YorkieTalk.com Forums - Yorkshire Terrier Community


Welcome to the YorkieTalk.com Forums Community - the community for Yorkshire Terriers.

You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. You will be able to chat with over 35,000 YorkieTalk members, read over 2,000,000 posted discussions, and view more than 15,000 Yorkie photos in the YorkieTalk Photo Gallery after you register. We would love to have you as a member!

Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today!

If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please click here to contact us.

Go Back   YorkieTalk.com Forums - Yorkshire Terrier Community > YorkieTalk > Regional Forums > Europe
Register Blogs FAQ Calendar JavaChat Mark Forums Read

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 02-14-2010, 02:53 PM   #1
Senior Yorkie Talker
 
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Northern ireland
Posts: 84
Blog Entries: 3
Default I feel really Sad today....

I feel sad today its been near 4 weeks now and i cantm stop thinking about my Cassie.
Mum dad and sister has got on with life but I just cant.
I used to play my ps3 watch telly or go out to different places. but I just cant do any of theses things Im loss without her and i thou I would never be like this, I just stay in bed all day crying nothing can help my mind stop thinking about her. Im not sleeping much at night just sit thinking about her. I hate not having her with me how Im i going to cope I just want my princess back in my arms. Part of me is loss and that part i dont think i will ever get back. I feel that i let my Cassie down. I have all this angry in me that the vet did not do everthing for my cassie which hurts me so bad. Its hurting all theses feeling going through my mind.
I just feel so loss without her.
CarolineH120 is offline   Reply With Quote
Welcome Guest!
Not Registered?

Join today and remove this ad!

Old 02-14-2010, 03:02 PM   #2
Pixie and Daisy
Donating Member
 
spiritwings1202's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: CT USA
Posts: 2,680
Cry

I am so sorry for your loss. I know it is hard to lose a pet. It just takes time to move forward, the pain never really goes away it just gets a lil easier with time. Maybe you could do something to help you with your loss. When I lost my golden retriever Goldie of 12 years I got together all the funny pictures that I could find of her and made a big collage and I framed it and hung it on my wall. I have it hanging over my computer and she passed 5 years ago and sometimes it seem like yesterday. I think knowing that they were loved and we gave them a good life has to give you peace. I believe that we will see our beloved pets in heaven and I think when I am feeling sad and missing her she must be thinking about me. I wish I could give you a big hug, it will get easier over time but allow yourself to go on bc she would not want you sad. Big hugs~Joyce
__________________
Proud Mom of Daisy and Pixie
spiritwings1202 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2010, 03:12 PM   #3
Senior Yorkie Talker
 
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Northern ireland
Posts: 84
Blog Entries: 3
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by spiritwings1202 View Post
I am so sorry for your loss. I know it is hard to lose a pet. It just takes time to move forward, the pain never really goes away it just gets a lil easier with time. Maybe you could do something to help you with your loss. When I lost my golden retriever Goldie of 12 years I got together all the funny pictures that I could find of her and made a big collage and I framed it and hung it on my wall. I have it hanging over my computer and she passed 5 years ago and sometimes it seem like yesterday. I think knowing that they were loved and we gave them a good life has to give you peace. I believe that we will see our beloved pets in heaven and I think when I am feeling sad and missing her she must be thinking about me. I wish I could give you a big hug, it will get easier over time but allow yourself to go on bc she would not want you sad. Big hugs~Joyce
Its coz off all the stuff that happened over the 3 months that i think is hurting me so much.I trusted both vets and now my dog is dead. I had to watch my dog die in my arms. when i close my eyes all i can see is her. Im not sleeping til sum morning til 4am or 5am. I cant even sleep with the light off now. I have complaint to the rcvs in uk but im waiting back to see whats going to happen with them vets for neglect. I need closure on it. Im not going to get the closure til i get justice for my Cassie.
Thank you for your comment, your right it doesnt get any easy my girl was just 9 years old i thou i would of had her longer.
CarolineH120 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2010, 03:22 PM   #4
Donating YT 1000 Club Member
 
ChantalB's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Toronto
Posts: 2,042
Default

So sorry for your lost.

