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03-25-2008, 01:32 PM | #1 |
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| I really do feel so guilty I feel so guilty I cant afford to take my Allie in for xrays to see and check on how many and how big the puppies are. My husband has been laid off the last month, he's a mason. I had several hundred dollars worth of bills for my Lea after xrays and everything when she died. Then I got the 2 puppies that needed vet checks. I had no idea about any of these things before I bred her She had a bit of trouble with the last puppy in her first litter, and it was born dead. But the other 4 were fine. I took her to the vet BEFORE I bred her this time, and had her testing done. And I bred her with the same stud I used before and the puppies were very little. I KNOW I should still take her.I just dont have the money. I guess I'm looking for ya all to pick on me...cause I know i deserve it. So let me have it. I feel so guilty
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03-25-2008, 01:34 PM | #2 |
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| Why would anyone beat you up when you are already doing such a good job of it yourself? Life happens, and its not like you expected this. Dont be so hard on yourself. Is there any way you can talk to your vet and see if they can do a payment plan with you?
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03-25-2008, 01:35 PM | #3 |
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| how much are the xrays where you live
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03-25-2008, 01:42 PM | #4 |
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| I tried to edit but it wouldnt let me. I do have emergency fund for c-section if needed. So I keep going back and forth...take her deb..then knowing if I do and she needs a c-section I will have to borrow money. Its not bad here. 37.00 for office visit and 65 for xray Its just money that I worry if I do need for her with a problem whelping I wont have. I know I'm just bashing myself for it. But I like to do things right for my babies
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03-25-2008, 01:48 PM | #5 | |
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03-25-2008, 01:52 PM | #6 |
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| I don't breed and know nothing about it but just wanted you know know that I will keep your little momma in my prayers. We all feel guilty at one time or another. Don't let it eat you up.
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03-25-2008, 01:56 PM | #7 |
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| I bet your vet would let you owe him the money. It's not that much and it's not like it's really costing him anything. It's more his services rendered. I would say don't worry too much about the x-ray but it seems like you would really feel it's important. That's why I suggest you call the vet. I hope everything works out perfectly. |
03-25-2008, 01:59 PM | #8 |
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| If I were in your shoes, I would definitely save that money for an emergancy. Not being able to pay for x-rays is one thing..not being able to pay for a c-section is a different story.. good luck
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03-25-2008, 02:00 PM | #9 |
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| Well pm me your email addy and I will paypal you the money for her xrays. I know how important it is to know, we are going for them next week. I know you were not asking for anyone to help, but I can and I want too
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03-25-2008, 02:04 PM | #10 | |
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Kim! That is SO nice of you!!
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03-25-2008, 02:05 PM | #11 |
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03-25-2008, 02:08 PM | #12 | |
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Thank you but no...I could never do that! Now I really feel quilty I just have to do what I think is best. And stop beating myself up over it. Money for C-secition is first. I know that. There wouldnt even be a question in my mind if this was her first litter or I had used a differnt stud.I'd take her and borrow the rest of themoney if a c-section was needed. Thank you again...Very sweet of you But no ((((hugs)))))
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03-25-2008, 02:13 PM | #13 | |
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03-25-2008, 02:15 PM | #14 | |
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It helps to hear this. I have a week and a half yet (april 3) I will really be watching over her this time. I know that they cant always tell you if the puppies are to big or not anyways. Even with xray that looks fine , she still may need c-section. Its just something I've done each time also.So I just feel guilty.
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03-25-2008, 02:18 PM | #15 | |
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