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BellaAmore · 12-25-2008, 05:50 AM

I am so upset with my Mom. She said point blank yesterday, and tell your daughter not to bring her dog here for Christmas (she doesn't like animals). Poor little Bella who is peepad and outside trained. She is a very calm good little girl, cannot go to my Moms with us for Christmas. My daughter bought her a Christmas dress and bow. Now whe will have to spend the day home alone. Some people are just mean and have no heart.

carmen in nj · 12-25-2008, 06:12 AM

Oh I am so sorry.. some people just don't know what they are missing without the love of a pet.. I am so sorry..
hugs,
cArmen in nj

jrsygal37 · 12-25-2008, 06:21 AM

I'm sorry. I know this may sound mean but you know what sometimes you are far better off alone then with family. This is the first year we are spending Christmas alone. It's just myself, hubby and our two sons and our Yorkies and Boo our parot. Every year I have my parents here (Been doing this for 20 years) while my brother and his family enjoy their quiet Christmas with no fuss or mess. This year for a lot of reasons I just said to hell with it and told him that I'm not doing Christmas. I have to say I'm enjoying the quiet time in my fatty pajamas with my kids and dogs and parrot You know what they say - you can pick your friends but not your family. Elaine

bildio · 12-25-2008, 06:23 AM

Sorry to hear.

Probably too late, but could you tell your mom your are not coming without Bella, & invite her to your place instead? It's not like Bella is a Great Dane, not that there's anything wrong with Great Danes.

heatherm0890 · 12-25-2008, 06:40 AM

i kno what you mean,my dad and stepmom arent very thrilled with Bailee coming to stay with them,oh well it was either me AND Bailee or neither

Ashley V · 12-25-2008, 06:43 AM

Boy I'm glad I have a family that loves animals! All my family loves to have my boys over, but I need some belly bands lol

carmen in nj · 12-25-2008, 07:01 AM

oh I always put belly bands on Harry boy, and little diaper skirts on the girls when we visit, you want a cause a good impression and want to be invited back...

I do take some time and bring them out for a little walk and puppy business tho..
hugs,
carmen in nj

phfgkl · 12-25-2008, 07:40 AM

I would never be able to take any of my dogs to my in-laws as they're not dog people. Lucky for me, they moved back up north a year ago. Now my Mom always says my dogs are welcome at her house, but, very seldom do I drive 800 miles to see mom. I know where you're coming from, don't understand how people couldn't not like dogs, but, a lot of people are just like that

tumismom · 12-25-2008, 07:47 AM

I am sorry! That must be hard for you and your daughter. I am greatful that both my in laws and my parents see my girls as their actual grandchildren. They love my girls.

adorame · 12-25-2008, 08:05 AM

How upsetting for you and your family! Some people just ar not pet people

Our entire family loves animals and I never have problems with my pups not being welcomed into my parents or the inlaws homes. They get upset when I don't bring them

Erin · 12-25-2008, 08:20 AM

I'm sorry!! I left my guys home for one family party because there were just too many people there, but it was nearby so we weren't gone all day. Last night we took them to my parents' house (only 8 people there) and my mom and dad and brother are watching them for us while we go to the in-laws all day today. My in-laws "invited" them to sit in a crate the whole time in a bedroom - um, no fun for us OR the dogs so they are going to Camp Grandma for the day and they will have so much fun

If it means she has to stay home alone, I would call your mom and tell her you can only stay for 2 hours because the puppy can't be left alone longer than that. Tell her you have to find out exactly what time she is serving food because you can't wait around all day... etc. She might change her mind

Bring a sling if you have one so she can be carried around and not be underfoot the whole time. We brought our crate yesterday and put the dogs in there while we ate. Sammy is quite the pest begging for food and I didn't want to be rude and I didn't want them to eat something they shouldn't. It worked out great. Maybe that would help mom be OK with it?

mstrooperwife · 12-25-2008, 08:32 AM

trust me I know what you mean when it comes to family. Yesterday everyone came to our house and I had to shut Tyke up in the bedroom when everyone was getting their food. then I let him out a little while and had to put him back which i hated, but the little kids were to active and they weren't watching him. So later I got him out and held him the last hour they were here. There were to many people here for him to be running around and I didn't like putting him in there.

