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10-21-2009, 05:00 AM | #1 |
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| for the people that new when coby was sick i have a question? ok most of you well all my contacts, friends, already know this i got Coby Sept 3 of last month ok during cobys first weeks he became ill everyone knows that coby came from a bad breeder, or puppymill.. however during the week of sept 12,13 was my best friends baby shower and the 13 was my b.day which i stayed home .. well coby became so sick around the 7 of that month.. i believe or some where around it..that said i was in the house 24 hrs watching him 24 7 because i had no idea what to expect next? Well my best friend who i have been friends since high school.. got mad at me because i told her i couldnt make the baby shower because Coby was sick well she said she just was mad because i didnt call her too check on how the shower turn out.. however i called her 3 days before the shower too cancel? well she had the baby on sept 30 and i notice she stop calling me all together she never even called too let me know that her baby was born and the babys suppose to be my godchild?.. i had to call her well i bought the baby clothes too her house and i saw the baby however she stop calling again? i am very confussed i mean what did she expect me too do? Coby, was sick i couldnt leave him in the house by him self my husband ,works all the time he's tired when he comes home from 12 hr daily shift she said too me that a human babys more important? then a dog ? sorry for the fast typing im upset |
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10-21-2009, 05:25 AM | #2 |
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| I'm sorry your friend feels this way. All of God's creations are precious. I am sure that your friend is going thru some major hormonal (sp) changes at the moment but for those of us who do not have skin kids our precious pets are our children (as well as those with skin kids, I know). Your friend needs to get over it. Talk it out with her and tell her that your feelings are hurt by her actions and feelings. She needs to understand how much Cody means to you and accept that.
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10-21-2009, 06:37 AM | #3 | |
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10-21-2009, 06:43 AM | #4 |
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| if u dont mind me asking; what did coby have; how did he become sick; i would have done the same thing; one time i was at school and my dog got sick; my sister text me and told me that the dog was vomiting blood; i left the class and rushed her to the hospital. i know some people dont understand how much we love our dogs; but u can tell her to put herself in ur place; if her kid got sick will she leave to go to a party; of course not; so how come u have to leave ur baby; yes he's not a human baby but never the less he's ur baby; so if she's a good friend she will understand and if not then that's her loss. don't worry about it
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10-21-2009, 06:44 AM | #5 |
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| do you think that maybe she's feeling a bit overwhelmed with motherhood? I know that it can be scary but at the same time, she shouldn't be pushing her friends away either. She may not even realize how she has treated you, so let her get her bearings and maybe have a girl's night with just you and her (get her hubby to babysit-lol) and get it all out in the open. You are obviously important to her that she would ask you to be Godmother. Maybe make it a dual thing and have her be Cody's Godmother-?? can't hurt to ask and maybe she'll see the levity and appreciate it.
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10-21-2009, 06:46 AM | #6 |
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| hypoglycemia and a sezier |
10-21-2009, 06:47 AM | #7 |
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| I wouldnt have left mine either if they were very sick
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10-21-2009, 06:51 AM | #8 | |
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10-21-2009, 06:54 AM | #9 | |
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by the way to avoid hypoglycemia; you can give him a snack every 3 hrs or so to keep his blood sugar up. you can even give one teaspoon of gerber baby food; banana or apple sauce. or u can give a piece of apple for snack; my dog loves it; good luck
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10-21-2009, 06:57 AM | #10 |
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| guessing you're not liking the idea. sorry she's being like that.
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10-21-2009, 07:04 AM | #11 |
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| I'm sorry coby was sick and hope he is feeling better. I would be questioning it she was a true friend also. I have three furbabies (13 yrs, 4 yrs and 3 1/2 months), two grown girls and two grandsons (4 and 3 1/2 months). I love them ALL the same. My girls would say that I like my grandsons and furbabies better than them but they like to just play around with me. If somebody could not understand that I would want to stay home while one of my babies was sick and stop being my friend, than I would question their friendship. When one of our children (2 legged and 4 legged) becomes very sick our focus tends to go towards that and she should understand.
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10-21-2009, 07:04 AM | #12 |
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| WOW! She is selfish! I know your feelings must be hurt. Some people think a dog is nothing to get attached to. She is not a true friend because if she were she would understand how much Coby means to you even though you didn't give birth to him. Especially when he was very sick. He is your furbaby! I'd leave her be and let her stew in her own anger. When she decides to talk or ask you what happen between you, tell her she was disrespectful of your choice for family life and feelings, and you don't need friends like that. Last edited by Cerise; 10-21-2009 at 07:06 AM. |
10-21-2009, 07:08 AM | #13 |
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10-21-2009, 07:15 AM | #14 |
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| Just because someone has a baby doesn't mean the have immunity. They still have to be nice. Afterall you did go visit her and the baby. What else does she want? You say she is not married. That is not your fault.
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10-21-2009, 07:53 AM | #15 |
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| Well I wouldn't worry about it as much as you are. I know when I had my daughter, my hubby and I were not living together. So yes it is VERY overwhelming bringing a baby home, if this is her first I bet it is even more harder. Besides all the HORMONES rushing through your body the last thing your guna remember is calling your friends. I know I didn't call people unless I had too, I was busy with a new baby, sleeping when the baby was sleeping and getting things done I didn't have time to chit chat and so on, now I have more time because my daughter is bigger. |
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