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EmrldShdwQueen · 05-10-2008, 11:14 AM

Someone who is very interested in getting a puppy keeps saying that they will drive down tomorrow (they live a couple hours away) to get one, but they don't want to place a deposit...they want one NOW! They have a good home for one, and everything checks out great...but the puppies are only 10 weeks old and I REALLY REALLY don't want to let them go until they're 12 weeks or older. The one they want is the biggest girl, Hailey, but I'm still just not comfortable with it...

What should I tell them???

jencar98 · 05-10-2008, 11:19 AM

I would be a little concerned about it too. Why are they so impatient? Seems to me if you really want something badly, it's worth waiting for, especially just 2 weeks? I've known yorkie owners that waited months and even years until just the right one became available.

EmrldShdwQueen · 05-10-2008, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by jencar98

I would be a little concerned about it too. Why are they so impatient? Seems to me if you really want something badly, it's worth waiting for, especially just 2 weeks? I've known yorkie owners that waited months and even years until just the right one became available.

I know, right? They just can't seem to get it into their head that I'm not holding these babies for fun, I just don't feel COMFORTABLE letting them go at this age.

Well, maybe I AM doing it a little for fun...

pepe mint · 05-10-2008, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by jencar98

I would be a little concerned about it too. Why are they so impatient? Seems to me if you really want something badly, it's worth waiting for, especially just 2 weeks? I've known yorkie owners that waited months and even years until just the right one became available.

heck, I waited for Tessa to be conceived, then I waited for her birth, then I waited for her to be 15 1/2 weeks old before I got her LOL so if I can be THAT patient...anyone can LOL

what does your vet say? I've known people to let the yorkie pups go at 10 weeks with vet permission..but I too would be concerned as to why they are not willing to wait. then again, I know how it is to want something right when you find it LOL

I got maggie at 11 weeks and she was fine for the most part...but she did go a few days where she wouldn't eat and I almost lost her on her 2nd day home with me. so...I always think it is better safe than sorry. know what I mean???

maybe try and see if you can get a feel for why they aren't wiling to wait 2 more weeks.

EmrldShdwQueen · 05-10-2008, 11:44 AM

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heck, I waited for Tessa to be conceived, then I waited for her birth, then I waited for her to be 15 1/2 weeks old before I got her LOL so if I can be THAT patient...anyone can LOL

what does your vet say? I've known people to let the yorkie pups go at 10 weeks with vet permission..but I too would be concerned as to why they are not willing to wait. then again, I know how it is to want something right when you find it LOL

I got maggie at 11 weeks and she was fine for the most part...but she did go a few days where she wouldn't eat and I almost lost her on her 2nd day home with me. so...I always think it is better safe than sorry. know what I mean???

maybe try and see if you can get a feel for why they aren't wiling to wait 2 more weeks.

Heck, my vet said I could let them go when they were weaned...

That's not why I'm keeping them until 12 weeks...I want to keep an eye on them, and I want them to be well socialized when they leave. They are willing to wait, but they don't want to...they just keep bugging me...lol

pepe mint · 05-10-2008, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by EmrldShdwQueen

Heck, my vet said I could let them go when they were weaned...

That's not why I'm keeping them until 12 weeks...I want to keep an eye on them, and I want them to be well socialized when they leave. They are willing to wait, but they don't want to...they just keep bugging me...lol

well, if they are willing to wait..make them. I totally do not blame you for wanting to keep them until 12 weeks. and if they really want the pup, they will wait. and if they aren't willing to wait,..then maybe this isn't the best home for your pup. know what I mean? they should be looking out for her best interest...and that means waiting 2 more weeks. 2 weeks will really fly by quick!!!!

fannie · 05-10-2008, 11:47 AM

I would just flat out tell them they'll have to wait until the puppies are 12 weeks old. It's in the best interest of the puppies. If they decide not to buy a puppy because of that, then is it really the best home?

pepe mint · 05-10-2008, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by EmrldShdwQueen

Heck, my vet said I could let them go when they were weaned...

are you serious???? that's craziness

Woogie Man · 05-10-2008, 12:07 PM

maybe you could send them some pictures to hold them off until you're ready to let him go.

EmrldShdwQueen · 05-10-2008, 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by fannie

I would just flat out tell them they'll have to wait until the puppies are 12 weeks old. It's in the best interest of the puppies. If they decide not to buy a puppy because of that, then is it really the best home?

