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Priscilla80 · 04-15-2008, 10:47 AM

Any news ??????
Let us know we r worried

give him some hugs and kisses from me and snickers !

Chellbe46 · 04-15-2008, 12:58 PM

He is still really scared of going out and when i put his harness on he just wont move, i`m going him lots of hugs and kiss. It don`t help with me just going throw a bad split from a violent partnership and he got scared with him trying to kick the door in. He now will not leave my side at all xxx

Franceen · 04-15-2008, 02:57 PM

Oh Michelle, I am so sorry to hear about this. We were wondering why we didn't see you on the forum. Be brave, sweetie, and don't weaken and let him back into your life. Please, please don't. You do not deserve to live with a violent partner, nobody does. Take out a restraining order right away to prevent him kicking you door etc and upsetting you and Tino. Don't let yourself be a victim - you are better than that - he is the one with the problem not you.

I have a friend who was in the same position due to her partner's alcoholism. He was so sweet normally, but violent when drunk. She eventually got the courage to throw him out. Now she has a lovely guy in her life who is kind,caring and loving. She is so happy now. She had thought she wouldn't find anyone else, but we all kept telling her she would, and it took a bit of time, but she did. Now she can't believe that she let her ex talk her into giving him 'one more chance' and was swayed by his tearful apologies. You just cannot live that way, life is too short. I am pleased to say that the shock of her actually throwing him out, made him sort himself out and he has been dry for 18mths and is doing an art degree! So it worked out well for both of them and he is very grateful to her now. They are actually friends now. Not every story has such a positive ending but the ending is up to him, not you.

We are here for you if you need support, Michelle. I am sending you lots of virtual hugs and lots of love. Poor little Tino must think the world is a very scary place. Once your life is sorted out, he will start to calm down and slowly get his confidence back. You will just have to continue giving him the cuddles and love as well as lots of patience. Give him a kiss and cuddle from me.

Luv

Franceen xxx

Look after mummy, Tino, and give her lots of kisses.

doggyrock · 05-20-2008, 07:27 AM

He needs lot's of cuddles and love bless him

All our love to Tino

Take care mate x

Chellbe46 · 05-20-2008, 08:22 AM

Tino is getting better now but still will not leave my side, i take him every where with me now. i`m okay tino is looking after me well xx

04-15-2008, 10:47 AM	#16
Priscilla80 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 227	Any news ?????? Let us know we r worried give him some hugs and kisses from me and snickers ! __________________ Visit my Myspace* page StudSnickers* Mommy of Snickers ~ Zazou ~ Zorro "If your dog doesn't like someone you probably shouldn't either "

04-15-2008, 12:58 PM	#17
Chellbe46 YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Hayes, London England UK Posts: 251	He is still really scared of going out and when i put his harness on he just wont move, i`m going him lots of hugs and kiss. It don`t help with me just going throw a bad split from a violent partnership and he got scared with him trying to kick the door in. He now will not leave my side at all xxx __________________ Michelle & Puppy Tino *Dogster.com/dogs/620966 -facebook.com/dogbook/profile/view/4452263*

05-20-2008, 07:27 AM	#19
doggyrock Yorkie Talker Join Date: May 2008 Location: u.k Posts: 12	Bless He needs lot's of cuddles and love bless him All our love to Tino Take care mate x

05-20-2008, 08:22 AM	#20
Chellbe46 YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Hayes, London England UK Posts: 251	Tino is getting better now but still will not leave my side, i take him every where with me now. i`m okay tino is looking after me well xx __________________ Michelle & Puppy Tino *Dogster.com/dogs/620966 -facebook.com/dogbook/profile/view/4452263*

04-15-2008, 02:57 PM	#18
Franceen YT Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 251	Oh Michelle, I am so sorry to hear about this. We were wondering why we didn't see you on the forum. Be brave, sweetie, and don't weaken and let him back into your life. Please, please don't. You do not deserve to live with a violent partner, nobody does. Take out a restraining order right away to prevent him kicking you door etc and upsetting you and Tino. Don't let yourself be a victim - you are better than that - he is the one with the problem not you. I have a friend who was in the same position due to her partner's alcoholism. He was so sweet normally, but violent when drunk. She eventually got the courage to throw him out. Now she has a lovely guy in her life who is kind,caring and loving. She is so happy now. She had thought she wouldn't find anyone else, but we all kept telling her she would, and it took a bit of time, but she did. Now she can't believe that she let her ex talk her into giving him 'one more chance' and was swayed by his tearful apologies. You just cannot live that way, life is too short. I am pleased to say that the shock of her actually throwing him out, made him sort himself out and he has been dry for 18mths and is doing an art degree! So it worked out well for both of them and he is very grateful to her now. They are actually friends now. Not every story has such a positive ending but the ending is up to him, not you. We are here for you if you need support, Michelle. I am sending you lots of virtual hugs and lots of love. Poor little Tino must think the world is a very scary place. Once your life is sorted out, he will start to calm down and slowly get his confidence back. You will just have to continue giving him the cuddles and love as well as lots of patience. Give him a kiss and cuddle from me. Luv Franceen xxx Look after mummy, Tino, and give her lots of kisses.