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artie merlino · 12-30-2008, 04:34 PM

I thought I would share a disappointing/shocking incident that happened to me Christmas Night. About 2 weeks before Christmas, I went over to my "Friends" house to visit w/my 3 Yorkies - She has 2 females that are Sisters that are 4 yrs. old, that are named Madison & Shelby. They have never been outside of her House unless they go to the Vet. and they have never been around any other Dogs especially Yorkies! They are NOT "Walked" and pooh and pee inside the House on and off pee pads, they are NOT "Trained" in any way. I have known them for 3 yrs. I have mine completely "Trained" on & off Leash, hers have never been on a Leash for any reason. I tried to talk her into walking them she only went as far as purchasing a Harness & Leash for both of them. She has not used them yet!
My 3 are a Family, Artie the Father, Abigail the Mother and Pom Pom their Daughter and they are 5,4 and 2 yrs. old. When we came up to their Front Door, her Husband let my Dogs in by "Accident", we visited for about an hour
both of her Dogs were "Humping" my male w/he accepted but my 2 females were growling/warning them to "Stop" it got annoying after awhile b/c my Girlfriend would NOT Correct them, she thought it was cute? Afterwards they all settled down and went to sleep so I thought nothing of it. We had made plans to Dress them up and take pictures for Xmas......so Xmas Night here we are again, I get there and she tells me "Your Dogs are'nt Allowed in my House anymore b/c Madison has had 2 Seizures since you guys came over",
"It's too much excitement for her"! I thought she was Joking so I started Laughing b/c I could'nt believe what she was saying? I'm not going to even bother wasting the time & energy to argue a point, I just don't think she is worth it. I thought it was so cool that she had Yorkies, I did'nt know she was "Crazy"? Just had to vent yeah "Happy Holidays".

Brookef18 · 12-30-2008, 06:39 PM

Sorry you and your friend are having some trouble.

LilMissy · 12-30-2008, 06:47 PM

Lame, it's her loss really. Sounds like your crew could have brought some excitement to her dogs lives since they don't get to socialize much.

CARMEL · 12-30-2008, 07:03 PM

Hmmmmmmmmm,,,, I am saddened by your story.

I am not sad for your friend but I am very sad for those tiny 'Yorkies.'

No Yorkshire Terrier or in fact any dog breed deserves a Mom with her type of Dog Keeping skills!

Carmel 'n' Rosie

Keely_momma · 12-30-2008, 07:07 PM

I feel bad for the yorkies too, Yorkies are sooo energetic. My girl LOVES the oudoors! I cant even imagine how she could never wlak them or anything! ?

IMO- Its just laziness. I mean come on. They dont even go outside to potty?

carsou · 12-30-2008, 07:48 PM

Def her loss!! but I feel terrible for those poor yorkies I couldnt imagine not taking Juicy outside.

emilyann · 12-30-2008, 09:09 PM

Sorry that your friend was rude to you.

However, I rarely take Lilly out and she's fine. She gets plenty of exercise daily running around my townhome. Guess I'm just lazy with my poor Yorkie

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cheryl19 · 12-31-2008, 03:54 AM

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Originally Posted by CARMEL

Hmmmmmmmmm,,,, I am saddened by your story.

I am not sad for your friend but I am very sad for those tiny 'Yorkies.'

No Yorkshire Terrier or in fact any dog breed deserves a Mom with her type of Dog Keeping skills!

Carmel 'n' Rosie

Deegan's mom · 12-31-2008, 01:03 PM

If you ask me she sounds pretty lazy... They've never been outside?!?! Never walked?!?! What kind of life do they have, poor things? She seems to be a little off her rocker! I'm sorry the one had seizures, but maybe it's attributed to something else and she shouldn't just blame the excitment on you & your dogs.

Fancy_Pants · 12-31-2008, 01:19 PM

Yeah, she sounds off her rocker! How long have the two of you been "friends"? She doesn't sound like someone I would want to visit again or I might slap her upside her wig piece! Don't let it get you down though, her loss. Poor dogs though...

annamalyssa · 12-31-2008, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by emilyann

Sorry that your friend was rude to you.

However, I rarely take Lilly out and she's fine. She gets plenty of exercise daily running around my townhome. Guess I'm just lazy with my poor Yorkie

.

lol me too

....I'm scared to walk Gucci he just got his last shot and is so tiny, there are lots of stray dogs around our city and people who keep big dogs off the leash sooooooo.... I'll take lazy over an attacked Yorkie Anyday!

He'll get plenty of time out and about in my arms or in a carrier. He will be getting loads of exercise indoors.

mscat · 12-31-2008, 01:25 PM

that "friend" of yours is odd. I don't see the connection of siezures and your dogs one bit. I think it was a lame excuse.
Oh well, I would not goover there anymore ever again, she really is off her rocker.

Mitzis Mom · 12-31-2008, 01:45 PM

"The more people I know, the more I love my dogs!"

Mom of 3 · 12-31-2008, 02:01 PM

I was thinking the same thing. What's the connection with your dogs visiting, and her dog having a seizure? No connection that I can see. Sorry her dog has had seizures. It's hard to watch your babies go through that. I had a dachshund that had seizures. But it had nothing to do with another dog, etc. Sorry your friend is acting like that.

LuvMySissy · 12-31-2008, 02:26 PM

That totally stinks!!!!!!!!

Sorry we weren't able to meet up while I was in town. I'll call you with more notice next time!!!