Good point, that's exactly what I told him. He said he understood and that he'll come and see them tomorrow and place a deposit. It's his girlfriend that's anxious to get one, she just lost her pet I believe. It's so frustrating to try and tell someone that if they're not getting it, ya know? lol

sheilajom · 05-10-2008, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by EmrldShdwQueen

Good point, that's exactly what I told him. He said he understood and that he'll come and see them tomorrow and place a deposit. It's his girlfriend that's anxious to get one, she just lost her pet I believe. It's so frustrating to try and tell someone that if they're not getting it, ya know? lol

Maybe you could offer to meet them half way the second trip? That might be the nicest thing to do.

magicgenie · 05-10-2008, 12:26 PM

Sounds like they need a Mother's Day present. Are you sure it's for them?

Little Bit · 05-10-2008, 02:01 PM

If they are not patient enough to wait for two weeks will they be patient enough with training the pup, etc.?

nygee · 05-10-2008, 02:38 PM

Always go with your instinct, and your beliefs, and in the best interest of the pup...If they are not willing to respect your decision, then let them find another pup...
Its their loss...
No one more than you, wants this pup to be healthy and well before going to their permanent home...

I LoVe My FuRbAbIeS,

NyGeE,

GiZmO &

GyPsY!!

NanaDtreasures · 05-10-2008, 02:56 PM

Hahaha,,,,same problem with my Dad Nicki..
But these poeple are not your dad.

Hold firm, Are they getting pick of the litter?
Then to me , its worth the trip to put a deposit down on pick of the litter for sure. If not let them go elsewhere. Dont let them pressure you girl.

05-10-2008, 11:14 AM	#1
EmrldShdwQueen Slave to my Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Clemmons, NC Posts: 3,713	Ughhhh Someone who is very interested in getting a puppy keeps saying that they will drive down tomorrow (they live a couple hours away) to get one, but they don't want to place a deposit...they want one NOW! They have a good home for one, and everything checks out great...but the puppies are only 10 weeks old and I REALLY REALLY don't want to let them go until they're 12 weeks or older. The one they want is the biggest girl, Hailey, but I'm still just not comfortable with it... What should I tell them??? __________________ Nicki and all her babies www.madalooyorkies.com Ask me about the YT discount! http://www.madelinecouture.com/

05-10-2008, 11:19 AM	#2
jencar98 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 1,389	I would be a little concerned about it too. Why are they so impatient? Seems to me if you really want something badly, it's worth waiting for, especially just 2 weeks? I've known yorkie owners that waited months and even years until just the right one became available. __________________ ~Ruby & Reno~

05-10-2008, 11:47 AM	#7
fannie Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Missouri Posts: 1,387	I would just flat out tell them they'll have to wait until the puppies are 12 weeks old. It's in the best interest of the puppies. If they decide not to buy a puppy because of that, then is it really the best home? __________________ Steph, Mama to 6 skin babies and beautiful yorkies!www.sweetyorkies.com

05-10-2008, 02:01 PM	#13
Little Bit Tiny Dog Big Heart Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 4,603	If they are not patient enough to wait for two weeks will they be patient enough with training the pup, etc.? __________________ *Blue Sky Yorkies* "Lots of Love in a Little Package" Click Here for Washable Potty Pads and Belly Bands

05-10-2008, 02:38 PM	#14
nygee Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Miami, FL Posts: 237	They must respect your wishes... Always go with your instinct, and your beliefs, and in the best interest of the pup...If they are not willing to respect your decision, then let them find another pup... Its their loss... No one more than you, wants this pup to be healthy and well before going to their permanent home... I LoVe My FuRbAbIeS, NyGeE, GiZmO & GyPsY!!

05-10-2008, 12:07 PM	#9
Woogie Man YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Mississippi Posts: 427	maybe you could send them some pictures to hold them off until you're ready to let him go.

05-10-2008, 12:26 PM	#12
magicgenie Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: boston Posts: 53	Sounds like they need a Mother's Day present. Are you sure it's for them?

05-10-2008, 02:56 PM	#15
NanaDtreasures YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Lil Bitty Goat farm in Ohio Posts: 1,239	Hahaha,,,,same problem with my Dad Nicki.. But these poeple are not your dad. Hold firm, Are they getting pick of the litter? Then to me , its worth the trip to put a deposit down on pick of the litter for sure. If not let them go elsewhere. Dont let them pressure you girl. __________________ Debbi ~ I Yahoo as Nanadebstreasures Follow the 3 R's~~~ Respect for self...Respect for others ...Responsibility for all your actions