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12-16-2009, 08:25 AM | #1 |
BANNED! Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Bal Harbour, Florida
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| Sadness over pet loss My dear, sweet Casey (a mixed breed) passed away exactly 3 weeks ago. I had her since she was 4 weeks old (abandoned after birth and found after kids were tossing her back/forth over a fence), I bottle fed her, and basically treated her how I imagine mothers treat their kids (I don't have any!) for 15 years. I've hanged her collar over an angel on my wall, but for split seconds, usually the seconds after I wake), my 1st thoughts are, 'How is she?', or, I think I hear her snoring, or things like this. The image of her dead on the floor, w/her tongue out and blue, w/a pool of saliva is tatooed on my mind - that wasn't my girl. I just miss her so much. I came across her holiday collar w/the bell a few days ago, and just lost it. I feel embarrassed being so sad, but I just can't forget |
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12-16-2009, 08:30 AM | #2 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Michigan USA
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| I am so sorry to hear about little Casey I'm sure she loved you very much, too.
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12-16-2009, 08:35 AM | #3 |
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| Soooo sorry for the pain you are dealing with!! It must be very hard...but I am sure she had the life of a princess...if all dogs were so fortunate this world wouldn't be filled with animal cruelty! I am sure that she is forever cuddled into you in her spirit!
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12-16-2009, 09:01 AM | #4 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Where the deer and the antelope play
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| Sending you much needed hugs. I know exactly how you feel. It will get easier. Have you thought about another puppy? It will never replace your loss, but it does help fill the void in your heart.
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12-16-2009, 09:04 AM | #5 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker | I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what you're going through. Missy and I send you lots and lots of hugs!! And Missy sends you kisses too.
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12-16-2009, 10:39 AM | #6 |
BANNED! Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Bal Harbour, Florida
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| Thanks girl & pups. I have a yorkie, Pippi, who is 2 years old. She's great, a little angel doll, but I still remember that awful day, and just wish I had my buddess (female buddy) back in my life, too. I've just been putting all my extra energy into my Yorkie baby, Pippi It's just hard, some days, I guess... some more than others. xo - Gisela & Pippi |
12-16-2009, 01:48 PM | #7 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: NC
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| I am so sorry for your loss you are feeling and hope that you will find comfort in your good memories of your Casey.
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12-16-2009, 02:25 PM | #8 |
Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: S. W. Suburbs of Chicago, IL
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| I am so sorry that you are having a hard time after losing Casey. It does not matter if she was a mixed breed or a Yorkie it is very sad when a piece of your life is gone. When my kids were very little we had a Lab named Abby and for the longest time I swore that I could still hear her and feel her around me. But I loved that feeling it made me happy to know she was still hanging around. It has been many years since she was with me but I still think about her all the time. It took a long time before I decided to add a new dog~Pebbles my first Yorkie because of how sad it made to to lose Abby. We just lost my foster pup this past weekend and it was very sad to see him go as well. But I have taken comfort in knowing that he had a very good life while he was with me. Time will help to heal the hurt and you will always be able to hold on to your memories of her in your heart.
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12-16-2009, 02:33 PM | #9 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: With my yorkies
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| I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your baby girl. It sounds like she was loved very much all her life, and that is such a blessing. Please, don't feel embarrassed about your grief! Most of us have gone through what you are dealing with now and it's completely natural. I wish I could tell you that your pain will be gone soon but honestly you'll always carry it with you. It just won't be so sharp and strong, but it will take time. {hugs}
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12-16-2009, 02:59 PM | #10 |
Pixie and Daisy Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: CT USA
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| I am so sorry of your loss and you can trust that you will see her in heaven and you will recognize each other and you will rejoice together. Know that you gave her a wonderful life of security and love. I believe that dogs have spirits as well and maybe sometimes she is right near your side. I lost a Golden retriever that I had for 12 years and she grew up with my kids and it has been 5 years and I still miss her bc she has a part of my heart. So don't feel stupid bc you loved her and miss her. I have my Godlie's ashes and I dust them off when I dust and cry every time. They say time heals all and I believe in time you will be doing better but you will never stop missing her and that is ok. Maybe you should think about adopting a yorkie. Big hugs to you~Joyce
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12-16-2009, 03:39 PM | #11 |
My Sweet Cupcake Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: New York
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| I am terribly sorry for your loss. I hope that the good memories of the time that you shared offers some comfort in these difficult times.
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12-16-2009, 05:03 PM | #12 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: upstate ny
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| I'm so sorry for your loss! Please give yourself some time and don't feel embarassed at all. We all know exactly how you feel.... |
12-19-2009, 10:36 PM | #13 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Florida
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| Give yourself all the time you need. My 5 yr old yorkie has been missing for the past 5 weeks. I am still not ok. I am in the land of "not KNowing" Three weeks is no where near enough time. You had her for 15 yrs? Take all the time you need. Do not feel embaressed. Fifteen years is a wonderful life to spend with your pet. I know its not enough time. I still have my random moments where I burst in tears for no reason at all. One day at a time is a process that seems to take forever, I know. But everyday helps. If you ever need to talk to someone, please send me a private message. I could give you a call. I live in FL. (((hugs))) Gen |
12-20-2009, 09:07 AM | #14 |
YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Mesa, Arizona
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| My heart is full of sadness for you. Nothing takes away that awful pain of loss except time. I'm glad you have another little furbaby to fill that empty space just a little. You are in my prayers. |
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