Attached Images
File Type: jpg rainbowbridge.jpg (114.9 KB, 9 views)
ChantalB is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2010, 03:24 PM   #5
Pixie and Daisy
Donating Member
 
spiritwings1202's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: CT USA
Posts: 2,680
Default

can I ask what happend? It is hard when you trust your vet and he lets you down.
My Goldie was diagnosed with Kidney failure and they told me that if I kept her in the hospital that they could prolong her life for up to 2 years.
Well Goldie spent the last week in the hospital she went in on a monday, we visited her every day and it broke my heart bc she wanted to come home. Everytime they walked her back to her crate at the hospital she would look back at me like Mom I want to go home. Well they told me by Friday she could go home once her levels went up. On Friday I got a call that she had taken a turn for the worst and she wasn't going to make it. I bawled like I have never cried in my life. I rushed to the hospital to say goodbye and she died in my arms as I sat on the floor stroking her cheek and telling her that I loved her and she was the best dog in the world.
I still cry sometimes thinking about her, but I knew I had to let go at one point and move on. I am not saying that you have to forget about her, but you have to let her go and rest in peace bc she would not want you to be this unhappy. Think of all the times you had together and know that one day again you will see eachother.
Since Goldie I have gotten 2 other dogs. I have Daisy a jack-a-poo and Pixie my yorkie. I love them both and they are my heart. I still miss golide at times, but I know she is in a better place with no suffering and I will see her again one day.
__________________
Proud Mom of Daisy and Pixie
spiritwings1202 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2010, 03:25 PM   #6
Pixie and Daisy
Donating Member
 
spiritwings1202's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: CT USA
Posts: 2,680
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by ChantalB View Post
So sorry for your lost.

I love that poem! They gave me a copy with goldie's ashes and it gave me great comfort.
__________________
Proud Mom of Daisy and Pixie
spiritwings1202 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2010, 03:28 PM   #7
Senior Yorkie Talker
 
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Northern ireland
Posts: 84
Blog Entries: 3
Default

Thank you that made me cry. My dog died in the house people say you dog can stay with you when they died. I sort off hope coz it would be nice if she was here coz i feel so alone the past 4 weeks.
CarolineH120 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2010, 03:32 PM   #8
Senior Yorkie Talker
 
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Northern ireland
Posts: 84
Blog Entries: 3
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by CarolineH120 View Post
Thank you that made me cry. My dog died in the house people say you dog can stay with you when they died. I sort off hope coz it would be nice if she was here coz i feel so alone the past 4 weeks.
When Cassie died I washed her coz she always loved to be clean, dry her and brushed her. I buried her in the back garden, she is in a pink coffin that i had got just before Christmas I didnt want her to go in a cardboard box if any had happened i want her go in a next coffin with her fav colour pink.
CarolineH120 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2010, 03:33 PM   #9
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker
 
PiePiper's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 759
Default

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how much your heart is hurting right now. I had to say good bye to my 13 year old Chipper 2 years ago. I cried for a month until I decided to get another Yorkie. Piper is so different than Chipper. She is small boned and weighs 5.5 lbs while Chipper was my 10lb teapot. Piper is timid and cautious while Chipper was impulsive and jumped into any situation. I never thought I could love another dog as much as I did my Chipper but Piper has wiggled right into my heart and I love her just as much as I did my little boy. You'll never forget your Cassie but try to remember all the good times and beautiful memories you have of her and eventually you'll smile whenever you think of Cassie.
__________________
Mom to Piper & Chipper
PiePiper is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2010, 03:44 PM   #10
Pixie and Daisy
Donating Member
 
spiritwings1202's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: CT USA
Posts: 2,680
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by PiePiper View Post
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how much your heart is hurting right now. I had to say good bye to my 13 year old Chipper 2 years ago. I cried for a month until I decided to get another Yorkie. Piper is so different than Chipper. She is small boned and weighs 5.5 lbs while Chipper was my 10lb teapot. Piper is timid and cautious while Chipper was impulsive and jumped into any situation. I never thought I could love another dog as much as I did my Chipper but Piper has wiggled right into my heart and I love her just as much as I did my little boy. You'll never forget your Cassie but try to remember all the good times and beautiful memories you have of her and eventually you'll smile whenever you think of Cassie.
Well said Kathy. I agree with you.
__________________
Proud Mom of Daisy and Pixie
spiritwings1202 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2010, 03:52 PM   #11
Senior Yorkie Talker
 
