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02-14-2010, 02:53 PM | #1 |
Senior Yorkie Talker | I feel really Sad today.... I feel sad today its been near 4 weeks now and i cantm stop thinking about my Cassie. Mum dad and sister has got on with life but I just cant. I used to play my ps3 watch telly or go out to different places. but I just cant do any of theses things Im loss without her and i thou I would never be like this, I just stay in bed all day crying nothing can help my mind stop thinking about her. Im not sleeping much at night just sit thinking about her. I hate not having her with me how Im i going to cope I just want my princess back in my arms. Part of me is loss and that part i dont think i will ever get back. I feel that i let my Cassie down. I have all this angry in me that the vet did not do everthing for my cassie which hurts me so bad. Its hurting all theses feeling going through my mind. I just feel so loss without her. |
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02-14-2010, 03:02 PM | #2 |
Pixie and Daisy Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: CT USA
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| I am so sorry for your loss. I know it is hard to lose a pet. It just takes time to move forward, the pain never really goes away it just gets a lil easier with time. Maybe you could do something to help you with your loss. When I lost my golden retriever Goldie of 12 years I got together all the funny pictures that I could find of her and made a big collage and I framed it and hung it on my wall. I have it hanging over my computer and she passed 5 years ago and sometimes it seem like yesterday. I think knowing that they were loved and we gave them a good life has to give you peace. I believe that we will see our beloved pets in heaven and I think when I am feeling sad and missing her she must be thinking about me. I wish I could give you a big hug, it will get easier over time but allow yourself to go on bc she would not want you sad. Big hugs~Joyce
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02-14-2010, 03:12 PM | #3 | |
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Thank you for your comment, your right it doesnt get any easy my girl was just 9 years old i thou i would of had her longer. | |
02-14-2010, 03:22 PM | #4 |
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| So sorry for your lost. |
02-14-2010, 03:24 PM | #5 |
Pixie and Daisy Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: CT USA
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| can I ask what happend? It is hard when you trust your vet and he lets you down. My Goldie was diagnosed with Kidney failure and they told me that if I kept her in the hospital that they could prolong her life for up to 2 years. Well Goldie spent the last week in the hospital she went in on a monday, we visited her every day and it broke my heart bc she wanted to come home. Everytime they walked her back to her crate at the hospital she would look back at me like Mom I want to go home. Well they told me by Friday she could go home once her levels went up. On Friday I got a call that she had taken a turn for the worst and she wasn't going to make it. I bawled like I have never cried in my life. I rushed to the hospital to say goodbye and she died in my arms as I sat on the floor stroking her cheek and telling her that I loved her and she was the best dog in the world. I still cry sometimes thinking about her, but I knew I had to let go at one point and move on. I am not saying that you have to forget about her, but you have to let her go and rest in peace bc she would not want you to be this unhappy. Think of all the times you had together and know that one day again you will see eachother. Since Goldie I have gotten 2 other dogs. I have Daisy a jack-a-poo and Pixie my yorkie. I love them both and they are my heart. I still miss golide at times, but I know she is in a better place with no suffering and I will see her again one day.
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02-14-2010, 03:25 PM | #6 |
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| I love that poem! They gave me a copy with goldie's ashes and it gave me great comfort.
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02-14-2010, 03:28 PM | #7 |
Senior Yorkie Talker | Thank you that made me cry. My dog died in the house people say you dog can stay with you when they died. I sort off hope coz it would be nice if she was here coz i feel so alone the past 4 weeks. |
02-14-2010, 03:32 PM | #8 |
Senior Yorkie Talker | When Cassie died I washed her coz she always loved to be clean, dry her and brushed her. I buried her in the back garden, she is in a pink coffin that i had got just before Christmas I didnt want her to go in a cardboard box if any had happened i want her go in a next coffin with her fav colour pink. |
02-14-2010, 03:33 PM | #9 |
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| I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how much your heart is hurting right now. I had to say good bye to my 13 year old Chipper 2 years ago. I cried for a month until I decided to get another Yorkie. Piper is so different than Chipper. She is small boned and weighs 5.5 lbs while Chipper was my 10lb teapot. Piper is timid and cautious while Chipper was impulsive and jumped into any situation. I never thought I could love another dog as much as I did my Chipper but Piper has wiggled right into my heart and I love her just as much as I did my little boy. You'll never forget your Cassie but try to remember all the good times and beautiful memories you have of her and eventually you'll smile whenever you think of Cassie.
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02-14-2010, 03:44 PM | #10 | |
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02-14-2010, 03:52 PM | #11 | |
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02-14-2010, 06:00 PM | #13 |
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| Caroline, I was just reading about your sweet baby and I want to say how very sorry I am for you. I lost my Sunnie Boy July 31st and it devistated me. Maybe it is time to look at getting another baby to love. It really does make it so much easier. Even though nothing can bring your baby back and a new puppy cannot replace the one you lost, the responsibility of loving and caring for a new baby can make just the difference you need to move forward. Hugs
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02-14-2010, 06:38 PM | #14 |
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| I'm so sorry for your loss, your story is heart breaking and brings tears to my eyes. The painful memories will get easier in time. I know it may not feel that way now but please trust me. We never forget the warmth of their bodies and the smell of ther little heads, but you need to take comfort in her passing in your arms. As sad as it may be, she felt at peace and loved in your arms and that she had the courage to cross over. What ever was wrong you need to take comfort that you were there when she needed you. Now is when you need to focus on your happy memories of your little baby. We are all here for you when your feeling sad and need to vent. Please start thinking of your happy days with your baby, it may make you cry but at the same time it will bring a smile to your face.
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02-15-2010, 12:32 PM | #15 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Yorkshire, England
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| Caroline, 4 weeks is no time at all & your loss is still raw. Especially with the terrible way you had to lose her. It will get better, I promise you, but it will take time & will still hit you like a brick at times no matter how much time has passed. But there will come a time when the good memories of her will come again, the guilt you're feeling is making the grief extra hard to bear. Having her buried in the garden near you will help. I have all my old ones buried in our garden, fourteen in all, each with their own little grave planted with flowers & a headstone. I often stop & talk to one or other of them when I'm passing their grave on the way to our fields or working in the garden. Please don't be too hard on yourself. You did all you could, the vet should have been better. Take care. xx Meggie |
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