a husband that would do that to me. |
04-04-2007, 06:57 PM | #13 |
Furbutts = LOVE Donating Member Moderator | Tell them you made a mistake...you're sorry, but you can't live without Louie. And, Louie shouldn't have to live without his MOM. Heck, make your husband do the "dirty work" for you - that'll teach him. Now go get your boy!!!!!! Ann |
04-04-2007, 06:57 PM | #14 |
AND Friday also! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Long Island
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| get your baby back .... I am so sad to read this. How in the world could your husband give away your little precious one? I am not admonishing you ... but I would have a talk with him and while doing that, call your nephew and request that Louie be brought back where he belongs. I hope your daughter heals quickly and soundly ... but one thing has nothing to do with the other. What if the nephew had liked your husband's car ... would you have been right to give the car to him? Would he have liked that? I don't think so ... You have every right to grieve and be angry ... now go get your little one back!
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04-04-2007, 06:58 PM | #15 |
& LuvtheCarley too! Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Wa State/Texas
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| Not sure what happened to my above reply.... Anyhow, can you not get Louie back because there is a child involved? This is all just too sad, and I hope you can resolve it somehow and get Louie back. Perhaps you can get your Nephew and his family a puppy and get Louie back?? Oh, I hope you get it sorted out for you and Louie!!
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