Mona - I think anyone who has to invest in a nanny cam to see if their boyfriend is mistreating their dog - Well - this just isn't the type of relationship I would want to be in. This is not a good thing.
And - being on a forum like this with your concerns (discussing them, worrying about them, etc) also makes me think "I wouldn't want to be there."
I think what you are doing is okay - but you shouldn't need to do these things. I think most of us here without having to ask others - or spy - know intuitively whether or not our husbands or boyfriends would even be capable of doing such things to our pets.
I may not be expressing myself well - because I certainly am not criticizing you. You are wonderful, caring as much as you do, and wanting to find out as much as you can about what's going on.
I wish you the best of luck and am glad you're on YT. I hope your boyfriend isn't hurting or being mean to your little dog. Keep in touch!
Carol Jean |