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02-10-2012, 01:41 PM | #1 |
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| Boyfriend Won't Let Furbabies Sleep In Bed :( I'm starting to date someone new, and he told me that he doesn't know if he can ever get used to Kimchee and Linus sleeping in bed with us I feel awful because I understand where he is coming from, but it breaks my heart to think about making Kimchee and Linus sleep somewhere else, especially since they have always slept in my bed with me, are the best cuddlers, and it's such special time for us. Has anyone gone through this and come up with any good compromises or solutions? |
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02-10-2012, 01:44 PM | #2 |
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| My solution would be to dump the boyfriend!
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02-10-2012, 01:48 PM | #3 |
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02-10-2012, 01:52 PM | #4 |
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| my exact thoughts..
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02-10-2012, 02:01 PM | #5 |
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| LOL exactly. May sound crazy, but if I were start dating a man, and he began making new rules for MY dogs... it wouldn't fly. Whoever gets into a relationship with me will know Jackson was here first and he will always be on furniture, so... they can either deal or leave.
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02-10-2012, 02:02 PM | #6 |
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02-10-2012, 02:04 PM | #7 |
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| Oh man, just let him know that you promise to not have your dogs lay in HIS bed at HIS house when you are there. But, your bed, your babies, your decision My GF didn't like it either but then I got her Jimmy, the yorkie, and now she doesn't mind at all and never says anything. And I never stopped having ChiChi in the bed the whole year and half she was complaining.
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02-10-2012, 02:11 PM | #8 |
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| I agree...the furbabies were there first and have always slept with you so i would not compromise with the boyfriend i would just tell him to get over it...lol when i first moved in with my hubby he had a pit puppy that was about 6 months old and he slept in the bed sometimes...i had to make him stop bc he stunk and i would get pushed to the very edge and sometimes fall off the bed. I didn't enjoy having to wash the bedding everyday. Im sure you keep your babies smelling good and don't push him off the bed though. He doesn't realize how lucky he is to have the little fur butts in his life. I wish my little boy would sleep with me!!
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02-10-2012, 02:25 PM | #9 |
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| And if that doesn't work, tell your boyfriend to sleep on the floor.
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02-10-2012, 02:36 PM | #10 |
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| LOL'ing, I'm guessing that YorkieTalk may not be the most neutral forum for this question! Thanks for the advice and stories |
02-10-2012, 03:00 PM | #11 |
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| I've always wondered how it worked for people in relationships. Seems like it would .... hinder intimacy
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02-10-2012, 03:02 PM | #12 |
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| To me, it's "love me love my package". It's just happened that my babies are not quite walk on 2 legs but they have feelings too. I used to date with a guy, I have a kitten at the time and he's just always in between us. There's never really worked out and in the end, I knew he is NOT the one for me. You have in fact told yourself an answer " it breaks my [COLOR=green !important][COLOR=green !important]heart[/COLOR][/COLOR] to think about making Kimchee and Linus sleep somewhere else, especially since they have always slept in my bed with me, are the best cuddlers, and it's such special time for us" |
02-10-2012, 03:08 PM | #13 | |
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I cannot tell you how many women marry men like him and in the end give up their beloved pups to save their marriage. My advice is to dump him now.
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02-10-2012, 03:09 PM | #14 |
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| Usually the pups leave the bed ....and some sit and watch.
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02-10-2012, 03:12 PM | #15 |
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| He needs to get something straight.......HE is sleeping in THEIR bed.
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