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NanaDtreasures · 03-25-2008, 01:32 PM

I feel so guilty

I cant afford to take my Allie in for xrays to see and check on how many and how big the puppies are.
My husband has been laid off the last month, he's a mason.
I had several hundred dollars worth of bills for my Lea after xrays and everything when she died.
Then I got the 2 puppies that needed vet checks.
I had no idea about any of these things before I bred her

She had a bit of trouble with the last puppy in her first litter, and it was born dead.
But the other 4 were fine.
I took her to the vet BEFORE I bred her this time, and had her testing done.
And I bred her with the same stud I used before and the puppies were very little.
I KNOW I should still take her.I just dont have the money.
I guess I'm looking for ya all to pick on me...cause I know i deserve it.

So let me have it. I feel so guilty

MindieRose · 03-25-2008, 01:34 PM

Why would anyone beat you up when you are already doing such a good job of it yourself?

Life happens, and its not like you expected this. Dont be so hard on yourself.
Is there any way you can talk to your vet and see if they can do a payment plan with you?

peanut · 03-25-2008, 01:35 PM

how much are the xrays where you live

NanaDtreasures · 03-25-2008, 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by peanut

how much are the xrays where you live

I tried to edit but it wouldnt let me.
I do have emergency fund for c-section if needed.

So I keep going back and forth...take her deb..then knowing if I do and she needs a c-section I will have to borrow money.
Its not bad here. 37.00 for office visit and 65 for xray
Its just money that I worry if I do need for her with a problem whelping I wont have.

I know I'm just bashing myself for it.
But I like to do things right for my babies

Brooklynn · 03-25-2008, 01:48 PM

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Originally Posted by NanaDtreasures

I tried to edit but it wouldnt let me.
I do have emergency fund for c-section if needed.

So I keep going back and forth...take her deb..then knowing if I do and she needs a c-section I will have to borrow money.
Its not bad here. 37.00 for office visit and 65 for xray
Its just money that I worry if I do need for her with a problem whelping I wont have.

I know I'm just bashing myself for it.
But I like to do things right for my babies

Although I believe in Xrays not every breeder does it

Just for me knowing how many helps. I'd keep the money for an emergency instead

Donna Bird
Brooklynn's Yorkshire Terriers

patty58 · 03-25-2008, 01:52 PM

I don't breed and know nothing about it but just wanted you know know that I will keep your little momma in my prayers. We all feel guilty at one time or another. Don't let it eat you up.

blitz · 03-25-2008, 01:56 PM

I bet your vet would let you owe him the money. It's not that much and it's not like it's really costing him anything. It's more his services rendered.

I would say don't worry too much about the x-ray but it seems like you would really feel it's important. That's why I suggest you call the vet.

I hope everything works out perfectly.

gutu28 · 03-25-2008, 01:59 PM

If I were in your shoes, I would definitely save that money for an emergancy. Not being able to pay for x-rays is one thing..not being able to pay for a c-section is a different story.. good luck

peanut · 03-25-2008, 02:00 PM

Well pm me your email addy and I will paypal you the money for her xrays. I know how important it is to know, we are going for them next week. I know you were not asking for anyone to help, but I can and I want too

gutu28 · 03-25-2008, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by peanut

Well pm me your email addy and I will paypal you the money for her xrays. I know how important it is to know, we are going for them next week. I know you were not asking for anyone to help, but I can and I want too

Kim! That is SO nice of you!!

ButterflyYorkie · 03-25-2008, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by peanut

Well pm me your email addy and I will paypal you the money for her xrays. I know how important it is to know, we are going for them next week. I know you were not asking for anyone to help, but I can and I want too

What a wonderful person you are.

NanaDtreasures · 03-25-2008, 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by peanut

Well pm me your email addy and I will paypal you the money for her xrays. I know how important it is to know, we are going for them next week. I know you were not asking for anyone to help, but I can and I want too

Oh my gosh...
Thank you but no...I could never do that!
Now I really feel quilty
I just have to do what I think is best.
And stop beating myself up over it.
Money for C-secition is first. I know that.
There wouldnt even be a question in my mind if this was her first litter
or I had used a differnt stud.I'd take her and borrow the rest of themoney if a c-section was needed.
Thank you again...Very sweet of you
But no ((((hugs)))))

peanut · 03-25-2008, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by NanaDtreasures

Oh my gosh...
Thank you but no...I could never do that!
Now I really feel quilty
I just have to do what I think is best.
And stop beating myself up over it.
Money for C-secition is first. I know that.
There wouldnt even be a question in my mind if this was her first litter
or I had used a differnt stud.I'd take her and borrow the rest of themoney if a c-section was needed.
Thank you again...Very sweet of you
But no ((((hugs)))))

I am not trying to make you feel guilty, please let me do this for you and the baby, like I said I have one going next week for xrays and I know it will be a relief off you to have a idea of how many, I am sorry if I made you feel worse, but I consider you as a yt family member, and I can do this for you and I really want to so please let me.

