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YorkieLove77 · 06-03-2009, 01:41 AM

My little guy and I currently live alone in a fairly small one bedroom apartment, with no balcony and high windows. When I got him at 8 weeks old as a birthday gift from my now ex-bf, we were in a larger home, with lots of windows that he could access and lots of room to play. Ever since I've been in this apartment, I've felt so bad for him. Even though he's small, I still feel like he's so confined...especially when I leave and he's in his x-pen (4x4). When my ex and I broke up I needed to find a place to live right away, and this place was available right away.

Well, thankfully I only signed a 6-month lease, so I'll be moving into a much nicer, larger place in a couple months. However, I have 2 floorplan options, and I'm having trouble deciding. The regular one BR is 900 sq feet, with a nice big balcony. The other one however, is also a one BR, but it also has a 10x11 den/office, and it's 1000 square feet (also has balcony). It's $100 more a month. At first I was against the den option since I really don't need all that space for myself, but then I thought it might be a perfect little playroom for JoJo when I'm not home. I could put all his favorite things in there, along with a bench by the window so he can look outside to his hearts content.

The x-pen has served it's purpose well, and even though it offers much more freedom than a crate (which I still use, but only at night when he goes to bed), I always feel so guilty that he's confined to such a small space while I'm away. And not to mention it's pretty unsightly in the middle of my apartment livingroom. I really want him to feel like he has some freedom while I'm gone, but at the same time I don't want him to possibly hurt himself by giving him access to the entire apartment, so the den option is really enticing. And I'd love to do away with the x-pen.

Now, is this a silly thing to consider? My friends think I'm being ridiculous for considering the larger place for the sake of "a dog", but they just don't get how much he means to me. Since he's come into my life, his needs have always been met before my own, and I would do anything in my power to make him happy and comfortable. That's how I am with those I love, so why would I be any different with my furbaby?

So do you guys think the larger place would be worth it? If it were you, which option would you choose? Obviously, my friends say no, but none of them are pet owners, so they don't get my reasoning. Oh, and the reason I left my ex is because he was being abusive to my baby. He would hit him so hard when he'd have an accident, and if he was home alone with him all day he wouldn't even feed him, claiming it was his punishment for having an accident. I mentioned in a post around that time that he also constantly threatened to get rid of him if he didn't potty train soon, and a member here suggested I leave that jerk. And that's exactly what I did. NO ONE will EVER hurt my sweet little guy again.

mscat · 06-03-2009, 01:53 AM

If I were t make the decision ,and it was only $100 more each month, i would go for it

ANd you will have the den , go for it ! It does not matter what your friends think. You do what you feel is right for you and your Yorkie.
It makes me angry and sad that your baby was abused like that ! So glad you got rid of him. I hope your yorkie has not suffered any long term emotional damage/behavior problems from being mistreated.
Best of luck to you , with the decision you make .

Lolapup · 06-03-2009, 02:13 AM

I would definitely go with the larger place for BOTH of you!

manolos mom · 06-03-2009, 02:52 AM

Sounds reasonable, I would move to a larger apt. Good for you, Im glad you ditched the guy, if he was hitting your dog because of his lack of wanting to train then he would have hit your children. Once an abuser always an abuser..

karenrae · 06-03-2009, 03:00 AM

Yorkies love to be little "Nosemarys" the more room the better.. Congrats on ditching the abuser, Any man who doesn't love your dog/dogs surely can't love anything...

luvfla · 06-03-2009, 03:19 AM

You can tell a LOT about a person's character by how the treat animals.

Honeys Mama · 06-03-2009, 03:34 AM

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Originally Posted by luvfla

You can tell a LOT about a person's character by how the treat animals.

I agree totally!

on ditching the loser! my DH smacked my furbabies nose ONE time and i told him if he did that again i'd smack his nose and then leave

NEVER again will he do that!

I'd go w/ the bigger place. If you're second guessing how you're doggie will be then go w/ what you want for the both of you. If you go w/ the smaller place you'll be mad at yourself. Good luck in your choice!

Pa Yorkie Mom · 06-03-2009, 04:45 AM

Both you and your fur baby would probably enjoy the extra room. It would give him more freedom and you more peace of mind at not having to keep him in the x pen. If it were me I would go for more room. Just be sure you can afford the extra $ 100.00 dollars a month. It would be a shame to have to uproot your baby again if your finances change a bit.

tokes · 06-03-2009, 07:45 AM

Mhmm, definitely go for the larger one. $100 extra a month isn't much to pay for the extra space. And your baby will definitely benefit from it. It's a win-win in my opinion.

tatertot15 · 06-03-2009, 08:19 AM

When me and my DH were looking for a place we ended up getting the Townhouse we are currently in, it has 2 bedrooms, one for us and one for him lol. the second bedroom is his!! Of course it is used for guests also, we have a bed in there but it is put up against the wall with the window so he can get up on the bed and look out the window, we have food and water in there along with his toys and his bed. We get made fun of all the time when we tell people he has his own room but I don't care what they think, my Bandit is my baby, I look at his as he is my child. He gives me so much love and puts joy in my heart, I would never change what I have done. Him having his own room has been great, he has the freedom to run and jump and play and of course watch out the window for his mommy and daddy to pull up (it's in the front of the townhouse) so it's been the best thing I could do. I would for sure go for the bigger place, you will not regret it and it will be worth the money!!

