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04-30-2016, 10:56 AM | #1 |
Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2016 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 13
| Potential new Morkie owner Hi everyone I've been reading through this site for a while now, and finally decided to sign up... I'm at the point where the breeder I'm comfortable with has a Morkie available, and I'm trying to make a thoughtful decision rather than a heart-based/I-want-her! type decision...lol Reading through threads, I think I've been able to figure out what I need and what I need to be prepared for/commit to... I'm just not sure how to tell if I'd make a good Morkie owner... I've never had a dog before, only looked after friend's dogs when they were away etc, so I'm not quite sure how to judge myself...lol I have a home with a yard, I can financially look after a dog, I can provide the things (food, vet care, crate/pen, toys, etc) that a dog would need... Right now I'm off work so I have unlimited time for the training of a puppy... When I go back to work (which would be in months, not weeks), I work shifts, so I have been reading a lot about training a dog to use both a litter box and to go outside... That would be the ideal - if I was a bit late getting home I know they would be comfortable/healthy with a spot to go... And my immediate neighbour has two dogs that I'll let out if they're away, so I'm sure they'd do the same if it was a situation where I was going to be more than a bit late... I suppose what I'm trying to figure out, is if a dog would be happy with my schedule... Breeders I've talked to have said that if you start a puppy with that schedule it will be 'normal' to them and will be fine, but hearing other's first hand experiences would be really helpful... I work 6 day shifts and 5 night shifts a month, with never more than three in a row... I don't have any hobbies/regular commitments that couldn't include bringing a dog along... One motivator (not sure that's the right word), for getting a dog is to help me with some social anxiety I've developed... I have found that it is almost non-existent when I've walked/been out with a friend's/neighbour's dog... I've always wanted a dog - but in the last 2 years I've noticed the calming effect they've had on me... I suppose I'm a bit worried that's maybe a selfish reason to get a dog? I want to know the dog would not only be well looked after, but be happy... I also have an indoor cat, if that's maybe a factor... She was born and fostered with a family that had dogs and was fine with them, but she hasn't been around dogs since then (5 years)... Please feel free to ask anything - I was worried about making the post too long... Any thoughts or feedback would be helpful... Thank you |
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04-30-2016, 11:31 AM | #2 |
Furbutts = LOVE Donating Member Moderator | Hi and welcome - so glad you found us ! Well, I think you're likely going to be just an *awesome* dog parent...mostly bc one can tell just how much thought and reflection you're putting into what you know is a very big, lifetime commitment. I really respect and appreciate that. I think your future doggie will do just fine w/ your schedule and will adjust to it without many problems. It sounds to me as if you'll have plenty of extra time to focus on the kiddo and give it lots of love, time, and attention. And if it does help w/ anxiety - then that's an awesome bonus!! If you haven't read this whole thread, you may find it helpful: http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/gen...ent-guide.html
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04-30-2016, 11:57 AM | #3 |
Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2016 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 13
| This is an amazing resource - I'm so glad I found you! Thanks for the compliment It's scary to adopt your first animal - I was worried when I adopted my cat... Until you've lived/cared for one, you're not sure what exactly it's like... Every experience with my cat has been wonderful so I wouldn't hesitate if it was another cat I was considering, but a dog is different and needs different things etc... I'm hoping that the cat and dog would also be a comfortable presence for each other for the times I'm not there too... Thanks for addressing my schedule - that is the biggest practical worry... I don't want the dog to be stressed or unhappy, and I don't want to be at work and feel upset/stressed because I've made a dog unhappy...lol I'll check out that thread... I've read every puppy thread I come across but that one sounds like a solid place to go... |
04-30-2016, 12:59 PM | #4 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Feb 2016 Location: aiken, SC
Posts: 157
| Morkies are adorable You sound like a great potential Morkie Mom, and I hope you post pics!
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04-30-2016, 01:42 PM | #5 |
Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2016 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 13
| Thanks Rosy1013 I think my posts are still being double checked before showing up, but I did see it My friend's Morkie is the first I'd ever heard of them... Adorable, and such a big happy personality |
04-30-2016, 01:49 PM | #6 |
Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2016 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 13
| @Wylie's Mom - thank you for saying that I wrote back earlier but I'm still new so my messages don't post right away... My schedule was the biggest worry, so thank you for commenting on that... I'd be miserable if I thought the dog was, so unless she'd be happy there'd be no point in pursuing it... Someone mentioned to me that if I was worried it was a long week for her, that a doggie daycare might be an option... Not just if if was needed - but to break up a long week and give her a fun 'outing' every once in a while... Think that would be nice, especially during the winter when outside play maybe isn't as much of an option... I'm loving all the threads and links - learning so much... That one you shared looks like it would have all the basics, thank you |
04-30-2016, 02:03 PM | #7 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2015 Location: New Yok, NY
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| I had the same worry about working full time and having a dog. I went a little crazy and ended up with a bonded pair to keep each other company. They are fine by themselves because they are pee pad trained and also can go outside. But love human companionship so I hired a dog walker. My walker comes M-F and an occasional weekend when I know I am going to be gone for more than 5 hours. They love her to death and love their walks. This reminds me I owe her a bottle of wine for the mess she cleaned up yesterday for me.
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05-08-2016, 08:02 PM | #8 |
Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2016 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 13
| @aweitzm1 I'm excited to hear that you were able to both pee pad and outdoor train your dogs! That's my goal as well... I don't want her 'without options' if I get stuck in traffic or weather, but I'd like to minimize the use/reliance of the pee pads... Thanks for sharing that |
05-09-2016, 04:27 AM | #9 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: E.Stroudsburg, Pa.
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| Welcome to YT.... Dogs are creatures of habit, what ever you start they will expect. Pup WILL adapt to your schedule as this is how your pup will be raised and all that he / she will know. Good luck with your little Morkie and please keep us updated on your new life as a pet mom when you get the baby.
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05-09-2016, 05:41 AM | #10 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Northern VA
Posts: 3,192
| I think Wylie and matese pretty much answered your questions. Considering the time/effort you put into bringing in a pup in your life, I'd say you'd make a great furry mama! Having a neighbor that'll help you out in a pinch is great but if you're worried about the pup being alone too long, you can always find a daycare to romp around with other furries maybe once a week or every other week. Dog walker is a great idea too! |
05-09-2016, 05:01 PM | #11 |
Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2016 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 13
| @matese and @Magnus - thank you for your posts... Ive had her a week now and I'm in awe of how understanding/adaptable she is... Lots of changes for her and she's been handling them all wonderfully and with such a great spirit so I'm feeling better about how she'll do with my routine... I've found a couple of daycares that look stimulating - like she'd really get great experiences out of being there... Everyone here has been kind and supportive... Thank you |
05-09-2016, 05:22 PM | #12 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: E.Stroudsburg, Pa.
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| Congratulations, that's wonderful that the puppy is adapting nicely. Daycare is an excellent choice, learning how to interact with other dogs and socializing is important, just make sure she has had all her vaccines. I would assume the daycare would ask. Have fun with your new baby and please keep us updated on your new life as a fur mommy.
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