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Northern ireland
Posts: 84
Blog Entries: 3
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by spiritwings1202 View Post
can I ask what happend? It is hard when you trust your vet and he lets you down.
My Goldie was diagnosed with Kidney failure and they told me that if I kept her in the hospital that they could prolong her life for up to 2 years.
Well Goldie spent the last week in the hospital she went in on a monday, we visited her every day and it broke my heart bc she wanted to come home. Everytime they walked her back to her crate at the hospital she would look back at me like Mom I want to go home. Well they told me by Friday she could go home once her levels went up. On Friday I got a call that she had taken a turn for the worst and she wasn't going to make it. I bawled like I have never cried in my life. I rushed to the hospital to say goodbye and she died in my arms as I sat on the floor stroking her cheek and telling her that I loved her and she was the best dog in the world.
I still cry sometimes thinking about her, but I knew I had to let go at one point and move on. I am not saying that you have to forget about her, but you have to let her go and rest in peace bc she would not want you to be this unhappy. Think of all the times you had together and know that one day again you will see eachother.
Since Goldie I have gotten 2 other dogs. I have Daisy a jack-a-poo and Pixie my yorkie. I love them both and they are my heart. I still miss golide at times, but I know she is in a better place with no suffering and I will see her again one day.
Cassie Had vomiting from Nov2009 on and off they done a few blood tests and couldnt find anything the vet thou she had cushing disease but when i look at it now she was on the wrong track. coz Cassie didnt have any signs for Cushings just the vomiting,I just wish I should have known more coz there the vets with the exams so they should of knew what it was. Cassie would have one good day then one bad I spend near 3 months feeding her she was bright the whole 3 months it was just the sickness and she loss alot of weight she got in the last week she couldnt walk but still knew when she needed to go to the loo. The last 2 days I was up 24hrs with her feeding her taking her to the toilet and helping her I lay with her in the living room for the last 2 days. she had a drip in for the 3 days days on the last day i stop the drip coz i knew in my own heart she was going to died. she was in my sister arms for 5 mins and couldnt breath much i ring the vet to get them out but i knew by the time they get here she will be gone. my sister put her in my arms and shes lay on my chest to feel my heart within a minute she had dirty herself it was all black stool. her lungs then stop but her heart was strong it was still going for a minute and then stop that when i knew Cassie had gone. what hurts me most to this day is that the vets didnt do enough and the second vet left her in a bad way in the clinic for 2 days with stool all over her back end this is what hurts me most that i feel like doing this to them to see how they would feel. Thats why i feel Like I let Cassie down.
CarolineH120 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2010, 03:54 PM   #12
Senior Yorkie Talker
 
Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Northern ireland
Posts: 84
Blog Entries: 3
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by PiePiper View Post
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how much your heart is hurting right now. I had to say good bye to my 13 year old Chipper 2 years ago. I cried for a month until I decided to get another Yorkie. Piper is so different than Chipper. She is small boned and weighs 5.5 lbs while Chipper was my 10lb teapot. Piper is timid and cautious while Chipper was impulsive and jumped into any situation. I never thought I could love another dog as much as I did my Chipper but Piper has wiggled right into my heart and I love her just as much as I did my little boy. You'll never forget your Cassie but try to remember all the good times and beautiful memories you have of her and eventually you'll smile whenever you think of Cassie.
I do but it very hard when i feel inside that i let my wee girl down..
CarolineH120 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2010, 06:00 PM   #13
Donating YT 3000 Club Member
 
Sunnie's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: So. California
Posts: 4,057
Default

