Have you looked at the fabric on SissyAngelWear? I love her harness vest and harness dresses. If you did a patriotic theme, it would work for both sexes. She has some really cute things.
I had to actually use a harness vest she made Gizmo to walk him one day because we couldn't find another one. It held up great! I even had to pick him up by the D ring at one point to move him away from cat poop, and the velcro held.
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The fullness of our heart is expressed in our eyes, in our touch, in what we write, in what we say, in the way we walk, the way we receive, the way we need. -Mother Teresa (
RIP Gizmo 3/9/07-8/18/12)