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qraven · 03-06-2008, 08:10 AM

Well it seems I am object of negative conversation about us leaving my Bubbles at the vet,I normally just ignore ignorant people but in this case I want why to be known.

1: the puppies were to big for her to deliver
2: I had to be at PT and Chemo all day Weds and later today as well as Friday
3: My husband just had a diagonosis and was having scans to get into the Oncologist and hmmm he has an aneurysm of the descending aorta just diagonosed so had that Dr as well. Also had 1 other medical er to deal. As many know I am not able to drive!
4: She would have been alone all day and had she needed help she would have suffered needlessly for hrs until we would be able to rush her to the vet.

I never in my wildest dreams thought I would be harrassed over giving my dogs medical attention and we when picked her up she was very happy and trust me you know when Bubbles is happy. She had the attention of the whole clinic and she DID NOT HAVE HER BABIES ALONE NOR DID SHE SUFFER! that was the whole point of leaving her in a vets care!

Now with that said ... how many of you would have done the same thing ? She was due just anytime and did have them early yesterday morn under watrchful eyes and he said she did fine by herself.

Personally I feel I did what was best for her since he feared the pups were going to be to big for her to deliver.

PrestigeousYT · 03-06-2008, 08:13 AM

I missed this thread about your girl. I am sorry that people were giving you a hard time.
I am glad you were able to leave her at the vet since you could not be with her. It would have been terrible to have simply left her home alone, you were responsible in making sure she was in the care of your vet.
Life sometimes doesn't go well with our plans.
I hope you and your husbands health is on the mend and your girl does fine with her pups.
Best of luck to you

Deana
Prestigeous Yorkies

Bizzymammabee · 03-06-2008, 08:15 AM

Missed the thread. Deplorable that people gave you a hard time about it. I think you did the best thing for everyone concerned. Pay them no mind. You had to take care of very important things and made sure that she would be in no danger in case she did start labor.

feminvstr · 03-06-2008, 08:20 AM

dont WASTE another thought on what others are saying, you did the best by your girl and her babies considering the circumstances.

I hope your hubby gets well soon, those new babies will be sure to make him smile during his recovery...

congrats!

a2luckygirl · 03-06-2008, 08:32 AM

I didn't see it either, But no one knoows what you need to do more than you! I am sure you did what you thought was the best for the new Momma- And it worked out fine- and that is the main thing!
I hope you & hubby get well soon!
sounds like you got way to much going on now!!
Hugs to U!!!

Potter · 03-06-2008, 08:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by feminvstr

dont WASTE another thought on what others are saying, you did the best by your girl and her babies considering the circumstances.

I hope your hubby gets well soon, those new babies will be sure to make him smile during his recovery...

congrats!

BamaFan121s · 03-06-2008, 08:50 AM

Hmm...I looked back for other threads to see what the situation you are referring to was or where you told Bubbles story before now, but I couldn't find one--so either it was deleted altogether, or this relates to something going on OFF of YT...

In any event, it sounds like you did the only thing you could do and it was truly what was best for your girl--I can't imagine being able to dedicate the time needed for breeding on top of having to deal with everything you mentioned.

Sounds like you need a much needed vacation!

LunasMomma · 03-06-2008, 09:35 AM

Oh it just SUCKS that people that don't even know the whole story have the nerve to say bad things

You did what was best for your girl and that's all that matters.

Prayers going up for you and your husband, and of course for your new momma and babies as well

patty58 · 03-06-2008, 10:20 AM

Awww Honey I am so sorry you got slammed. There seems to be an epidemic of that lately. I don't know the story and haven't gone to look it up....nor will I. I think we all do the best we can and know what our babies need. It sounds to me like you have enough to deal with now and don't need to deal with rudeness also. I will keep you and your hubby in my prayers. Please take care of yourselves. Congrats on the new babies.

betsi · 03-06-2008, 10:26 AM

Sorry about you and your husband's medical problems. Hopefully they will be resolved soon. Congrats on your new puppies. Take care of yourself and God Bless You! Betsi

Yorkiedaze · 03-06-2008, 10:50 AM

I'd say you have more than your share of problems right now, and I wouldn't give a hoot what anyone says or thinks. You know you did the right thing and so do all of us here. Big warm hugs to you and your husband.

I will certainly be praying for both of you.

YorkieRose · 03-06-2008, 10:52 AM

Some people here on YT are such miserable humans, they only know one way to make themselves feel better...and that is to attack others and make them feel worse. If you feel bad, then they feel better...

Zanders' mom · 03-06-2008, 10:59 AM

Sorry to hear what you and your hubby are going through. You are doing the right thing for yourself, your hubby and your baby girl, that's it. Let all that negativity just rrrroolll right off girl.
God bless you and be with you through your tough times.

Jody Renfroe · 03-06-2008, 12:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by a2luckygirl

I didn't see it either, But no one knoows what you need to do more than you! I am sure you did what you thought was the best for the new Momma- And it worked out fine- and that is the main thing!
I hope you & hubby get well soon!
sounds like you got way to much going on now!!
Hugs to U!!!

s13silviagirl · 03-06-2008, 12:08 PM

***HUGS*** I hope everything is going well for the new mommy and her babies...and I do hope that your hubby is feeling better soon!