Conjure_Girl · 06-03-2009, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by YorkieLove77

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Now, is this a silly thing to consider? My friends think I'm being ridiculous for considering the larger place for the sake of "a dog", but they just don't get how much he means to me. Since he's come into my life, his needs have always been met before my own, and I would do anything in my power to make him happy and comfortable. That's how I am with those I love, so why would I be any different with my furbaby?

So do you guys think the larger place would be worth it? If it were you, which option would you choose? Obviously, my friends say no, but none of them are pet owners, so they don't get my reasoning. <snip>

I totally understand! My husband and I just moved from an apartment to a house, and to paying almost $500/month more because of our furbaby, Lulu. We wanted her to have more space and a back yard to play in. And now that we have the space... we're getting another one!!!!

So yeah, you never know what will happen in the future. You might get another puppy, start a new relationship or whatever.... Get the bigger space. And it will make you feel good that you did the best thing for JoJo!

CouversMom · 06-03-2009, 08:32 AM

I say go with the bigger apartment. We live in a one bedroom, and it is just not enough room for us. We are looking into moving so that Couver won't feel so cramped at home

BonBon · 06-03-2009, 08:45 AM

If you can afford it, take the bigger apartment. He will love having his own space, and I can just see him sitting on his little bench watching out the window. You sound like a great mommy!

hartygirl · 06-03-2009, 09:15 AM

I would go with the larger of the two. You never know when someone is going to ask you if you want a really cool piece of furniture or something large that you just can't live without and would have to pay to store anyways

. Seems like that always happens to me, I'm on furniture overload

.

Both of you will enjoy the extra space to grow! And it is another room that you have to spend quality time in with your baby, that way you dont feel like you live in your living room on the couch, been there, it gets old fast!

YorkieLove77 · 06-03-2009, 09:23 AM

Well everyone, you have helped me tremendously with my decision. I'm going to go with the larger apt with the den. Thanks to you guys now I know I'm not making a silly decision. As much as I love the new apartment, and can't wait to move, I'm more excited for JoJo to have all that extra space and his own room!

Here's a pic of the floor plan with the den...I decided on the second floor with the cathedral ceilings.

06-03-2009, 01:41 AM	#1
YorkieLove77 YT Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Shelby Twp, MI Posts: 278	Looking for opinions My little guy and I currently live alone in a fairly small one bedroom apartment, with no balcony and high windows. When I got him at 8 weeks old as a birthday gift from my now ex-bf, we were in a larger home, with lots of windows that he could access and lots of room to play. Ever since I've been in this apartment, I've felt so bad for him. Even though he's small, I still feel like he's so confined...especially when I leave and he's in his x-pen (4x4). When my ex and I broke up I needed to find a place to live right away, and this place was available right away. Well, thankfully I only signed a 6-month lease, so I'll be moving into a much nicer, larger place in a couple months. However, I have 2 floorplan options, and I'm having trouble deciding. The regular one BR is 900 sq feet, with a nice big balcony. The other one however, is also a one BR, but it also has a 10x11 den/office, and it's 1000 square feet (also has balcony). It's $100 more a month. At first I was against the den option since I really don't need all that space for myself, but then I thought it might be a perfect little playroom for JoJo when I'm not home. I could put all his favorite things in there, along with a bench by the window so he can look outside to his hearts content. The x-pen has served it's purpose well, and even though it offers much more freedom than a crate (which I still use, but only at night when he goes to bed), I always feel so guilty that he's confined to such a small space while I'm away. And not to mention it's pretty unsightly in the middle of my apartment livingroom. I really want him to feel like he has some freedom while I'm gone, but at the same time I don't want him to possibly hurt himself by giving him access to the entire apartment, so the den option is really enticing. And I'd love to do away with the x-pen. Now, is this a silly thing to consider? My friends think I'm being ridiculous for considering the larger place for the sake of "a dog", but they just don't get how much he means to me. Since he's come into my life, his needs have always been met before my own, and I would do anything in my power to make him happy and comfortable. That's how I am with those I love, so why would I be any different with my furbaby? So do you guys think the larger place would be worth it? If it were you, which option would you choose? Obviously, my friends say no, but none of them are pet owners, so they don't get my reasoning. Oh, and the reason I left my ex is because he was being abusive to my baby. He would hit him so hard when he'd have an accident, and if he was home alone with him all day he wouldn't even feed him, claiming it was his punishment for having an accident. I mentioned in a post around that time that he also constantly threatened to get rid of him if he didn't potty train soon, and a member here suggested I leave that jerk. And that's exactly what I did. NO ONE will EVER hurt my sweet little guy again.

