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06-22-2014, 05:37 PM | #1 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: South Carolina
Posts: 31
| Need support had to put down my yorkie (my baby) Hello- I'm asking for support. I had to put my baby yorkie the love of my life down. I'm grieving and asking for support ( yorkie lovers). I can't stop crying every time I think of my beautiful yorkie April Dinkel. So sad... Elsa |
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06-22-2014, 05:40 PM | #2 |
♥ Maximo and Teddy Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Northern Virginia
Posts: 25,041
| Hello Elsa, I am very sorry you had to let your April go. You have come to the right place for support. Tell us about your baby. Share some pictures too. I hope that in time that the happy memories of your special girl will comfort your grieving heart.
__________________ Kristin, Max and Teddy |
06-22-2014, 05:54 PM | #3 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: South Carolina
Posts: 31
| Thank you from the bottom of my heart I would to share. I'm taking it really hard. I have asked my family not remove her bowls. I have another doggie and she is looking for her sister. Thank you for replying!! |
06-22-2014, 06:02 PM | #4 | |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: USA
Posts: 7,652
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I'm so sorry honey, I do know and it is very difficult, so many reminders, but I promise you, that in a little while suddenly allllll the good memories will start popping into your mind and the sadness seems to lessen. I'm so sorry for your loss.
__________________ The Above advice/comments/reviews are my personal opinions based on my own experience/education/investigation and research and you can take them any way you want to......Or NOT!!! | |
06-22-2014, 06:06 PM | #5 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: Tucson,AZ
Posts: 244
| We went through it a few months back, just remember you did it for her, not you. We kept Sig alive 2 years and 4 months after kidney failure(Doctor said she had 6 months). She even chased her ball the final day, but I will not keep a friend alive just for my wants. As long as she had quality of life we would do anything, but we would not let her suffer just for our selfish wants. Remember the good times, cry a little, but remember she knew you loved her |
06-22-2014, 06:27 PM | #6 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Delaware
Posts: 2,663
| I had to have my little put to sleep December 1st 2013. After the death of my parents, it was the most painful thing I ever had to do. It is definitely not easy but it does get better. For the first 3 months I could not stop crying. I left her blankie, sweater and her bed alone as if she was still here. I have her ashes on my nightstand next to my bed. I still take out the lock of hair that I have and just hold for comfort. No it will not be easy but believe it does get better. I know there times when she comes to visit me. Sometimes I can sense her presence and brings a smile to my face. I know she is checking on me to see if I am okay. She was very protective and possessive of me. She cared for my well being as much as I cared for her's. While I don't cry as much, there is still a sadness but it is slowly turning into beautiful memories of our time together. I know that we will see each other again and that is what gets me through. I have open my heart up to another little girl who I am building a bond with. She is definitely not a replacement. My Brandi has opened me up to what it's like to live with and love yorkies. I just wanted another opportunity to share that love with another beautiful yorkie. Allow yourself t grieve and if you feel like crying, go ahead and cry. I still haven't put Brandi's stuff away although I let my new yorkie have her blankie (I'm sure Brandi is not too thrill with that). |
06-22-2014, 06:27 PM | #7 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: South Carolina
Posts: 31
| Thank you so much. I would love to share pictures of April. She made very happy and was always there for me!! Thank you so much!! Elsa |
06-22-2014, 06:32 PM | #8 | |
♥ Maximo and Teddy Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Northern Virginia
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If you need help posting photos, here is some information (the photos often have to be re-sized): http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/my-...-pictures.html Here is a video showing how to post: http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/my-...orkietalk.html
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06-22-2014, 06:36 PM | #9 |
Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: S. W. Suburbs of Chicago, IL
Posts: 12,235
| How sad.....I can feel your hurt.
__________________ “Never argue with a fool, onlookers may not be able to tell the difference.” Mark Twain |
06-22-2014, 06:45 PM | #10 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: North Ridgeville, Oh. US
Posts: 1,396
| Elsa, my heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry. The pain will eventually lessen and you'll have your beautiful memories.
__________________ Kathy & Bella |
06-22-2014, 06:47 PM | #11 |
Yorkie mom of 4 Donating YT Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: LaPlata, Md
Posts: 23,247
| I'm so very sorry.
__________________ Taylor My babies Joey, Penny ,Ollie & Dixie Callie Mae, you will forever be in my heart! |
06-22-2014, 07:12 PM | #12 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: GA, USA
Posts: 693
| I'm so sorry for your loss I've lost two several years back, one from old age and other from sudden complications. It saddens me that our pets live such short lives.
__________________ R.I.P. Mick & Mandy (before 2010), Mila - 4/3/15, Chloe - 2/18/16, Kimchi - 6/2/2021 |
06-22-2014, 07:53 PM | #13 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: FtWorth,TX,USA
Posts: 3,269
| I am so sorry for your loss,but glad that you came here for comfort. I too lost my baby 3yrs ago and that is how I found my way here. I would love to see pictures of your baby when you feel up to it. |
06-23-2014, 02:53 AM | #15 |
YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: Ohio
Posts: 364
| I'm very sorry for your loss. |
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