So sometimes it stinks if they come to your house too. ( well i mean alot of people)
At thanksgiving my side of the family came and we let him out because there isn't any little kids running around, so he was ok then.
I would feel bad to leaving him while we go celebrate Christmas. But today we stay home and have a nice quite day.
sorry for your situation, but i really know how you feel because we have grouchy family that isn't crazy about pets.

HOpe you have a nice Christmas anyways!

gypsyqueen · 12-25-2008, 08:50 AM

Youre mom can help how she feels I feel bad for her she does not know the love of a pet

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Originally Posted by BellaAmore

I am so upset with my Mom. She said point blank yesterday, and tell your daughter not to bring her dog here for Christmas (she doesn't like animals). Poor little Bella who is peepad and outside trained. She is a very calm good little girl, cannot go to my Moms with us for Christmas. My daughter bought her a Christmas dress and bow. Now whe will have to spend the day home alone. Some people are just mean and have no heart.

kinnykins · 12-25-2008, 12:01 PM

im not alone !!! I have stayed in tonight with kinnys and my partner has gone to staff xmas dinner, she was not welcome even though she visits most weeks (its a bar come restaraunt with outside seating,) and we did ask if she could come along age ago, all the staff loveher and she is very well behaved, so no dog no me !!!

BellaAmore · 12-25-2008, 06:56 PM

'Well next year we will be staying home for Christmas. It will be a nice quiet peaceful day. Bella looked so sad when we left. When we got home she just jumped in our arms and stayed there. And Carmen from NJ we were actually in Hopatcong Heights today celebrating Christmas at my Moms.

12-25-2008, 05:50 AM	#1
BellaAmore YT Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Kenvil, NJ, USA Posts: 363	Very angry with my Mom I am so upset with my Mom. She said point blank yesterday, and tell your daughter not to bring her dog here for Christmas (she doesn't like animals). Poor little Bella who is peepad and outside trained. She is a very calm good little girl, cannot go to my Moms with us for Christmas. My daughter bought her a Christmas dress and bow. Now whe will have to spend the day home alone. Some people are just mean and have no heart.

12-25-2008, 06:12 AM	#2
carmen in nj Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Hopatcong, NJ, USA Posts: 4,615 Blog Entries: 74	Oh I am so sorry.. some people just don't know what they are missing without the love of a pet.. I am so sorry.. hugs, cArmen in nj __________________ My Etsy shop is OPEN... Carmen in nj

12-25-2008, 06:23 AM	#4
bildio Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Havre de Grace, MD Posts: 1,536	Sorry to hear. Probably too late, but could you tell your mom your are not coming without Bella, & invite her to your place instead? It's not like Bella is a Great Dane, not that there's anything wrong with Great Danes. __________________ *Niko (3 yrs) Gus (5 yrs)* *Squirt (17 yrs - RIP)* Last edited by bildio; 12-25-2008 at 06:26 AM.

12-25-2008, 06:40 AM	#5
heatherm0890 YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Greenville,North Carolina, US Posts: 875	i kno what you mean,my dad and stepmom arent very thrilled with Bailee coming to stay with them,oh well it was either me AND Bailee or neither __________________ **Bailee's Mommy **

12-25-2008, 06:43 AM	#6
Ashley V ♥ Chip ♥ Smokey ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Leesburg Posts: 3,835	Boy I'm glad I have a family that loves animals! All my family loves to have my boys over, but I need some belly bands lol __________________ ~~ Chip ~~ Smokey ~*~ My heart is wrapped around their little paws Karley Marissa born 1/20/12 weighing 8 lbs 11 oz and 21.5 inches long

12-25-2008, 06:21 AM	#3
jrsygal37 Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Jersey Shore Posts: 3,370	I'm sorry. I know this may sound mean but you know what sometimes you are far better off alone then with family. This is the first year we are spending Christmas alone. It's just myself, hubby and our two sons and our Yorkies and Boo our parot. Every year I have my parents here (Been doing this for 20 years) while my brother and his family enjoy their quiet Christmas with no fuss or mess. This year for a lot of reasons I just said to hell with it and told him that I'm not doing Christmas. I have to say I'm enjoying the quiet time in my fatty pajamas with my kids and dogs and parrot You know what they say - you can pick your friends but not your family. Elaine