Caroline, I was just reading about your sweet baby and I want to say how very sorry I am for you. I lost my Sunnie Boy July 31st and it devistated me. Maybe it is time to look at getting another baby to love. It really does make it so much easier. Even though nothing can bring your baby back and a new puppy cannot replace the one you lost, the responsibility of loving and caring for a new baby can make just the difference you need to move forward. Hugs
__________________
Sonya, Owned by Ladybug, Tilly, Sunshine, Beamer, Rainbow, Sonny and Righteous RIP Sunnie (11/12/2003-7/31/2009)
Sunnie is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-14-2010, 06:38 PM   #14
YT 500 Club Member
 
2girls's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: CT
Posts: 680
Default

I'm so sorry for your loss, your story is heart breaking and brings tears to my eyes. The painful memories will get easier in time. I know it may not feel that way now but please trust me. We never forget the warmth of their bodies and the smell of ther little heads, but you need to take comfort in her passing in your arms. As sad as it may be, she felt at peace and loved in your arms and that she had the courage to cross over. What ever was wrong you need to take comfort that you were there when she needed you. Now is when you need to focus on your happy memories of your little baby. We are all here for you when your feeling sad and need to vent. Please start thinking of your happy days with your baby, it may make you cry but at the same time it will bring a smile to your face.
__________________
Wendy, Lola, Lea & Gracie
2girls is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 02-15-2010, 12:32 PM   #15
YT 500 Club Member
 
Meggie's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Yorkshire, England
Posts: 783
Default

Caroline, 4 weeks is no time at all & your loss is still raw. Especially with the terrible way you had to lose her.
It will get better, I promise you, but it will take time & will still hit you like a brick at times no matter how much time has passed.
But there will come a time when the good memories of her will come again, the guilt you're feeling is making the grief extra hard to bear.

Having her buried in the garden near you will help.
I have all my old ones buried in our garden, fourteen in all, each with their own little grave planted with flowers & a headstone.
I often stop & talk to one or other of them when I'm passing their grave on the way to our fields or working in the garden.

Please don't be too hard on yourself. You did all you could, the vet should have been better.
Take care.

xx
Meggie
Meggie is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks



Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off




Google
 

SHOP NOW: Amazon :: eBay :: Buy.com :: Newegg :: PetStore :: Petco :: PetSmart


All times are GMT -8. The time now is 05:52 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.9
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Copyright ©2003 - 2018 YorkieTalk.com
Privacy Policy - Terms of Use

