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11-23-2012, 12:55 PM | #1 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: Toronto
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| Your Yorkie.....& Children Okay...this is my question. How do you all feel about your Yorkie being around children? Particularly when you first adopt a Yorkie. My Lou'e is about 1lb a couple ounces...and I live in my boyfriend's Mom's basement apartment...she goes down to check on him from time to time...but her grandkids do come over often and I don't want her to get the idea of allowing them down there to "play" with them. One is aged 4, the other 2. They can be pretty rough as I have seen them with her own dog (who is a Jack Russel, a bit chunky too). I am just incredibly afraid as I have heard stories of children squeezing them a bit much or just dropping them...thinking they are "stuffed animals". How do I go about this? Should I just tell her I don't want them around? Am I being a bit too paranoid? I am turning into a crazy dog lady!! Hahaha. But I am cool with it. |
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11-23-2012, 01:01 PM | #2 |
Between♥Suspensions Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Vaissades
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| Tell them no, don't touch. She's too young right now to be exposed first off, second her size even with gentle children is a concern. Later you hold they can pet. I have kids 13, 8, and almost 2. Given my yorkies are oversized and my kids (baby is learning still) are very well behaved...I still set definate rules and always monitor. My kids' friends and the stranger who tries to impose their child in my dog are quickly lied to I say they bite back off. A good phrase, look with your eyes not your hands.
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11-23-2012, 01:17 PM | #3 |
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| My usually rule of thumb is no young children around yorkies. We get a lot of surrenders bc of the children are too rough with the yorkies and then the yorkies end up getting aggressive to try to get the children to back off. If they are YOUR children, it's different. You can teach and discipline your own kids. you can't really discipline other people's children (esp if they themselves don't do it) without stepping on some toes. i say avoid the situation all together and just say both the yorkie and the kids are all too young to undertand how to enteract with each other. How long is your yorkie being left by himself in your apt anyway? How old is he? Does your bf's mom go down there to check on him? or what is the reason?
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11-23-2012, 01:23 PM | #4 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: Toronto
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| Thanks Concretegurl, I agree with you. Capt_noonie ~ I agree with you as well. I usually get the look like "are you crazy? it's a dog"...not that I care. It's my dog. I will just reiterate that I don't want the children down there without my supervision. What do you mean, "what is the reason"? Lou'e is 3 months...he isn't left for more than a couple hours at a time. I go home at lunch to check on him and boyfriend's Mom goes once in the morning and afternoon before I get home from work and spends some time with him (at least, she says she does, lol). When he is fully vaccinated I will be bringing him to work with me a couple times a week to break it up a bit for him. Why do you ask? |
11-23-2012, 01:53 PM | #5 |
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| Hi Sandra!! Def talk to her and tell her right now without your supervision you do not want her to take the kids down there. I'm sure she will understand.. Maybe you (if you want) can bring the kids around Lou'e so you can show them how to behave...2 is my neices age, and around Peanut she doesnt listen to me, so I have to watch her like a hawk when they are around eachother, but the 4 year old you can def teach how to act around a 1 lb Yorkie. Of course I would wait a little till he gets more shots in him. Some questions were asked that have nothing to do with your orignal question.. so feel free to ignore those!
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11-23-2012, 02:30 PM | #6 | |
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PS I am totally a crazy dog lady and cool with it too
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11-23-2012, 03:11 PM | #7 |
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| With small children I use the one hand rule. Breaking the rule gets a time out. The children can touch the Yorkie but only with one hand at a time. They can not pick up the Yorkie with one hand or squeeze the puppy too tight. It is an easy rule for them to remember.
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11-23-2012, 03:21 PM | #8 |
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| Tibbe has never been around children on a routine basis so if they ask, I tell them he bites. I would hate for a little child to get hurt and am not 100% positive how he might react 100% of the time. If I tell them it is okay, and they pet, the child hurts or scares them & he bites reflexively, I would feel awful. He's a little nervous around them and I do my very best to take him up into my arms when they are approaching, etc., if I hear of see them in time. I'm just not that sure of how he might be if one suddenly grabbed him instead of petting - he might snap and hurt one. He's super friendly with all people and all dogs - but he's a little wide-eyed and cautious around children and I'm not that comfortable with his body language as his tail is down or half-cocked, he crouches a bit. So, not knowing for sure, I warn the little ones off just to keep everybody safe.