NanaDtreasures · 03-25-2008, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Brooklynn

Although I believe in Xrays not every breeder does it

Just for me knowing how many helps. I'd keep the money for an emergency instead

Donna Bird
Brooklynn's Yorkshire Terriers

Thank you Donna.
It helps to hear this.
I have a week and a half yet (april 3)
I will really be watching over her this time.
I know that they cant always tell you if the puppies are to big or not anyways.
Even with xray that looks fine , she still may need c-section.
Its just something I've done each time also.So I just feel guilty.

pepe mint · 03-25-2008, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by peanut

I am not trying to make you feel guilty, please let me do this for you and the baby, like I said I have one going next week for xrays and I know it will be a relief off you to have a idea of how many, I am sorry if I made you feel worse, but I consider you as a yt family member, and I can do this for you and I really want to so please let me.

kim.....honey...you truly are THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!

03-25-2008, 01:32 PM	#1
NanaDtreasures YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Lil Bitty Goat farm in Ohio Posts: 1,286	I really do feel so guilty I feel so guilty I cant afford to take my Allie in for xrays to see and check on how many and how big the puppies are. My husband has been laid off the last month, he's a mason. I had several hundred dollars worth of bills for my Lea after xrays and everything when she died. Then I got the 2 puppies that needed vet checks. I had no idea about any of these things before I bred her She had a bit of trouble with the last puppy in her first litter, and it was born dead. But the other 4 were fine. I took her to the vet BEFORE I bred her this time, and had her testing done. And I bred her with the same stud I used before and the puppies were very little. I KNOW I should still take her.I just dont have the money. I guess I'm looking for ya all to pick on me...cause I know i deserve it. So let me have it. I feel so guilty __________________ Debbi ~ I Yahoo as Nanadebstreasures Follow the 3 R's~~~ Respect for self...Respect for others ...Responsibility for all your actions

03-25-2008, 01:34 PM	#2
MindieRose YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Michigan Posts: 568	Why would anyone beat you up when you are already doing such a good job of it yourself? Life happens, and its not like you expected this. Dont be so hard on yourself. Is there any way you can talk to your vet and see if they can do a payment plan with you? __________________ Proud Mommy of Gavin, Ethan, Morgan, Nia, Olivia, and Kiana. Also Mommy to Cleo(Maltipoo), Joe and Lola(Shih-Tzus), Lilly Appletini and Diesel(Yorkies).

03-25-2008, 01:35 PM	#3
peanut Dogs Rule Cats Drool! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,280	how much are the xrays where you live __________________ KIM http://dogster.com/?307164 http://dogster.com/?375879The Monkeys http://www.photoshow.com/watch/PH5fy9Ff

03-25-2008, 01:52 PM	#6
patty58 Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: texas Posts: 4,857	I don't breed and know nothing about it but just wanted you know know that I will keep your little momma in my prayers. We all feel guilty at one time or another. Don't let it eat you up. __________________ Patty, Murfee's Mommy Believe Everything Happens For A Reason

03-25-2008, 01:59 PM	#8
gutu28 Lovin' the Cali kisses! Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Lawrenceville, Georgia Posts: 2,974	If I were in your shoes, I would definitely save that money for an emergancy. Not being able to pay for x-rays is one thing..not being able to pay for a c-section is a different story.. good luck __________________ Larissa and Cali Let's go Georgia Bulldogs!

03-25-2008, 01:56 PM	#7
blitz No Longer a Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: California Posts: 127	I bet your vet would let you owe him the money. It's not that much and it's not like it's really costing him anything. It's more his services rendered. I would say don't worry too much about the x-ray but it seems like you would really feel it's important. That's why I suggest you call the vet. I hope everything works out perfectly.

03-25-2008, 02:00 PM	#9
peanut Dogs Rule Cats Drool! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,280	Well pm me your email addy and I will paypal you the money for her xrays. I know how important it is to know, we are going for them next week. I know you were not asking for anyone to help, but I can and I want too __________________ KIM http://dogster.com/?307164 http://dogster.com/?375879The Monkeys http://www.photoshow.com/watch/PH5fy9Ff