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 126 127 128 129 130 131 132 133 134 135 136 137 138 139 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 148 149 150 151 152 153 154 155 156 157 158 159 160 161 162 163 164 165 166 167 168 169 170 171 172 173 174 175 176 177 178 179 180 181 182 183 184 185 186 187 188 189 190 191 192 193 194 195 196 197 198 199 200 201 202 203 204 205 206 207 208 209 210 211 212 213 214 215 216 217 218 219 220 221 222 223 224 225 226 227 228 229 230 231 232 233 234 235 236 237 238 239 240 241 242 243 244 245 246 247 248 249 250 251 252 253 254 255 256 257 258 259 260 261 262 263 264 265 266 267 268 269 270 271 272 273 274 275 276 277 278 279 280 281 282 283 284 285 286 287 288 289 290 291 292 293 294 295 296 297 298 299 300 301 302 303 304 305 306 307 308 309 310 311 312 313 314 315 316 317 318 319 320 321 322 323 324 325 326 327 328 329 330 331 332 333 334 335 336 337 338 339 340 341 342 343 344 345 346 347 348 349 350 351 352 353 354 355 356 357 358 359 360 361 362 363 364 365 366 367 368 369 370 371 372 373 374 375 376 377 378 379 380 381 382 383 384 385 386 387 388 389 390 391 392 393 394 395 396 397 398 399 400 401 402 403 404 405 406 407 408 409 410 411 412 413 414 415 416 417 418 419 420 421 422 423 424 425 426 427 428 429 430 431 432 433 434 435 436 437 438 439 440 441 442 443 444 445 446 447 448 449 450 451 452 453 454 455 456 457 458 459 460 461 462 463 464 465 466 467 468 469 470 471 472 473 474 475 476 477 478 479 480 481 482 483 484 485 486 487 488 489 490 491 492 493 494 495 496 497 498 499 500 501 502 503 504 505 506 507 508 509 510 511 512 513 514 515 516 517 518 519 520 521 522 523 524 525 526 527 528 529 530 531 532 533 534 535 536 537 538 539 540 541 542 543 544 545 546 547 548 549 550 551 552 553 554 555 556 557 558 559 560 561 562 563 564 565 566 567 568 569 570 571 572 573 574 575 576 577 578 579 580 581 582 583 584 585 586 587 588 589 590 591 592 593 594 595 596 597 598 599 600 601 602 603 604 605 606 607 608 609 610 611 612 613 614 615 616 617 618 619 620 621 622 623 624 625 626 627 628 629 630 631 632 633 634 635 636 637 638 639 640 641 642 643 644 645 646 647 648 649 650 651 652 653 654 655 656 657 658 659 660 661 662 663 664 665 666 667 668 669 670 671 672 673 674 675 676 677 678 679 680 681 682 683 684 685 686 687 688 689 690 691 692 693 694 695 696 697 698 699 700 701 702 703 704 705 706 707 708 709 710 711 712 713 714 715 716 717 718 719 720 721 722 723 724 725 726 727 728 729 730 731 732 733 734 735 736 737 738 739 740 741 742 743 744 745 746 747 748 749 750 751 752 753 754 755 756 757 758 759 760 761 762 763 764 765 766 767 768 769 770 771 772 773 774 775 776 777 778 779 780 781 782 783 784 785 786 787 788 789 790 791 792 793 794 795 796 797 798 799 800 801 802 803 804 805 806 807 808 809 810 811 812 813 814 815 816 817 818 819 820 821 822 823 824 825 826 827 828 829 830 831 832 833 834 835 836 837 838 839 840 841 842 843 844 845 846 847 848 849 850 851 852 853 854 855 856 857 858 859 860 861 862 863 864 865 866 867 868 869 870 871 872 873 874 875 876 877 878 879 880 881 882 883 884 885 886 887 888 889 890 891 892 893 894 895 896 897 898 899 900 901 902 903 904 905 906 907 908 909 910 911 912 913 914 915 916 917 918 919 920 921 922 923 924 925 926 927 928 929 930 931 932 933 934 935 936 937 938 939 940 941 942 943 944 945 946 947 948 949 950 951 952 953 954 955 956 957 958 959 960 961 962 963 964 965 966 967 968 969 970 971 972 973 974 975 976 977 978 979 980 981 982 983 984 985 986 987 988 989 990 991 992 993 994 995 996 997 998 999 1000 1001 1002 1003 1004 1005 1006 1007 1008 1009 1010 1011 1012 1013 1014 1015 1016 1017 1018 1019 1020 1021 1022 1023 1024 1025 1026 1027 1028 1029 1030 1031 1032 1033 1034 1035 1036 1037 1038 1039 1040 1041 1042 1043 1044 1045 1046 1047 1048 1049 1050 1051 1052 1053 1054 1055 1056 1057 1058 1059 1060 1061 1062 1063 1064 1065 1066 1067 1068 1069 1070 1071 1072 1073 1074 1075 1076 1077 1078 1079 1080 1081 1082 1083 1084 1085 1086 1087 1088 1089 1090 1091 1092 1093 1094 1095 1096 1097 1098 1099 1100 1101 1102 1103 1104 1105 1106 1107 1108 1109 1110 1111 1112 1113 1114 1115 1116 1117 1118 1119 1120 1121 1122 1123 1124 1125 1126 1127 1128 1129 1130 1131 1132 1133 1134 1135 1136 1137 1138 1139 1140 1141 1142 1143 1144 1145 1146 1147 1148 1149 1150 1151 1152 1153 1154 1155 1156 1157 1158 1159 1160 1161 1162 1163 1164 1165 1166 1167