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11-23-2012, 03:30 PM | #9 |
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| I think that if I was a little doggie and a couple of running kids came at me I would be scared. A dog that is scared will bite despite that fact that some people think there is no excuse for a dog biting a person. Since these kids have not been taught how to treat a dog respectfully they are a danger to your puppy. Maybe talk to your boyfriend's mom and tell her that you feel the puppy is to small to be around young children. If you don't feel that she would supervise the children or make sure they handled him right then you must do what you can to protect your puppy. One bad experience with children could cause a problem for you and your dog for years to come. If the mother does not agree with you then just tell her you would rather she did not visit the puppy when you are not there. I know you are walking on dangerous ground here but she needs to respect your wishes for the puppy since he is your dog. |
11-23-2012, 04:40 PM | #10 | |
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Obviously you are referring to my questions. I would not ask her questions that have nothing to do with her issue. A little more insight into what her situation is would help all of us help her answer the question.
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11-23-2012, 05:01 PM | #11 |
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| My boys are relatively big -- 8 and 9+ pounds -- and I still supervise closely any interaction with kids, and adults, lol. Even adults can drop dogs when they are squirmy. Morning show anchor Kathy Lee Gifford dropped a puppy on live tv recently. In all seriousness, I would insist that you want to supervise visits with kids to make sure your pup is being handled safely.
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11-23-2012, 05:06 PM | #12 |
♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas
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| Gosh, I guess my window cut off the bottom of your post or I just got distracted B4 I saw it all. NO, you are NOT being paranoid to not want small children playing with your tiny, young pup when you are not around!!! Please protect your little one against the young one! Kids, even properly supervised, can accidentally drop a little dog on its head(happened to my sister's new Yorkie pup, Magnum, when my brother was showing his daughter how to carefully hold a puppy!) and the little guy had seizures, days of IH care, tests, medication and he was a mean dog later, when he was grown. I would be awfully careful with children around any dog but a little puppy is really asking a lot of a child who acts spontaneously or without the best judgment even in the best of circumstances. They are kids so don't expect them to be overly careful with a living animal. Your dog could become stressed by all this and have behavior problems if the little kids are pretty loud, jumping around a lot, if he's very young and if he feels trapped and can't get away from them. I'd have a long talk about needing to properly protect this little baby Yorkie from possible harm with your MIL. The kids can still enjoy themselves doing many other fun things when visiting.
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11-23-2012, 06:34 PM | #13 |
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| No way are you being over protective. My sister is young (4) and has been raised with Jackson, and she is very good with him, but the problem is that she is TOO good with him. She constantly wants to be doing something for him, or with him, or giving him treats and doing tricks, etc, so I hate leaving him home alone (I live at home) while I am not there and she is, because my parents aren't really dog people and don't understand. I just wouldn't want something to happen while I am not there so I am very paranoid and do not leave him much when I don't have to. Supervised, I have no problem, but I do not think young children and dogs should ever be left alone.
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11-23-2012, 07:11 PM | #14 | |
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Now, if your MIL is using Lou'e as an activity to do with her grandkids without you asking her to check in, then I'd politely ask her not to. Tell her you truly appreciate her taking the time to check in on Lou'e while you're out, because it shows she understands how much Lou'e means to you, but it might not be the best idea.
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11-23-2012, 07:19 PM | #15 |
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| My girls are 3, 5, and 7 and they are fine with our Yorkie. However, they are my kids and I am always here to supervise them and teach them how to be with Blazer and to supervise and teach HIM how to be around THEM. Other people's kids, though- unless I am right there I don't want them messing with my pup! Actually, I don't really trust other people's kids around my big dog, either. Unless you are there, I wouldn't trust them. Or if you trust MIL and SHE is there at all times then MAYBE but she has to know the rules that you have set for your dog. |
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