06-03-2009, 01:53 AM	#2
mscat YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Hanford, CA Posts: 4,895	If I were t make the decision ,and it was only $100 more each month, i would go for it ANd you will have the den , go for it ! It does not matter what your friends think. You do what you feel is right for you and your Yorkie. It makes me angry and sad that your baby was abused like that ! So glad you got rid of him. I hope your yorkie has not suffered any long term emotional damage/behavior problems from being mistreated. Best of luck to you , with the decision you make . __________________ "No matter how little money & how few possessions, you own, having a dog makes you rich."

06-03-2009, 02:52 AM	#4
manolos mom Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Texas Posts: 7,982	Sounds reasonable, I would move to a larger apt. Good for you, Im glad you ditched the guy, if he was hitting your dog because of his lack of wanting to train then he would have hit your children. Once an abuser always an abuser.. __________________ Ethical Breeders follow and support http://www.ytca.org/

06-03-2009, 03:00 AM	#5
karenrae Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: washington c.h. ohio Posts: 12	Yorkies love to be little "Nosemarys" the more room the better.. Congrats on ditching the abuser, Any man who doesn't love your dog/dogs surely can't love anything... __________________ GIZMO, MICKEY, MINNIE, STORMY, THUNDER,DONALD, DAISY, BEAR & BUDDY

06-03-2009, 04:45 AM	#8
Pa Yorkie Mom YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Pennsylvania, USA Posts: 384	Bigger is better Both you and your fur baby would probably enjoy the extra room. It would give him more freedom and you more peace of mind at not having to keep him in the x pen. If it were me I would go for more room. Just be sure you can afford the extra $ 100.00 dollars a month. It would be a shame to have to uproot your baby again if your finances change a bit.

06-03-2009, 02:13 AM	#3
Lolapup No Longer a Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Littleton, NH Posts: 463	I would definitely go with the larger place for BOTH of you!

06-03-2009, 03:19 AM	#6
luvfla YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Satellite Beach, FL Posts: 3,691	You can tell a LOT about a person's character by how the treat animals.

06-03-2009, 07:45 AM	#9
tokes Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Lorton, VA, USA Posts: 74	Mhmm, definitely go for the larger one. $100 extra a month isn't much to pay for the extra space. And your baby will definitely benefit from it. It's a win-win in my opinion.

06-03-2009, 08:19 AM	#10
tatertot15 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Fairfield, Ohio Posts: 832	When me and my DH were looking for a place we ended up getting the Townhouse we are currently in, it has 2 bedrooms, one for us and one for him lol. the second bedroom is his!! Of course it is used for guests also, we have a bed in there but it is put up against the wall with the window so he can get up on the bed and look out the window, we have food and water in there along with his toys and his bed. We get made fun of all the time when we tell people he has his own room but I don't care what they think, my Bandit is my baby, I look at his as he is my child. He gives me so much love and puts joy in my heart, I would never change what I have done. Him having his own room has been great, he has the freedom to run and jump and play and of course watch out the window for his mommy and daddy to pull up (it's in the front of the townhouse) so it's been the best thing I could do. I would for sure go for the bigger place, you will not regret it and it will be worth the money!! __________________ Ashley & Bandit

06-03-2009, 08:32 AM	#12
CouversMom and Khloe Mae's too! Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Eastern Washington Posts: 14,732	I say go with the bigger apartment. We live in a one bedroom, and it is just not enough room for us. We are looking into moving so that Couver won't feel so cramped at home __________________ Michelle- mommy to Couver and Khloe Mae! http://yorkiehavenrescue.com/

06-03-2009, 08:45 AM	#13
BonBon Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: With my yorkies Posts: 10,350	If you can afford it, take the bigger apartment. He will love having his own space, and I can just see him sitting on his little bench watching out the window. You sound like a great mommy! __________________ He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion. -- Author Unknown

06-03-2009, 09:15 AM	#14
hartygirl megan - g Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: South Texas Posts: 2,324	I would go with the larger of the two. You never know when someone is going to ask you if you want a really cool piece of furniture or something large that you just can't live without and would have to pay to store anyways. Seems like that always happens to me, I'm on furniture overload. Both of you will enjoy the extra space to grow! And it is another room that you have to spend quality time in with your baby, that way you dont feel like you live in your living room on the couch, been there, it gets old fast! __________________

06-03-2009, 09:23 AM	#15
YorkieLove77 YT Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Shelby Twp, MI Posts: 278	Well everyone, you have helped me tremendously with my decision. I'm going to go with the larger apt with the den. Thanks to you guys now I know I'm not making a silly decision. As much as I love the new apartment, and can't wait to move, I'm more excited for JoJo to have all that extra space and his own room! Here's a pic of the floor plan with the den...I decided on the second floor with the cathedral ceilings. Attached Thumbnails