I'm sort of in the same postition as you - I've always been independant too - we can't force someone to be who we want and we have to accept them as they are and just go with the flow - sometimes it is just HARD WORK....but in your fiance's case it sounds like he's trying and other factors are in the way...maybe he should look somewhere else to work ? Do you think he needs a change of job in order to move forward ? Many times we WANT to make a change but the first step is the hardest....
I wish you all the luck I can send your way and hope things get better |