It bothers you because you sound like a genuinely caring, nice person. For me turning 40 set me free and I can't tell you what 50 did for me. I try not to offend anyone and I try to work out issues by sitting down and discussing the problem and hopefully coming to a solution. BUT..once that is all done, and I'm not getting any where, then too bad, its now your problem not mine. I refuse to become an emotional hostage. I think what happens, as you get older you take stock of your priorities and figure whats really important in your life and there are some situations that you just will not stress over.
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Nedda & My Girls Desi & Millie & my boy Ricky |