12-25-2008, 07:01 AM	#7
carmen in nj Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Hopatcong, NJ, USA Posts: 4,615 Blog Entries: 74	oh I always put belly bands on Harry boy, and little diaper skirts on the girls when we visit, you want a cause a good impression and want to be invited back... I do take some time and bring them out for a little walk and puppy business tho.. hugs, carmen in nj __________________ My Etsy shop is OPEN... Carmen in nj

12-25-2008, 07:40 AM	#8
phfgkl BANNED! Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,376	I would never be able to take any of my dogs to my in-laws as they're not dog people. Lucky for me, they moved back up north a year ago. Now my Mom always says my dogs are welcome at her house, but, very seldom do I drive 800 miles to see mom. I know where you're coming from, don't understand how people couldn't not like dogs, but, a lot of people are just like that

12-25-2008, 07:47 AM	#9
tumismom Owned by Tumi & Gracie Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: NYC Posts: 2,321	I am sorry! That must be hard for you and your daughter. I am greatful that both my in laws and my parents see my girls as their actual grandchildren. They love my girls. __________________ PROUD MOMMY OF MS.TUMI,MS.TSUBI AND MS.GRACIE! I LOVE MY BABY GIRLS!! PROUD MEMBER OF THE CRAZY CLUB!

12-25-2008, 08:05 AM	#10
adorame YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Ohio Posts: 2,312 Blog Entries: 1	How upsetting for you and your family! Some people just ar not pet people Our entire family loves animals and I never have problems with my pups not being welcomed into my parents or the inlaws homes. They get upset when I don't bring them __________________ Brandy and her love bugs Jeter Axl Yumi Yasha

12-25-2008, 08:20 AM	#11
Erin Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Chicago Suburbs Posts: 3,306	I'm sorry!! I left my guys home for one family party because there were just too many people there, but it was nearby so we weren't gone all day. Last night we took them to my parents' house (only 8 people there) and my mom and dad and brother are watching them for us while we go to the in-laws all day today. My in-laws "invited" them to sit in a crate the whole time in a bedroom - um, no fun for us OR the dogs so they are going to Camp Grandma for the day and they will have so much fun If it means she has to stay home alone, I would call your mom and tell her you can only stay for 2 hours because the puppy can't be left alone longer than that. Tell her you have to find out exactly what time she is serving food because you can't wait around all day... etc. She might change her mind Bring a sling if you have one so she can be carried around and not be underfoot the whole time. We brought our crate yesterday and put the dogs in there while we ate. Sammy is quite the pest begging for food and I didn't want to be rude and I didn't want them to eat something they shouldn't. It worked out great. Maybe that would help mom be OK with it? __________________ Erin, Sammy & Loki Sewing patterns and tutorials @ www.dogundermydesk.com

12-25-2008, 08:32 AM	#12
mstrooperwife Donating YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: South Mississippi Posts: 466 Blog Entries: 1	trust me I know what you mean when it comes to family. Yesterday everyone came to our house and I had to shut Tyke up in the bedroom when everyone was getting their food. then I let him out a little while and had to put him back which i hated, but the little kids were to active and they weren't watching him. So later I got him out and held him the last hour they were here. There were to many people here for him to be running around and I didn't like putting him in there. So sometimes it stinks if they come to your house too. ( well i mean alot of people) At thanksgiving my side of the family came and we let him out because there isn't any little kids running around, so he was ok then. I would feel bad to leaving him while we go celebrate Christmas. But today we stay home and have a nice quite day. sorry for your situation, but i really know how you feel because we have grouchy family that isn't crazy about pets. HOpe you have a nice Christmas anyways! __________________ I Lve My Sweet Tyke I can do all things through Christ who stengthens me. Phil.4:13

12-25-2008, 12:01 PM	#14
kinnykins Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: fuertventura canary islands Posts: 149	im not alone !!! I have stayed in tonight with kinnys and my partner has gone to staff xmas dinner, she was not welcome even though she visits most weeks (its a bar come restaraunt with outside seating,) and we did ask if she could come along age ago, all the staff loveher and she is very well behaved, so no dog no me !!!

12-25-2008, 06:56 PM	#15
BellaAmore YT Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Kenvil, NJ, USA Posts: 363	Next year will be home for Christmas 'Well next year we will be staying home for Christmas. It will be a nice quiet peaceful day. Bella looked so sad when we left. When we got home she just jumped in our arms and stayed there. And Carmen from NJ we were actually in Hopatcong Heights today celebrating Christmas at my Moms.