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03-28-2007, 11:57 AM | #1 |
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| So my girlfriend wants a yorkie... My girlfriend wants a Yorkshire Terrier because she finds them to be absolutely adorable. If we pass the pet store in our local mall, she absolutely must stop and look at them for a little while. Now, we have totally divergent opinions on this matter. She really wants one, and I really DON'T want one. However, since relationships are built on comprimise, the arrangement we've worked out on this is that she can get the dog but I will be absolved of having to take care of the responsibilities associated with a dog like this. That includes taking it for walks, feeding it, cleaning up after it before it gets housebroken, letting it out to do its "business", etc. The main reason I am posting this is that I want a common-sense, simple description of exactly what it means to have to properly take care of a Yorkie from established owners of these dogs. I think that if she saw how much work these dogs apparently can be, it would do two things: 1) Discourage her from getting a pet she cannot adequately take care of. 2) Give her no excuse for pawning off duties on me when she finds it to be too much to do. We work full time, with the same schedule. This means this dog will be alone between 7AM and 5PM Monday through Friday. We also usually leave for a good part of the weekend days as well...typically, on a Saturday, we take off shopping and doing other things around 10AM and don't return until the evening. Sunday would be the only day I can really say we'd be around the majority of the day. From all I have read, it seems that Yorkies are highly dependent on attention from their owners. While I have no doubt at all my girlfriend would give it quite a bit of attention when she could, the fact that she works 55 hours a week usually probably would put time at a premium. So given that description...do you think this type of environment would really be one that'd be ideal for a Yorkie?? Keep in mind we have no children or other animals. I guess I'm just thinking she may be looking too much at how cute she feels they are, and not enough about the reality of what it takes to care for these dogs and how much attention they need. |
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03-28-2007, 12:03 PM | #2 |
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| Relationships are a partnership and I think you both should be involved in the care of the dog. However I feel you are both away from your house too much. Yorkies are needy. If you work 55 hrs a week and then are gone all day on Saturday also that is too much time for a dog to be left alone. His training will suffer and he will most likely have separation anxiety problems
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03-28-2007, 12:06 PM | #3 |
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| My opnion is this: Dont get one!!! If the BOTH of you dont want one, the poor little dog will suffer, You BOTH need to want this pup... YES there is alot involed in taking PROPER care of a yorkie, especially a puppy... Do your research and read on this forum all you can reguarding raising a yorkie puppy, then decide. But I say NO dont get one. |
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03-28-2007, 12:10 PM | #5 |
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| Why don't you encourage your girlfriend to volunteer at a shelter for a little while... It might not be the same thing as having a dog but she can help dogs in need.. After doing that, maybe she will relaize it might be too much work to get one of her own, or maybe it will make her realize if she does want one, she might need prioritize a little bit.. Good luck with your decesion
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03-28-2007, 12:13 PM | #7 |
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| First off, stay away from petstores, they only sell puppy mill puppies. BAD, BAD, BAD places. If you decide to get a yorkie look for a reputable breeder that loves the yorkie breed and takes pride in their dogs. Now, whether it is a yorkie or any other breed puppy for that matter being away 55 hrs. a week will make it really hard to get the puppy housebroken or trained. In my opinion no dog should be left alone that much. Yorkies are easy to take with you, they fit in small carriers. Yes, yorkies LOVE attention and often demand it, plus they are small and need supervision at a young age because of hypoglycemia issues. They require regular grooming, their hair grows long just like people if you do not get them cut. They are too cute for words, and be pre-warned most men melt when a yorkie comes into their home, even though they said they didn't want one. LOL Yorkies can also sometimes be hard to get housebroken. Most of all yorkies are the sweetest,cutest, best little fur balls to have around. As most on here will tell you you can't have just one. With all breeds there are pros and cons, just make sure you have time and money(vet care) for a new puppy before you make this big dicision. These are all just my opinion, hope it helps some. Good luck.
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03-28-2007, 12:15 PM | #9 |
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| I have to agree that there seems that there won't be too much time for the Yorkie. Both my husband and I work full time. I leave the house at 8am and don't return until 6 or 7 pm. I have 2 Yorkies, so they keep each other company during the day. However, every and I mean every other minute of every day and every night I spend with Roxy and TJ. They are my life. I walk them, feed them, we play for hours and then we all sleep together. On the weekends, I don't leave the house for very long, or we bring them with us to places that are doggie friendly. Gosh, I even belong to a Yorkie Meetup - we meet once a month and have a play date. I treat Roxy and TJ as they were my children - whom I love and adore - well pretty much whom I slave over hahahaha - But honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way. My life is committed to Roxy and TJ, and then my hubby and me! Best of Luck! They do require alot of attention, so be prepared to use your spare time on and with the Yorkie Last edited by TLC; 03-28-2007 at 12:18 PM. |
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03-28-2007, 12:17 PM | #11 |
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| Hi there, you definately have a good reason to be concerned. I have two yorkie girls and a pekingese and all three are very dependent. Tons of people have a similar work schedule as you guys do and still have a yorkie. However, this will probably make potty training a little more difficult. Also, noway could you stay away all day with the dog left unattended. Depending on size, you have to make sure they eat enough because many health risks can occur. Especially when they are so young. Also, yorkies and any dogs are expensive to own. However, yorkies in my opinion need to be watched more closely. Its an absolute must that you find a good vet that feels comfortable to deal with a small dog. You will be shocked to see how many don't feel comfortable and will even tell you. There are so many things that have to be considered. Expenses is a huge part but far from the only thing to worry about. Say you guys want to shop on the weekend all day, who will watch the dog?? Will you work to train it to potty on a pad? It would never be able to hold itself all day like that. Also, lack of attention could create a depressed dog for starters or a very misbehaved one. Grooming is also something to consider. A puppy cut isn't so hard to care for but unless you plan on doing it, this will have to be done atleast every 2 months and some places are not cheap. Nails need trimmed often and those are only minor examples of things that a yorkie requires. In my opinion these dogs need a lot of attention. You will see that mostly everyone on here will tell you how their dog is like their tail. I honestly believe they are just naturally loveable pets and want with you so much. It really doesn't seem like a yorkie is right for you guys. Maybe later but too much is going on with your lives that it wouldn't be right for that poor dog to be left alone like that all the time. Again, just my opinion but I suggest waiting. Good Luck to you!!
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How much does a Yorkie cost you monthly would you say?? As it is, we're movign into a new house as I'd said...and we're spending a lot of money on furniture and putting extra towards house payments....if it's a large expense, it may not be feasible. | |
03-28-2007, 12:21 PM | #15 |
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| Hmmm...this is a tough one. It would be best if both of you wanted the dog but since that isn't the case, I don't feel it's right for your girlfriend to be denied a Yorkie if she really wants one and is committed to taking care of it. Yorkies crave human attention. Due to their small size, they are portable. So if you and she need to run errands on Saturdays, your girlfriend can bring her along in a carrier -- that way, you'd have the best of both worlds. I would not recommend just saying NO to the dog. I think if she really wants a Yorkie as badly as you say she does, she (and you) will find a way to make it work. The total unconditional love these little ones give you will outshine any adjustments you may have to make. All the best of you to you both.
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