12-30-2008, 04:34 PM	#1
artie merlino YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Myrtle Beach,SC Posts: 697	Heartbroken by a So-Called "Friend"? I thought I would share a disappointing/shocking incident that happened to me Christmas Night. About 2 weeks before Christmas, I went over to my "Friends" house to visit w/my 3 Yorkies - She has 2 females that are Sisters that are 4 yrs. old, that are named Madison & Shelby. They have never been outside of her House unless they go to the Vet. and they have never been around any other Dogs especially Yorkies! They are NOT "Walked" and pooh and pee inside the House on and off pee pads, they are NOT "Trained" in any way. I have known them for 3 yrs. I have mine completely "Trained" on & off Leash, hers have never been on a Leash for any reason. I tried to talk her into walking them she only went as far as purchasing a Harness & Leash for both of them. She has not used them yet! My 3 are a Family, Artie the Father, Abigail the Mother and Pom Pom their Daughter and they are 5,4 and 2 yrs. old. When we came up to their Front Door, her Husband let my Dogs in by "Accident", we visited for about an hour both of her Dogs were "Humping" my male w/he accepted but my 2 females were growling/warning them to "Stop" it got annoying after awhile b/c my Girlfriend would NOT Correct them, she thought it was cute? Afterwards they all settled down and went to sleep so I thought nothing of it. We had made plans to Dress them up and take pictures for Xmas......so Xmas Night here we are again, I get there and she tells me "Your Dogs are'nt Allowed in my House anymore b/c Madison has had 2 Seizures since you guys came over", "It's too much excitement for her"! I thought she was Joking so I started Laughing b/c I could'nt believe what she was saying? I'm not going to even bother wasting the time & energy to argue a point, I just don't think she is worth it. I thought it was so cool that she had Yorkies, I did'nt know she was "Crazy"? Just had to vent yeah "Happy Holidays". __________________ Aloha, Artie, Abigail & Pom Pom

12-30-2008, 06:39 PM	#2
Brookef18 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Cape Cod Ma Posts: 1,855	Sorry you and your friend are having some trouble. __________________ Brooke (Chewy's and Sadie's Mom) visit us on dogster dogster.com/dogs/700047

12-30-2008, 06:47 PM	#3
LilMissy Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: BC, Canada Posts: 3,421	Lame, it's her loss really. Sounds like your crew could have brought some excitement to her dogs lives since they don't get to socialize much. __________________ Shaunna with Missy (my princess) & Dora (my tomboy)

12-30-2008, 07:03 PM	#4
CARMEL Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: ADELAIDE SOUTH AUSTRALIA Posts: 65	Omg! Hmmmmmmmmm,,,, I am saddened by your story. I am not sad for your friend but I am very sad for those tiny 'Yorkies.' No Yorkshire Terrier or in fact any dog breed deserves a Mom with her type of Dog Keeping skills! Carmel 'n' Rosie __________________ I Sure Miss My Tiny Dog 'ROSIE' She Was The Heartbeat at my feet

12-30-2008, 07:48 PM	#6
carsou Owned By Juicy ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Winter Garden, FL Posts: 1,843	Def her loss!! but I feel terrible for those poor yorkies I couldnt imagine not taking Juicy outside. __________________ Carlene; Mommy to a beautiful Little Furry Princess, Juicy.

12-30-2008, 07:07 PM	#5
Keely_momma No Longer a Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Newfoundland Canada Posts: 392	I feel bad for the yorkies too, Yorkies are sooo energetic. My girl LOVES the oudoors! I cant even imagine how she could never wlak them or anything! ? IMO- Its just laziness. I mean come on. They dont even go outside to potty?

12-30-2008, 09:09 PM	#7
emilyann Lovin' My LilBug! Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Kentucky Posts: 2,513	Sorry that your friend was rude to you. However, I rarely take Lilly out and she's fine. She gets plenty of exercise daily running around my townhome. Guess I'm just lazy with my poor Yorkie . __________________ love my lillybug! rags and ribbons!

12-31-2008, 01:03 PM	#9
Deegan's mom YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Windsor, ON Posts: 1,271	If you ask me she sounds pretty lazy... They've never been outside?!?! Never walked?!?! What kind of life do they have, poor things? She seems to be a little off her rocker! I'm sorry the one had seizures, but maybe it's attributed to something else and she shouldn't just blame the excitment on you & your dogs. __________________ Jayde, Deegan & Trooper ~Be the change you wish to see in the world - Adopt a rescue pet~

12-31-2008, 01:19 PM	#10
Fancy_Pants YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 972	Yeah, she sounds off her rocker! How long have the two of you been "friends"? She doesn't sound like someone I would want to visit again or I might slap her upside her wig piece! Don't let it get you down though, her loss. Poor dogs though...

12-31-2008, 01:25 PM	#12
mscat YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Hanford, CA Posts: 4,895	that "friend" of yours is odd. I don't see the connection of siezures and your dogs one bit. I think it was a lame excuse. Oh well, I would not goover there anymore ever again, she really is off her rocker. __________________ "No matter how little money & how few possessions, you own, having a dog makes you rich."

12-31-2008, 01:45 PM	#13
Mitzis Mom No Longer a Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Maryland Posts: 2,837	"The more people I know, the more I love my dogs!"

12-31-2008, 02:01 PM	#14
Mom of 3 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Florida Posts: 2,181	I was thinking the same thing. What's the connection with your dogs visiting, and her dog having a seizure? No connection that I can see. Sorry her dog has had seizures. It's hard to watch your babies go through that. I had a dachshund that had seizures. But it had nothing to do with another dog, etc. Sorry your friend is acting like that.

12-31-2008, 02:26 PM	#15
LuvMySissy Luv my Angel, too! Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: USA Posts: 9,333	That totally stinks!!!!!!!! Sorry we weren't able to meet up while I was in town. I'll call you with more notice next time!!! __________________ Sissy & Angel