03-06-2008, 08:10 AM	#1
qraven Donating YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: TX Posts: 441	Left at the vets Well it seems I am object of negative conversation about us leaving my Bubbles at the vet,I normally just ignore ignorant people but in this case I want why to be known. 1: the puppies were to big for her to deliver 2: I had to be at PT and Chemo all day Weds and later today as well as Friday 3: My husband just had a diagonosis and was having scans to get into the Oncologist and hmmm he has an aneurysm of the descending aorta just diagonosed so had that Dr as well. Also had 1 other medical er to deal. As many know I am not able to drive! 4: She would have been alone all day and had she needed help she would have suffered needlessly for hrs until we would be able to rush her to the vet. I never in my wildest dreams thought I would be harrassed over giving my dogs medical attention and we when picked her up she was very happy and trust me you know when Bubbles is happy. She had the attention of the whole clinic and she DID NOT HAVE HER BABIES ALONE NOR DID SHE SUFFER! that was the whole point of leaving her in a vets care! Now with that said ... how many of you would have done the same thing ? She was due just anytime and did have them early yesterday morn under watrchful eyes and he said she did fine by herself. Personally I feel I did what was best for her since he feared the pups were going to be to big for her to deliver. __________________ Vicki www.magic-dragons.com www.roobearyorkies.net

03-06-2008, 08:15 AM	#3
Bizzymammabee Luvs Lulu Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Queens, NY Posts: 6,174	Missed the thread. Deplorable that people gave you a hard time about it. I think you did the best thing for everyone concerned. Pay them no mind. You had to take care of very important things and made sure that she would be in no danger in case she did start labor. __________________ Beth mommie to Zoey & Toby Proud member of Petite Pups United! RIP Lulu. My world will never be the same without you. 12/31/07

03-06-2008, 08:20 AM	#4
feminvstr Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Portland Oregon Posts: 4,398	dont WASTE another thought on what others are saying, you did the best by your girl and her babies considering the circumstances. I hope your hubby gets well soon, those new babies will be sure to make him smile during his recovery... congrats! __________________ Kimberly

03-06-2008, 08:32 AM	#5
a2luckygirl YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: RIGHT NOW- MO! Posts: 1,969	I didn't see it either, But no one knoows what you need to do more than you! I am sure you did what you thought was the best for the new Momma- And it worked out fine- and that is the main thing! I hope you & hubby get well soon! sounds like you got way to much going on now!! Hugs to U!!! __________________ :I PLAYING....THE BANJO........ AND KISSING MY MOMMY GO TEAM EMMA

03-06-2008, 08:50 AM	#7
BamaFan121s YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Alabama Posts: 7,972	Hmm...I looked back for other threads to see what the situation you are referring to was or where you told Bubbles story before now, but I couldn't find one--so either it was deleted altogether, or this relates to something going on OFF of YT... In any event, it sounds like you did the only thing you could do and it was truly what was best for your girl--I can't imagine being able to dedicate the time needed for breeding on top of having to deal with everything you mentioned. Sounds like you need a much needed vacation! __________________ ...........Misty........... Trixie * Lexi * Chipsie

03-06-2008, 08:13 AM	#2
PrestigeousYT YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: WV Posts: 1,466	I missed this thread about your girl. I am sorry that people were giving you a hard time. I am glad you were able to leave her at the vet since you could not be with her. It would have been terrible to have simply left her home alone, you were responsible in making sure she was in the care of your vet. Life sometimes doesn't go well with our plans. I hope you and your husbands health is on the mend and your girl does fine with her pups. Best of luck to you Deana Prestigeous Yorkies

03-06-2008, 09:35 AM	#8
LunasMomma Izzy's Momma Too! Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Stuart, Florida Posts: 5,008	Oh it just SUCKS that people that don't even know the whole story have the nerve to say bad things You did what was best for your girl and that's all that matters. Prayers going up for you and your husband, and of course for your new momma and babies as well __________________ Card Carrying Member of the Crazy AND Pink Clubs

03-06-2008, 10:20 AM	#9
patty58 Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: texas Posts: 4,875	Awww Honey I am so sorry you got slammed. There seems to be an epidemic of that lately. I don't know the story and haven't gone to look it up....nor will I. I think we all do the best we can and know what our babies need. It sounds to me like you have enough to deal with now and don't need to deal with rudeness also. I will keep you and your hubby in my prayers. Please take care of yourselves. Congrats on the new babies. __________________ Patty, Murfee's Mommy Believe Everything Happens For A Reason

03-06-2008, 10:26 AM	#10
betsi Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: texas Posts: 422	Sorry about you and your husband's medical problems. Hopefully they will be resolved soon. Congrats on your new puppies. Take care of yourself and God Bless You! Betsi __________________ Mom to Boomer and his BIG brother, Jack

03-06-2008, 10:50 AM	#11
Yorkiedaze My hairy-legged girls Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: lompoc, ca. Posts: 7,105	I'd say you have more than your share of problems right now, and I wouldn't give a hoot what anyone says or thinks. You know you did the right thing and so do all of us here. Big warm hugs to you and your husband. I will certainly be praying for both of you.

03-06-2008, 10:52 AM	#12
YorkieRose YT 4000 Club Member Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: South Florida Posts: 7,207	litter Some people here on YT are such miserable humans, they only know one way to make themselves feel better...and that is to attack others and make them feel worse. If you feel bad, then they feel better... __________________ Pat, Kate, Becca and Pinkkee Prim

03-06-2008, 10:59 AM	#13
Zanders' mom Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 904	Sorry to hear what you and your hubby are going through. You are doing the right thing for yourself, your hubby and your baby girl, that's it. Let all that negativity just rrrroolll right off girl. God bless you and be with you through your tough times. __________________ Jazzie's InsPAWrations Affordable Custom Pet Clothing With GOD .... All things ARE possible!

03-06-2008, 12:08 PM	#15
s13silviagirl Donating YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Sunny Southern California!!!! Posts: 1,867	*HUGS* I hope everything is going well for the new mommy and her babies...and I do hope that your hubby is feeling better soon! __________________ My cute little Turbo butt! and cute Callie girl YES, we are also avid members of the CRAZYCLUB & Little Gentleman's Club! Turbo 's Tumi!!!